Afsa Rosette
@afsarosette.bsky.social
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🌱Locs & Healing 💋
❤️You don’t have to struggle in silence
💕Safe space for the real lovers
🌱Locs & Healing 💋
❤️You don’t have to struggle in silence
💕Safe space for the real lovers
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Afsa Rosette
@afsarosette.bsky.social
· Nov 16
Hey loves,
This space is for anyone holding onto love too tightly, afraid to let it go, or for those who’ve built walls to keep it out & how we can heal and grow from it all.
No judgment here; just real convo about navigating life & love.
Let’s start there. 🌸
This space is for anyone holding onto love too tightly, afraid to let it go, or for those who’ve built walls to keep it out & how we can heal and grow from it all.
No judgment here; just real convo about navigating life & love.
Let’s start there. 🌸
If you want to understand how emotionally safe someone is don’t ask, confront. Gently with warmth. Bring up something they did that hurt you. Not an accusation, but curiosity. Watch how they hold you. Do they reflect, or deflect? That’ll show you everything about their capacity to love
November 6, 2025 at 10:44 PM
If you want to understand how emotionally safe someone is don’t ask, confront. Gently with warmth. Bring up something they did that hurt you. Not an accusation, but curiosity. Watch how they hold you. Do they reflect, or deflect? That’ll show you everything about their capacity to love
Don’t teach ppl they can betray you twice: Even if your self worth is in the gutter, the bare min you owe yourself is to stay gone. Even if you have to write ‘don’t text them’ on your mirror. You stay gone. You’ll never rebuild your self respect where you lost it.
August 4, 2025 at 11:50 PM
Don’t teach ppl they can betray you twice: Even if your self worth is in the gutter, the bare min you owe yourself is to stay gone. Even if you have to write ‘don’t text them’ on your mirror. You stay gone. You’ll never rebuild your self respect where you lost it.
I should start posting on here more
August 4, 2025 at 11:49 PM
I should start posting on here more
Healing is when you become harder to fool & easier to love. And maturing is realising you’re not just picking a partner. You’re picking how safe it’ll feel later. You’re choosing the soil from which your next seasons of self esteem will grow… or rot.
April 27, 2025 at 11:28 PM
Healing is when you become harder to fool & easier to love. And maturing is realising you’re not just picking a partner. You’re picking how safe it’ll feel later. You’re choosing the soil from which your next seasons of self esteem will grow… or rot.
You’ve been loud for love your whole life. Now it’s time to let love find you in your quiet.
April 27, 2025 at 11:25 PM
You’ve been loud for love your whole life. Now it’s time to let love find you in your quiet.
There’s a kind of love that requires you to shrink in order to stay but there’s also a kind of self love that requires you to leave in order to expand.
April 27, 2025 at 11:25 PM
There’s a kind of love that requires you to shrink in order to stay but there’s also a kind of self love that requires you to leave in order to expand.
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April 13, 2025 at 5:34 PM
If you’re someone who likes depth. You’re more prone to attracting avoidants. They’ll bring intellect & at first it’ll feel like you’re compatible. Until you realise you’re engaging with a mind but the heart is in lockdown. Remember one sees you. The other just studies you.
April 14, 2025 at 12:28 PM
If you’re someone who likes depth. You’re more prone to attracting avoidants. They’ll bring intellect & at first it’ll feel like you’re compatible. Until you realise you’re engaging with a mind but the heart is in lockdown. Remember one sees you. The other just studies you.
I really don’t see myself cutting them. Locs>>>
April 11, 2025 at 5:14 PM
I really don’t see myself cutting them. Locs>>>
You’ve been loud for love your whole life. Now it’s time to let love find you in your quiet.
April 9, 2025 at 7:41 PM
You’ve been loud for love your whole life. Now it’s time to let love find you in your quiet.
Some ppl don’t starve for love, they just like the taste. They pull you close, not bc they see your worth, but bc your presence makes them feel something. Less empty. Less numb. A person can adore the way you love them and still have no intention of holding you right.
February 27, 2025 at 12:10 AM
Some ppl don’t starve for love, they just like the taste. They pull you close, not bc they see your worth, but bc your presence makes them feel something. Less empty. Less numb. A person can adore the way you love them and still have no intention of holding you right.
Deep convos are my safe place. My love language is intellectual intimacy. There’s something about peeling back the layers of who we are, tracing the roots of our emotion & mapping out the way our pasts shape our present that feels like home to me.
February 26, 2025 at 11:58 PM
Deep convos are my safe place. My love language is intellectual intimacy. There’s something about peeling back the layers of who we are, tracing the roots of our emotion & mapping out the way our pasts shape our present that feels like home to me.
