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@arborithem.bsky.social
they/them . disabled genderqueer butch . friend of dogs and plants and books
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@arborithem.bsky.social
· Aug 29
hey folks, if anyone wants to help me out a bit and also get a fun reading to help you out, let me know!
if you tip extra ill let my dog pick a card for you too, if you want me to.
#mutualaid #tarot
if you tip extra ill let my dog pick a card for you too, if you want me to.
#mutualaid #tarot
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If folks can help out and share, please do!
My mobility has degraded very much, and I'm to the point I need help. Thank you!
gofund.me/92daaf5c4
My mobility has degraded very much, and I'm to the point I need help. Thank you!
gofund.me/92daaf5c4
Donate to Help Torin Gain Mobility with a Power Chair, organized by Torin Bowen
Hello everyone! My name is Torin, and I am a chronically ill person. I have t… Torin Bowen needs your support for Help Torin Gain Mobility with a Power Chair
gofund.me
December 1, 2025 at 10:05 PM
If folks can help out and share, please do!
My mobility has degraded very much, and I'm to the point I need help. Thank you!
gofund.me/92daaf5c4
My mobility has degraded very much, and I'm to the point I need help. Thank you!
gofund.me/92daaf5c4
i specifically avoided talking about them to mutual friends/etc and then see them vague about me and talk about plans to do something thats specifically a trigger of mine. they probably dont remember that it is. but that does make me sad
November 27, 2025 at 8:42 AM
i specifically avoided talking about them to mutual friends/etc and then see them vague about me and talk about plans to do something thats specifically a trigger of mine. they probably dont remember that it is. but that does make me sad
its hard not to let it feed into the negative self beliefs after everything else that happened and everyone else i lost that same year.
November 27, 2025 at 8:37 AM
its hard not to let it feed into the negative self beliefs after everything else that happened and everyone else i lost that same year.
its wild watching yourself become a villain to someone else based on things they decided you felt, that... you didnt.
November 27, 2025 at 7:49 AM
its wild watching yourself become a villain to someone else based on things they decided you felt, that... you didnt.
sometimes people get rly invested in speaking authoritatively about things and people they openly admit to not knowing hardly anything about and like... you can, no ones stopping you, but like why?
i just unfollow bc its not worth it to try to discuss when they've decided theyre Right TM already
i just unfollow bc its not worth it to try to discuss when they've decided theyre Right TM already
October 29, 2025 at 12:33 PM
sometimes people get rly invested in speaking authoritatively about things and people they openly admit to not knowing hardly anything about and like... you can, no ones stopping you, but like why?
i just unfollow bc its not worth it to try to discuss when they've decided theyre Right TM already
i just unfollow bc its not worth it to try to discuss when they've decided theyre Right TM already
an incomplete list of things that i remember that i am glad exist when i am not this sad:
yellow potatoes
lava lamps
secretary desks
dogs
chocolate ganache
kinks
tomatoes
marigolds
rats
soup
rice
mangos
hot tea
crocheted stuffies
horror movies
cuddling
queer people
pocket knives
caribiners
love
yellow potatoes
lava lamps
secretary desks
dogs
chocolate ganache
kinks
tomatoes
marigolds
rats
soup
rice
mangos
hot tea
crocheted stuffies
horror movies
cuddling
queer people
pocket knives
caribiners
love
October 20, 2025 at 5:30 PM
an incomplete list of things that i remember that i am glad exist when i am not this sad:
yellow potatoes
lava lamps
secretary desks
dogs
chocolate ganache
kinks
tomatoes
marigolds
rats
soup
rice
mangos
hot tea
crocheted stuffies
horror movies
cuddling
queer people
pocket knives
caribiners
love
yellow potatoes
lava lamps
secretary desks
dogs
chocolate ganache
kinks
tomatoes
marigolds
rats
soup
rice
mangos
hot tea
crocheted stuffies
horror movies
cuddling
queer people
pocket knives
caribiners
love
its wild how you will improve your coping mechanisms and your quality of life and your baseline average happiness tenfold and yet you will still have mental illness and live under capitalism and fascism and sometimes one of multiple of those will hit you like a train.
anyway, im sad today.
anyway, im sad today.
October 20, 2025 at 5:26 PM
its wild how you will improve your coping mechanisms and your quality of life and your baseline average happiness tenfold and yet you will still have mental illness and live under capitalism and fascism and sometimes one of multiple of those will hit you like a train.
anyway, im sad today.
anyway, im sad today.
i love halloween decoration crafts!!!!! 🎃 we made a jack o lantern door mat! who has more good halloween decor craft ideas to share?
October 12, 2025 at 2:27 PM
i love halloween decoration crafts!!!!! 🎃 we made a jack o lantern door mat! who has more good halloween decor craft ideas to share?
sometimes i fixate in real hard on a task ive been avoiding forever suddenly and obsessively and then later realize its because my coworkers gave me caffeine and it made the "choose to focus on things" toggle work again for a bit
October 9, 2025 at 12:26 PM
sometimes i fixate in real hard on a task ive been avoiding forever suddenly and obsessively and then later realize its because my coworkers gave me caffeine and it made the "choose to focus on things" toggle work again for a bit
real sex talk: showing consideration and proactivity to your partner is a pre requisite to everything else you do being hot for a LOT of people. when you do that, you give them more space to turn off their brain and just enjoy things with you.
October 4, 2025 at 2:59 PM
real sex talk: showing consideration and proactivity to your partner is a pre requisite to everything else you do being hot for a LOT of people. when you do that, you give them more space to turn off their brain and just enjoy things with you.
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This is why we fund scientists to study things like oyster slobber even if you don’t think it sounds important
⚠️ Chinese researchers have invented bone glue that mimics how oysters stick to surfaces underwater.
