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Working my double this weekend... There's like a foot of snow... And it's close-open... Pain... Pain...
January 17, 2026 at 7:11 PM
Working my double this weekend... There's like a foot of snow... And it's close-open... Pain... Pain...
Anyway, it's not that I'm entirely uninterested in sex but I need it framed in a certain way to get into it. I've heard it described as brakes vs accelerators and I have more of the former than the latter. Oh I also need to be completely relaxed with someone and we can't jump right into it
January 17, 2026 at 2:41 PM
Anyway, it's not that I'm entirely uninterested in sex but I need it framed in a certain way to get into it. I've heard it described as brakes vs accelerators and I have more of the former than the latter. Oh I also need to be completely relaxed with someone and we can't jump right into it
I want to talk about this on an nsfw account because I saw someone say the same thing some time ago. But it's hard to shake the pressure to perform sexuality to avoid questions or making waves, so I tend to just go along with things unless I meet someone in person
January 17, 2026 at 2:31 PM
I want to talk about this on an nsfw account because I saw someone say the same thing some time ago. But it's hard to shake the pressure to perform sexuality to avoid questions or making waves, so I tend to just go along with things unless I meet someone in person
I made good progress on this but it's on my mind again so I'll vent about it briefly: I have a (somewhat) unique relationship with sex compared to most other gay men and it kind of alienates me when I talk about it with other people
January 17, 2026 at 2:28 PM
I made good progress on this but it's on my mind again so I'll vent about it briefly: I have a (somewhat) unique relationship with sex compared to most other gay men and it kind of alienates me when I talk about it with other people
"getting over" child abuse isn't really something you just do, but I've made peace with what happened to me and can accept who I am despite it all. That's progress.
January 13, 2026 at 6:40 PM
"getting over" child abuse isn't really something you just do, but I've made peace with what happened to me and can accept who I am despite it all. That's progress.
"I'm miserable and hate life. You know what would fix this? Having a baby"
January 10, 2026 at 7:25 PM
"I'm miserable and hate life. You know what would fix this? Having a baby"
I think it would be received poorly by most furries but I think the Tomcat rat is very cute
January 10, 2026 at 6:01 PM
I think it would be received poorly by most furries but I think the Tomcat rat is very cute
Reddit is consistently the most miserable place on the Internet
January 10, 2026 at 5:22 PM
Reddit is consistently the most miserable place on the Internet
Treating myself to one (1) vent post:
Being gay is extremely isolating and sucky sometimes (usually). I thought that when I came out I would find like-minded gay men and queer community but honestly I've only ever had luck online. I'm basically closeted atp and my life is arguably better for it :(
Being gay is extremely isolating and sucky sometimes (usually). I thought that when I came out I would find like-minded gay men and queer community but honestly I've only ever had luck online. I'm basically closeted atp and my life is arguably better for it :(
January 8, 2026 at 3:25 PM
Treating myself to one (1) vent post:
Being gay is extremely isolating and sucky sometimes (usually). I thought that when I came out I would find like-minded gay men and queer community but honestly I've only ever had luck online. I'm basically closeted atp and my life is arguably better for it :(
Being gay is extremely isolating and sucky sometimes (usually). I thought that when I came out I would find like-minded gay men and queer community but honestly I've only ever had luck online. I'm basically closeted atp and my life is arguably better for it :(
I'm so glad to have finally internalized "people irl: hey man how's it going" because I think current events would have made me extremely annoying and insane online otherwise
January 5, 2026 at 5:12 PM
I'm so glad to have finally internalized "people irl: hey man how's it going" because I think current events would have made me extremely annoying and insane online otherwise
A rabbits gotta do what a rabbits gotta do
January 2, 2026 at 7:24 PM
A rabbits gotta do what a rabbits gotta do
In the beginning, God made a heavenly plant... and its name was cilantro
December 27, 2025 at 1:28 AM
In the beginning, God made a heavenly plant... and its name was cilantro
There are "me" problems and "you" problems and I think that the majority of things that bother me are the former. It takes a lot of humility to acknowledge it but I was wrong in trying to get other people to solve those problems for me. I can take it
December 26, 2025 at 6:29 PM
There are "me" problems and "you" problems and I think that the majority of things that bother me are the former. It takes a lot of humility to acknowledge it but I was wrong in trying to get other people to solve those problems for me. I can take it
I didn't know who I was so I couldn't be myself. When I stopped trying to be like everyone else my life got a little better
December 26, 2025 at 4:08 PM
I didn't know who I was so I couldn't be myself. When I stopped trying to be like everyone else my life got a little better
loneliness and telling all your business on social media
YouTube video by Dezzy Jones
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December 22, 2025 at 7:47 PM
Why get a cat if you're just going to yell at it
December 15, 2025 at 9:13 PM
Why get a cat if you're just going to yell at it
"Only black person at the venue" syndrome must be studied for the psychic harm it causes
December 12, 2025 at 2:49 AM
"Only black person at the venue" syndrome must be studied for the psychic harm it causes
I don't want to get hashtag political but it's genuinely very scary and aggravating to watch things happen and be completely powerless to stop any of it
December 11, 2025 at 7:20 PM
I don't want to get hashtag political but it's genuinely very scary and aggravating to watch things happen and be completely powerless to stop any of it
Ever since I accepted being some flavor of asexual I noticed that I have no need to chase validation of my gaiety with hookups or external signifiers. It's actually kinda isolating and it makes me feel "less" gay sometimes but it's way more peaceful than trying to Prove Something
December 11, 2025 at 2:54 PM
Ever since I accepted being some flavor of asexual I noticed that I have no need to chase validation of my gaiety with hookups or external signifiers. It's actually kinda isolating and it makes me feel "less" gay sometimes but it's way more peaceful than trying to Prove Something
God... O God...
December 10, 2025 at 12:41 AM
God... O God...
It's a dog eat dog world out there. Lucky for me, I'm a rabbit
December 8, 2025 at 4:10 PM
It's a dog eat dog world out there. Lucky for me, I'm a rabbit