Val
validheart.bsky.social
Val
@validheart.bsky.social
People are amazing! Artist. Wife. Mom of adults. ExChristian. Exvangelical. At home in Alberta, wishing for a better province. (she/her) Wishes she had a pet.
I don’t have a real cat so can’t share those pictures, but thought I’d share my painting of three cats. This canvas sold, so it’s time to paint more 🩵🧡💙🩷
November 20, 2024 at 2:09 AM
Is there a way to find trending topics on Bluesky? It’s the one thing I can’t find and miss from the old place.
November 17, 2024 at 6:45 AM
“I love you” means more when you don’t add the word “but…” or “still” or “even though…”. So much for unconditional.
Being around a family of faith after your own deconversion has some really sad moments.
November 14, 2024 at 2:39 AM
Bluesky seems like a safe space to ask about Covid vaccines. Is one a year still a good idea? I have heard advice from a doctor and med personnel that they build up in us and aren’t needed annually. Is this more like the yearly flu vaccine or like childhood vaccines that don’t need repeating?
November 13, 2024 at 1:35 AM
Reposted by Val
OK folks, it's time to start thinking about #ArtAdventCalendar. This year will be huge with the number of folks on Bluesky now. Between December 1 and December 24, post a photo daily of an original piece of your own work with the hashtag. Doesn't have to be new or themed. Just post. For details 👇
#ArtAdventCalendar
In its 10th year, #artadventcalendar participants post an original piece of art from Dec 1-24. Paintings, drawings, sculpture, textiles, beading, photography. If it’s art and it beautifi…
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November 2, 2024 at 6:23 PM
When I really want to learn, I read my physical copy of the book as I listen to the audio book while taking notes. Guess that makes me a multi-tasking visual/auditory/kinesthetic learner. Anyone else multi-talented or should I say multi-challenged like me?
November 10, 2024 at 3:17 AM

Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion, too
Imagine all the people
Livin' life in peace

You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one

🎶🎵Imagine…John Lennon
November 10, 2024 at 3:05 AM
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'Sometimes things don't go, after all, from bad to worse' Thinking a lot about this poem today.
July 6, 2024 at 7:39 AM

Dear Christian, how do you respond to me, an exchristian, or someone like me? Do I scare you? Could we be friends? Will you avoid me? Do you wish me well?

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Dear Christian, how do you respond to me or someone like me?
Dear Christian, how do you respond to me or someone like me? Do I scare you? Could we be friends? Will you avoid me? Do you wish me well?
www.validheart.ca
June 28, 2024 at 2:05 AM
It's my Blogiversary! It has been a year since I started sharing my journey on my blog. Today I want to talk about Christianity as my Legacy and as my Addiction. Should I feel shame in stepping away from my heritage? Was I addicted to Christianity?

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Christianity as My Legacy and as My Addiction
Christianity as my Legacy and as my Addiction. Should I feel shame in stepping away from my heritage? Was I addicted to Christianity?
www.validheart.ca
June 15, 2024 at 3:53 AM
Wrote another blog. This one talks about how I gave up all control to God and why I took it back. Also the struggle of how I still give my control to people who criticize me.
So thankful I can live my life free and not as a servant of the Christian god.

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Regaining Control After God
I gave God complete control of me and believed he controlled the world. I have taken that control back. Now I want to be a free me.
www.validheart.ca
June 8, 2024 at 12:45 AM
Happy Pride Month. May all my friends find safety, community, support and full acceptance everywhere they go.
June 1, 2024 at 10:58 PM
Val’s art www.validart.ca
June 1, 2024 at 2:22 AM
I share my art as I blog. If you want to see more, feel free to check out instagram @validart.ca or facebook ValidArt

Or my website
www.validart.ca
Custom Art and Paintings | ValidArt | Edmonton
ValidArt is an eclectic collective of artists who love to create! We offer unique original artwork including acrylic paintings and more.
www.validart.ca
June 1, 2024 at 2:18 AM
Here is my latest blog.

www.validheart.ca/post/20-reas...

In “20 Reasons Christians Don’t Leave Their Faith” I want to encourage you to examine what you believe, why you believe and what the result of those beliefs are for you, others and the world.
20 Reasons Christians Don't Leave Their Faith
I want to encourage you to examine what you believe, why you believe and what the result of those beliefs are for you, others and the world.
www.validheart.ca
June 1, 2024 at 2:13 AM
I blog at www.validheart.ca/newsletters

I have written 40 blogs including my story, my concerns about Christianity and the church and what it has been like to deconstruct then deconvert.
Newsletters | ValidHeart Supports
Need to talk? Val Martens is a mentor and life coach who loves to listen.
www.validheart.ca
June 1, 2024 at 2:11 AM
Who I am and what I blog…

I am a 58f who spent well over 50 of her years as a dedicated and devoted Christian, full of faith and convinced that would never change. It did change. Dramatically. To the shock of myself, my church and my friends and family. I deconverted. I write about it.
June 1, 2024 at 2:07 AM