Jessica aka "Dr Jay"
@therealdoctorjay.bsky.social
44, Cis, She/Her. Sexy Mama 👩👩👧👧
Proud immigrant 🇮🇪Warrior 💪🏼
Board certified reproductive endocrinologist and sex therapist
Recovering Catholic ✝️
Swimmer 🏊🏼♀️ Runner 🏃🏽♀️ Hiker 🚶🏽♀️
Cinephile who probably watches too many movies and too much TV 🍿
Proud immigrant 🇮🇪Warrior 💪🏼
Board certified reproductive endocrinologist and sex therapist
Recovering Catholic ✝️
Swimmer 🏊🏼♀️ Runner 🏃🏽♀️ Hiker 🚶🏽♀️
Cinephile who probably watches too many movies and too much TV 🍿
Pinned
two women are sitting at a table and one of them is saying ' insensitive '
Alt: two women are sitting at a table and one of them is saying ' insensitive '
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The holidays mean seeing people I haven't seen in a long time.
Yes, my hair grew back brown after my red hair fell out.
Yes, I know I look very thin.
Yes, my replacement breasts look different from the ones they took out.
I know I've had cancer.
You can just say "it's nice to see you."
Yes, my hair grew back brown after my red hair fell out.
Yes, I know I look very thin.
Yes, my replacement breasts look different from the ones they took out.
I know I've had cancer.
You can just say "it's nice to see you."
My New Years Eve theme song this year.
🎶And did you think this fool could never win?
Well, look at me, I'm coming back again
I got a taste of love in a simple way
And if you need to know while I'm still standing, you just fade away🎶
🎶And did you think this fool could never win?
Well, look at me, I'm coming back again
I got a taste of love in a simple way
And if you need to know while I'm still standing, you just fade away🎶
a man in a suit and hat is standing on the beach and says yeah
Alt: a man in a suit and hat is standing on the beach and says yeah
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December 31, 2025 at 5:49 PM
My New Years Eve theme song this year.
🎶And did you think this fool could never win?
Well, look at me, I'm coming back again
I got a taste of love in a simple way
And if you need to know while I'm still standing, you just fade away🎶
🎶And did you think this fool could never win?
Well, look at me, I'm coming back again
I got a taste of love in a simple way
And if you need to know while I'm still standing, you just fade away🎶
Most of what Dr. Oz said actually wasn't that bad. Yes, sleep is the most important thing we do for our health. Whole foods, activity, sunlight- all good.
But you start out with your anti-vax rant, then you lose all credibility...again
thehill.com/policy/healt...
But you start out with your anti-vax rant, then you lose all credibility...again
thehill.com/policy/healt...
thehill.com
December 31, 2025 at 2:22 PM
Most of what Dr. Oz said actually wasn't that bad. Yes, sleep is the most important thing we do for our health. Whole foods, activity, sunlight- all good.
But you start out with your anti-vax rant, then you lose all credibility...again
thehill.com/policy/healt...
But you start out with your anti-vax rant, then you lose all credibility...again
thehill.com/policy/healt...
Me to 2025… 🖤
December 31, 2025 at 12:05 PM
Me to 2025… 🖤
Later guys, my ride is here!
December 31, 2025 at 1:00 AM
Later guys, my ride is here!
What's with the influx of porn bot accounts to Bluesky this past week, and why are they all following me?
December 30, 2025 at 10:09 PM
What's with the influx of porn bot accounts to Bluesky this past week, and why are they all following me?
The holidays mean seeing people I haven't seen in a long time.
Yes, my hair grew back brown after my red hair fell out.
Yes, I know I look very thin.
Yes, my replacement breasts look different from the ones they took out.
I know I've had cancer.
You can just say "it's nice to see you."
Yes, my hair grew back brown after my red hair fell out.
Yes, I know I look very thin.
Yes, my replacement breasts look different from the ones they took out.
I know I've had cancer.
You can just say "it's nice to see you."
two women are sitting at a table and one of them is saying ' insensitive '
Alt: two women are sitting at a table and one of them is saying ' insensitive '
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December 30, 2025 at 4:26 PM
The holidays mean seeing people I haven't seen in a long time.
Yes, my hair grew back brown after my red hair fell out.
Yes, I know I look very thin.
Yes, my replacement breasts look different from the ones they took out.
I know I've had cancer.
You can just say "it's nice to see you."
Yes, my hair grew back brown after my red hair fell out.
Yes, I know I look very thin.
Yes, my replacement breasts look different from the ones they took out.
I know I've had cancer.
You can just say "it's nice to see you."
Share a great male villain!
December 30, 2025 at 3:04 PM
Share a great male villain!
Basic laws of life:
When the thermostat dies, it won't be during mild weather. It will always be on one of the coldest nights of the year.
It just needed new batteries. But not before downstairs temperature went down to 52 overnight.
When the thermostat dies, it won't be during mild weather. It will always be on one of the coldest nights of the year.
