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Wallflower Queen
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A weekly newsletter for single women* who will not compromise.
Romance is Tyranny!
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November 17, 2025 at 11:11 PM
November 16, 2025 at 2:43 PM
How not to do equity
Attempts at fixing gender equality at leadership level all tell us to adopt behaviours largely exhibited by men to ‘get there’: be more assertive& ambitious, less humble, sensitive & reflective etc. They don’t tell men to adopt any of our dominant behaviours. This messaging is in itself patriarchal.
November 15, 2025 at 1:56 PM
Available NOW! Link in Bio
November 15, 2025 at 1:11 PM
It actually boggles the mind. Just saw a documentary about Roy Cohn . . . which explains A LOT.
It cannot be remembered enough that these were the same people who got worked up about drag brunches
November 15, 2025 at 8:52 AM
November 14, 2025 at 1:11 PM
People in relationships ask if I get lonely. Sometimes. But I also get to control the thermostat. So who’s really winning?

If you believe romance is tyranny, you've found your people!

What do you love about being single?
November 13, 2025 at 11:11 PM
For a minute there I thought the Dems were playing checkers. Maybe it is chess after all.
#Epsteinfiles
November 12, 2025 at 6:09 PM
November 12, 2025 at 4:25 PM
November 11, 2025 at 4:24 PM
November 10, 2025 at 4:21 PM
Respect.
My biological pronoun?
Ok I guess, but you better get comfortable, this is going to take a while.

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November 9, 2025 at 12:57 AM
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I used to think love stories started with two people. Turns out, mine started when I recognized me and myself.
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November 9, 2025 at 12:48 AM
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I've just put the finishing touches on Wallflower Life's second issue! It drops on 11/08 at 8am. Don't miss it. Subscribe!

In this issue: Can traditional masculinity survive the financially independent woman?
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November 8, 2025 at 3:55 AM
Reposted by Wallflower Queen
it appears some need reminding:
1) indigenous peoples (native americans) are not immigrants
2) black americans are not immigrants
November 5, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Europeans recognize Zohran Mamdani’s supposedly radical policies as ‘normal’ - The Guardian

… big sigh …
November 6, 2025 at 6:58 PM
The phrase “just single” doesn’t apply here. Try “unapologetically single and thriving.”

New newsletter this Saturday. Yay!

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November 6, 2025 at 1:57 AM
I love being my own daddy. How do you pamper yourself when you're single?

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Weekly joy for single ladies who refuse to compromise.
November 5, 2025 at 12:49 AM
❤️
Just what he needed
November 4, 2025 at 11:53 AM
Springing forward results in sleep cycle disruptions that many people cannot resolve. It is a matter of biology. It isn’t just about switching. It is about circadian rhythms and that remains a problem during daylight savings. Standard time better aligns with nature. Can we please respect nature?!
“Permanent Standard Time (not springing ahead in March) could prevent 300,000 cases of stroke per year and lower nationwide prevalence of obesity by 2.6 million.” #DitchDST
November 4, 2025 at 11:49 AM
Imagine how many genius opportunities are lost at the feet of ridiculous and unfounded blanket assumptions about sex and gender, based in patriarchal fears that feed obsessions with diminishing and maintaining control over women, even when partnering with women would positively benefit everyone.
«the incorporation of measures to include women in post-conflict society in a peace agreement reduces the probability of conflict recurrence by 11%. If this process occurs alongside UN leadership, the probability of conflict recurrence is reduced by 37%"
Involving women in peace deals reduces chance of a conflict restarting by up to 37%
A comprehensive study of recent civil wars highlights the role women can play in sustainable peace processes.
theconversation.com
November 4, 2025 at 11:33 AM
I just watched Oceans 11 on AMC. Let that percolate. 😳
November 4, 2025 at 2:17 AM
This week in Wallflower Life . . .
November 3, 2025 at 11:11 PM
Seriously. The dominant narrative doesn’t just happen.
This never stops being true, but I’m not sure Ds have ever, at least in my lifetime, learned to apply it for good. *Creating* public opinion either never occurs to them, or if it does, offends their sensibilities? It’s exasperating
November 3, 2025 at 12:44 PM