Ppl will admire your depth until it’s time to swim in it.
They’ll praise your wisdom until it holds them accountable… love your light until it exposes their shadows.
They’ll crave your energy until they realise it’s not free…
They’ll praise your wisdom until it holds them accountable… love your light until it exposes their shadows.
They’ll crave your energy until they realise it’s not free…
January 31, 2025 at 9:12 AM
Ppl will admire your depth until it’s time to swim in it.
They’ll praise your wisdom until it holds them accountable… love your light until it exposes their shadows.
They’ll crave your energy until they realise it’s not free…
They’ll praise your wisdom until it holds them accountable… love your light until it exposes their shadows.
They’ll crave your energy until they realise it’s not free…
If you’re someone who isn’t superficial or shallow, you’ll naturally attract a lot of ppl who are intrigued by your depth but they’ll also be pulled away by it too. Your depth is intimidating. 1/7
January 18, 2025 at 10:29 PM
If you’re someone who isn’t superficial or shallow, you’ll naturally attract a lot of ppl who are intrigued by your depth but they’ll also be pulled away by it too. Your depth is intimidating. 1/7
This year has really taught me ppl will come into your life to test your discernment.
When you pray for healing, you’ll be challenged to either change or stay grounded in who you are, even when energies try to confuse or distract you.
1/6
When you pray for healing, you’ll be challenged to either change or stay grounded in who you are, even when energies try to confuse or distract you.
1/6
December 28, 2024 at 12:29 PM
This year has really taught me ppl will come into your life to test your discernment.
When you pray for healing, you’ll be challenged to either change or stay grounded in who you are, even when energies try to confuse or distract you.
1/6
When you pray for healing, you’ll be challenged to either change or stay grounded in who you are, even when energies try to confuse or distract you.
1/6
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At a point in my life where I’d take dressing up and going to dinner over partying anyyyy day!!! Wholesome activities only 😭
December 24, 2024 at 3:00 AM
At a point in my life where I’d take dressing up and going to dinner over partying anyyyy day!!! Wholesome activities only 😭
Instead of decentering men, y’all should focus on centering yourselves. Bc let’s be real…some of you aren’t actually decentering anything. You’re just swapping one distraction for another.
December 24, 2024 at 4:45 AM
Instead of decentering men, y’all should focus on centering yourselves. Bc let’s be real…some of you aren’t actually decentering anything. You’re just swapping one distraction for another.
The older I get the more I realise you should really be friends with someone for a while before dating. There’s so much you learn about a person when they’re just a friend. You stop idealising who they might be and start seeing them for who they really are.
December 24, 2024 at 4:40 AM
The older I get the more I realise you should really be friends with someone for a while before dating. There’s so much you learn about a person when they’re just a friend. You stop idealising who they might be and start seeing them for who they really are.
When you’re a woman who used to put everyone else first, you learn the hard way that selflessness without boundaries will destroy you.
December 24, 2024 at 4:40 AM
When you’re a woman who used to put everyone else first, you learn the hard way that selflessness without boundaries will destroy you.
Ghosting hits diff when you’ve experienced abandonment before. It isn’t just the silence, it’s the way it feels like history repeating.
It stops being about them but takes you back to those earlier moments in life when you were left behind by people you thought would be there.
It stops being about them but takes you back to those earlier moments in life when you were left behind by people you thought would be there.
December 20, 2024 at 10:36 AM
Ghosting hits diff when you’ve experienced abandonment before. It isn’t just the silence, it’s the way it feels like history repeating.
It stops being about them but takes you back to those earlier moments in life when you were left behind by people you thought would be there.
It stops being about them but takes you back to those earlier moments in life when you were left behind by people you thought would be there.
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I really think women who date men need to be stricter. If someone hasn't explicitly shown you consistent tenderness and affection as well as expressed intention then what are we really doing here! Don't waste your own time. He's chilling! It's up to you to set your boundaries and protect your heart
November 21, 2024 at 9:53 PM
I really think women who date men need to be stricter. If someone hasn't explicitly shown you consistent tenderness and affection as well as expressed intention then what are we really doing here! Don't waste your own time. He's chilling! It's up to you to set your boundaries and protect your heart
I remember being so naive in my younger years & thinking, “If he doesn’t cheat, my man is faithful, and that’s all that matters.” But let me tell you, I’ve learned the hard way that loyalty is just the baseline.
November 30, 2024 at 3:58 AM
I remember being so naive in my younger years & thinking, “If he doesn’t cheat, my man is faithful, and that’s all that matters.” But let me tell you, I’ve learned the hard way that loyalty is just the baseline.