It just needed new batteries. But not before downstairs temperature went down to 52 overnight.
anna from the movie frozen is wearing a purple cape and gloves
Alt: anna from the movie frozen is wearing a purple cape and gloves
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December 30, 2025 at 12:22 PM
Basic laws of life:
When the thermostat dies, it won't be during mild weather. It will always be on one of the coldest nights of the year.
It just needed new batteries. But not before downstairs temperature went down to 52 overnight.
When the thermostat dies, it won't be during mild weather. It will always be on one of the coldest nights of the year.
It just needed new batteries. But not before downstairs temperature went down to 52 overnight.
I know I’ve become an old lady when somebody asking me what I’m doing on New Year’s Eve throws me off.
"Umm, well, I am going to eat some pad Thai and watch When Harry Met Sally, and then go to bed… Probably well before midnight"
"Umm, well, I am going to eat some pad Thai and watch When Harry Met Sally, and then go to bed… Probably well before midnight"
December 29, 2025 at 3:50 AM
I know I’ve become an old lady when somebody asking me what I’m doing on New Year’s Eve throws me off.
"Umm, well, I am going to eat some pad Thai and watch When Harry Met Sally, and then go to bed… Probably well before midnight"
"Umm, well, I am going to eat some pad Thai and watch When Harry Met Sally, and then go to bed… Probably well before midnight"
Explain your username:
I am a board certified reproductive endocrinologist and sex therapist, known to my clients as Dr. Jay
I am a board certified reproductive endocrinologist and sex therapist, known to my clients as Dr. Jay
Explain your username:
I used to stream and I was known as cosyzoze, then a streamer friend started calling me Zozo beware (play on WWE wrestler koko b.ware) so I ended up rebranding, everyone asked if Zozo was the demon, then summonZozo was formed and I've been known as Zozo ever since hahaha
I used to stream and I was known as cosyzoze, then a streamer friend started calling me Zozo beware (play on WWE wrestler koko b.ware) so I ended up rebranding, everyone asked if Zozo was the demon, then summonZozo was formed and I've been known as Zozo ever since hahaha
December 29, 2025 at 3:45 AM
Explain your username:
I am a board certified reproductive endocrinologist and sex therapist, known to my clients as Dr. Jay
I am a board certified reproductive endocrinologist and sex therapist, known to my clients as Dr. Jay
hare one of your favorite comfort TV shows. 📺
My choice:
My choice:
December 28, 2025 at 2:31 PM
hare one of your favorite comfort TV shows. 📺
My choice:
My choice:
My LetterBoxd Year In Review:
I watched 175 movies that I had never seen before this year.
My favorite: Interstellar (5⭐)
Least favorite: Home Alone 4 (0.5⭐)
My Biggest Surprise: Sinners (5⭐)
My Biggest Disappointment: Materialists (3⭐)
30 of the 185 films were 2025 releases.
#filmsky #movies
I watched 175 movies that I had never seen before this year.
My favorite: Interstellar (5⭐)
Least favorite: Home Alone 4 (0.5⭐)
My Biggest Surprise: Sinners (5⭐)
My Biggest Disappointment: Materialists (3⭐)
30 of the 185 films were 2025 releases.
#filmsky #movies
December 28, 2025 at 11:52 AM
It isn't necessarily fair for outsiders to define what is sheeting in a relationship. The boundaries of trust will vary between people. People often fail at expressing those boundaries, though. So what is often in fact benign behavior then gets met with accusations of cheating
Is it cheating if your partner watches porn? Fantasizes about someone else? Flirts with another person? Shares their secrets with someone other than you? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202508/what-does-and-doesnt-count-as-cheating
What Counts as Cheating in Relationships Today?
For one in three people, sexting with an AI would be cheating.
www.psychologytoday.com
December 28, 2025 at 11:21 AM
It isn't necessarily fair for outsiders to define what is sheeting in a relationship. The boundaries of trust will vary between people. People often fail at expressing those boundaries, though. So what is often in fact benign behavior then gets met with accusations of cheating
Post a perfect album from the 90s that isn’t by Eiffel 65, Aqua, Vengaboys, or Rednex
December 28, 2025 at 11:14 AM
Post a perfect album from the 90s that isn’t by Eiffel 65, Aqua, Vengaboys, or Rednex
First of all, I want to say thank you to all who expressed concern and offered support over my sister's arrest and deportation. Due to the case and also in respect to her privacy that she's entitled to, I can't talk about it. I've actually deleted that original post.
December 28, 2025 at 3:36 AM
First of all, I want to say thank you to all who expressed concern and offered support over my sister's arrest and deportation. Due to the case and also in respect to her privacy that she's entitled to, I can't talk about it. I've actually deleted that original post.
Saturday Day Date: buying @msbonnielynne.bsky.social a burger and a double Jameson after she shoveled 6 inches of snow from all 200 feet of driveway.
I've got a good one!
I've got a good one!
December 27, 2025 at 6:01 PM
Saturday Day Date: buying @msbonnielynne.bsky.social a burger and a double Jameson after she shoveled 6 inches of snow from all 200 feet of driveway.
I've got a good one!
I've got a good one!
My partner and I were binging the Christmas episodes of The Office last night.
It's a good show on it's own, but the Christmas episodes are next level hilarious.