The adhesive can reportedly repair orthopedic fractures in 2-3 minutes, even in blood-rich environments, and is bioabsorbable.
interestingengineering.com/science/chin...
The adhesive can reportedly repair orthopedic fractures in 2-3 minutes, even in blood-rich environments, and is bioabsorbable.
interestingengineering.com/science/chin...
China's oyster-inspired 'bone glue' bonds fractures in minutes
A new oyster-inspired Bone-02 adhesive can revolutionize bone repair without metal fasteners.
interestingengineering.com
September 30, 2025 at 10:35 PM
This is why we fund scientists to study things like oyster slobber even if you don’t think it sounds important
people who i leave really dont seem to understand that i dont leave people because i no longer love them. i leave because eventually, i can no longer tolerate them hurting me just because i love them. eventually, if you cannot stop yourself from hurting me, i will remove your access to me. thats it.
October 2, 2025 at 3:13 AM
people who i leave really dont seem to understand that i dont leave people because i no longer love them. i leave because eventually, i can no longer tolerate them hurting me just because i love them. eventually, if you cannot stop yourself from hurting me, i will remove your access to me. thats it.
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Miss Major, one of the mothers of the trans liberation movement, has been in the hospital for 10 days with sepsis and a blood clot. She has looked out for us for generations, now it’s time to look out for her. Donate if you can: fundly.com/missmajor
September 30, 2025 at 7:28 PM
Miss Major, one of the mothers of the trans liberation movement, has been in the hospital for 10 days with sepsis and a blood clot. She has looked out for us for generations, now it’s time to look out for her. Donate if you can: fundly.com/missmajor
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Jane Goodall, ethologist and conservationist, has died. She was 91
October 1, 2025 at 6:02 PM
Jane Goodall, ethologist and conservationist, has died. She was 91
juni scared himself with his own fart this morning. this is not the first time this has happened
October 2, 2025 at 2:52 AM
juni scared himself with his own fart this morning. this is not the first time this has happened
if i catch up out er vet bills, next i want to start trying to do readings toward saving for a new bed that wont make our chronic pain worse or dislocate our shoulders constantly next. its been getting Bad.
September 27, 2025 at 6:39 AM
if i catch up out er vet bills, next i want to start trying to do readings toward saving for a new bed that wont make our chronic pain worse or dislocate our shoulders constantly next. its been getting Bad.
had to have dental work done and i hate it :(
September 26, 2025 at 8:54 PM
had to have dental work done and i hate it :(
i havent paid off his ER vet bills but i did have enough support to replace his meds and they should be here in a couple days. i dont know how to express what a massive relief this is.
or how nervous i feel with the bottle now tbh. hes been on these meds id guess 5 yrs & it never happened before.
or how nervous i feel with the bottle now tbh. hes been on these meds id guess 5 yrs & it never happened before.
im feeling really loved and held by my community this week 😭 thank you to everyone who has been being supportive of me in a multitude of ways as i dealt with the meds crisis this week.
September 26, 2025 at 12:08 PM
i havent paid off his ER vet bills but i did have enough support to replace his meds and they should be here in a couple days. i dont know how to express what a massive relief this is.
or how nervous i feel with the bottle now tbh. hes been on these meds id guess 5 yrs & it never happened before.
or how nervous i feel with the bottle now tbh. hes been on these meds id guess 5 yrs & it never happened before.
im feeling really loved and held by my community this week 😭 thank you to everyone who has been being supportive of me in a multitude of ways as i dealt with the meds crisis this week.
September 26, 2025 at 2:02 AM
im feeling really loved and held by my community this week 😭 thank you to everyone who has been being supportive of me in a multitude of ways as i dealt with the meds crisis this week.
These are still open and would help a ton - Juni's very expensive allergy meds that prevent him from needing the ER vet somehow fell into a water bowl overnight, got water in the bottle, and entirely dissolved. It's $320 to replace and I still haven't paid off his other ER vet visits yet. #mutualaid
hey folks, if anyone wants to help me out a bit and also get a fun reading to help you out, let me know!
if you tip extra ill let my dog pick a card for you too, if you want me to.
#mutualaid #tarot
if you tip extra ill let my dog pick a card for you too, if you want me to.
#mutualaid #tarot
September 24, 2025 at 6:29 PM
These are still open and would help a ton - Juni's very expensive allergy meds that prevent him from needing the ER vet somehow fell into a water bowl overnight, got water in the bottle, and entirely dissolved. It's $320 to replace and I still haven't paid off his other ER vet visits yet. #mutualaid
obviously my dog needs spirit halloween gear too
September 24, 2025 at 12:28 PM
obviously my dog needs spirit halloween gear too
im learning to let go of what hurts me before it has been hurting me for 10 years and im proud of that growth even though it hurts
September 22, 2025 at 4:15 AM
im learning to let go of what hurts me before it has been hurting me for 10 years and im proud of that growth even though it hurts
i really started out using caps and punctuation on here because it feels more like a place people do that and it quickly degraded back to my usual no caps tbh
September 17, 2025 at 2:37 PM
i really started out using caps and punctuation on here because it feels more like a place people do that and it quickly degraded back to my usual no caps tbh
reminder that these are still open, i adore reading for others, and also im still broke and it makes a huge difference
hey folks, if anyone wants to help me out a bit and also get a fun reading to help you out, let me know!
if you tip extra ill let my dog pick a card for you too, if you want me to.
#mutualaid #tarot
if you tip extra ill let my dog pick a card for you too, if you want me to.
#mutualaid #tarot
September 10, 2025 at 10:59 PM
reminder that these are still open, i adore reading for others, and also im still broke and it makes a huge difference