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Brian Anderson
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What can I do to help you become the person you want to be?

Profile pic taken in Québec City. Banner pic taken at Alfred University.

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Winchester Cathedral, the one whose Norman Tower fell in 1107 shortly after it was built (and shortly after William II was interred beneath it)?
November 13, 2025 at 1:10 PM
Of course, I didn't say that it *worked* particularly well as a mode of socialization, even before the smartphone age. Just that it was an observed behavior.
November 12, 2025 at 1:39 PM
In college we used to push the sofas in the dorm lounges together and loll in various ways on the couchboat.
November 11, 2025 at 9:30 PM
Making the bedroom truly a restroom.
November 11, 2025 at 9:10 PM
Reposted by Brian Anderson
It's the "spiral" motif. Anglosphere culture has had "spiral" overcoded as "mystic" for all history. Tornadoes, hurricanes, whirlpools, sunwheels, tops, sacred geometry, Scooby Doo intro segments. They hunger for the hour to come around at last
November 11, 2025 at 8:46 PM
I didn't vote for either of them in the primary, but yes, in the general he seemed like the best option and our best hope for never hearing from Oz again.
November 11, 2025 at 8:08 PM
Socks are one of the few chances men get to wear color!
November 11, 2025 at 7:49 PM
Good Lord, the most sympathetic character in the entire poem is Hector, the family man who doesn't even want to fight.
November 11, 2025 at 7:08 PM
One of my halfway-serious arguments about Star Wars is that making Darth Vader Luke's father was the worst decision for the series.
November 11, 2025 at 6:57 PM
I mean, it's not wrong. And FLW was well known for not considering people and their needs.

But I still got emotionally overcome by the design of the building when I visited it.
November 11, 2025 at 6:32 PM
And the lashing out is fear -- fear that what they thought was the only interesting thing about them is going away. Or even worse, is shared by many, many others and isn't all that interesting. (7/7)
November 11, 2025 at 6:20 PM
Sometimes they were hoping that Their Thing would at least make them seem a little more interesting to girls. But if girls can do it just as well, then they don't even need him! (6/7)
November 11, 2025 at 6:20 PM
If it was a niche nerdy thing before, they feel like they (and the millions of other people who eventually made it popular) should be owed a living by this non-person thing they adopted. (5/7)
November 11, 2025 at 6:20 PM
"You were supposed to be my friend!" they huff at Marvel or whomever, and the response from Major Motion Picture Studio is an honest version of Jon Hamm saying, "I don't think about you at all." (4/7)
November 11, 2025 at 6:20 PM
The problem comes when they make it an integral part of their personality. Then when something upsets that -- the EU gets decanonized, there's a new series that's different -- it feels like a personal attack, and they lash out. (3/7)
November 11, 2025 at 6:20 PM
The important thing is that it needs to be a visible thing but have a finite amount of knowledge, so one can become an expert. And that way they get to be the Star Wars guy or whatever instead of Random Teenage Boy. (2/7)
November 11, 2025 at 6:20 PM