"Happy Birthday, Jesus. Sorry your party is so lame."
It's a good show on it's own, but the Christmas episodes are next level hilarious.
"Happy Birthday, Jesus. Sorry your party is so lame."
a man wearing a santa hat and a tie says this is christmas spirit
Alt: a man wearing a santa hat and a tie says this is christmas spirit
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December 18, 2025 at 1:03 PM
My partner and I were binging the Christmas episodes of The Office last night.
It's a good show on it's own, but the Christmas episodes are next level hilarious.
"Happy Birthday, Jesus. Sorry your party is so lame."
It's a good show on it's own, but the Christmas episodes are next level hilarious.
"Happy Birthday, Jesus. Sorry your party is so lame."
I've done a dive into Rob Reiner films (This Is Spinal Tap, When Harry Met Sally, A Few Good Men) the last couple days. The more I think about it, the more I get upset at POSOTUS vile attack on Reiner.
He seemed like such a nice, loving man. And you attack him hours after his murder? Over politics?
He seemed like such a nice, loving man. And you attack him hours after his murder? Over politics?
a woman is standing in front of a sign that says pathetic
Alt: a woman is standing in front of a sign that says pathetic
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December 17, 2025 at 12:59 PM
I've done a dive into Rob Reiner films (This Is Spinal Tap, When Harry Met Sally, A Few Good Men) the last couple days. The more I think about it, the more I get upset at POSOTUS vile attack on Reiner.
He seemed like such a nice, loving man. And you attack him hours after his murder? Over politics?
He seemed like such a nice, loving man. And you attack him hours after his murder? Over politics?
Went out to dinner tonight with my partner.
I ordered the “country chicken dinner."
Server: "And your 2nd side?"
Me: "i’ll go with the mac & cheese."
"you still want the mashed potatoes?”
"Yep!"
Her: "Someone likes her carbs!"
...and someone likes her gratuity getting knocked down to 12%
I ordered the “country chicken dinner."
Server: "And your 2nd side?"
Me: "i’ll go with the mac & cheese."
"you still want the mashed potatoes?”
"Yep!"
Her: "Someone likes her carbs!"
...and someone likes her gratuity getting knocked down to 12%
a woman in a denim jacket says very disrespectful
Alt: a woman in a denim jacket says very disrespectful
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December 17, 2025 at 1:44 AM
Went out to dinner tonight with my partner.
I ordered the “country chicken dinner."
Server: "And your 2nd side?"
Me: "i’ll go with the mac & cheese."
"you still want the mashed potatoes?”
"Yep!"
Her: "Someone likes her carbs!"
...and someone likes her gratuity getting knocked down to 12%
I ordered the “country chicken dinner."
Server: "And your 2nd side?"
Me: "i’ll go with the mac & cheese."
"you still want the mashed potatoes?”
"Yep!"
Her: "Someone likes her carbs!"
...and someone likes her gratuity getting knocked down to 12%
Which movie quote lives rent-free in your head? 🖤
December 17, 2025 at 1:25 AM
Which movie quote lives rent-free in your head? 🖤
On a brighter note, I went outside to take in my trash barrels, and the temperature is up to 1C under bright sun, and it felt glorious!
December 16, 2025 at 5:58 PM
On a brighter note, I went outside to take in my trash barrels, and the temperature is up to 1C under bright sun, and it felt glorious!
Just going to say it. I do NOT like Christmas Vacation. I don't get the obsession with this "American Classic". Chevy Chase is not only as obnoxious on screen as he is in real life, his characters are flat and one dimensional. Does it have some good lines? Sure. But most are juvenile. #filmsky
December 16, 2025 at 5:56 PM
Just going to say it. I do NOT like Christmas Vacation. I don't get the obsession with this "American Classic". Chevy Chase is not only as obnoxious on screen as he is in real life, his characters are flat and one dimensional. Does it have some good lines? Sure. But most are juvenile. #filmsky
Quiet, piggy
December 15, 2025 at 9:07 PM
Quiet, piggy
I was a sex worker through much of my 20's and 30's.
I say this openly, without shame.
Many of my clients lived with challenges that made every single day such a struggle all they could do is just get through it.
A little empathy goes a long way.
I say this openly, without shame.
Many of my clients lived with challenges that made every single day such a struggle all they could do is just get through it.
A little empathy goes a long way.
Sex with a sex worker who is engaged in the work consensually, enthusiastically, and with a full sense of agency can be profoundly helpful to some.
Some find the affection restorative.
Some find the sex dopaminergic.
Some feel included.
Some stave off loneliness.
Some learn manners.
Some find the affection restorative.
Some find the sex dopaminergic.
Some feel included.
Some stave off loneliness.
Some learn manners.
December 14, 2025 at 10:29 PM
I was a sex worker through much of my 20's and 30's.
I say this openly, without shame.
Many of my clients lived with challenges that made every single day such a struggle all they could do is just get through it.
A little empathy goes a long way.
I say this openly, without shame.
Many of my clients lived with challenges that made every single day such a struggle all they could do is just get through it.
A little empathy goes a long way.