thedefunctdiva
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thedefunctdiva
@thedefunctdiva.bsky.social
Former Performer. Our Lady of Perpetual Inflammation. Immune Funky Vampire. Hot Potato.
I sang the song “Hero” by Mariah Carey for a high school talent show. I joke that I peaked in junior high school, but the song still has great personal relevance. So it is the song of the day.
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July 1, 2025 at 11:26 PM
“Round Here” by Counting Crows is the best song I’ve ever heard about mental illness.

It’s a contemplative narrative that perfectly exemplifies the melancholy inherent in those with severe mental health problems.

#songoftheday
June 24, 2025 at 3:14 PM
I am a bit under the weather so the song today is “Adelaide’s Lament” from “Guys and Dolls,” sung by the incomparable Barbara Streisand.
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June 14, 2025 at 11:08 PM
I am a bit under the weather so the song today is “Adelaide’s Lament” from “Guys and Dolls,” sung by the incomparable Barbara Streisand.
#songoftheday
June 14, 2025 at 1:14 PM
The song “Rain” by Madonna was played at the funeral of a family friend many years ago. For a long time I had a hard time listening to it.

But it’s raining in Boise, ID and I can think of no better song to honor those we’ve lost today. Thank you for your music, Madonna. ❤️
#songoftheday
June 11, 2025 at 3:09 PM
“Against All Odds” by Phil Collins conveys such a longing and desperation. It’s beautiful. I am a huge fan of Collins and his body of work. I need to seek out more concert footage of him and/or Genesis…
#songoftheday
June 10, 2025 at 5:23 PM
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“Stripping away this lifeline leaves LGBTQ+ youth with the message that their lives are not worth saving. We refuse to accept that message.” variety.com/2025/politic...
Pedro Pascal, Ariana Grande and Dua Lipa Sign Open Letter Supporting Federal Funding for LGBTQ+ Youth Suicide Prevention
Pedro Pascal, Ariana Grande and Dua Lipa are among more than 100 celebs siging an open letter to protect federal funding for LGBTQ youth suicide prevention.
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June 3, 2025 at 2:05 AM
Doing things differently to catch up. Compiling a random playlist for May. “Simple Math” by Manchester Orchestra is a masterpiece.

Fight me.

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Defunct Diva’s SOTD May
Playlist · The Defunct Diva · 10 items
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May 24, 2025 at 12:09 PM
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A haunted house, but it's just me alone with my symptoms with no treatment in sight
May 24, 2025 at 12:01 PM
“So much to say.” So much rain fog
March 18, 2025 at 10:34 AM
Oh…is this why I could never find a use for all my fascination with movie trivia and writing? Gonna have to be more succinct while warning others in the only way I can with full transparency?
A “parasite” like me?
Shit, I’ve been waiting this whole time to get back to that.
Fellow artists, join me!
March 18, 2025 at 10:00 AM
@kevinly79.bsky.social, when you are in a good haha mediocre headspace, I need to stop some unsubstantiated rumors spread by unreliable narrators. Without doxxing publicly. Because as salty as I am, I am the worst when letting go of things not meant for me, no matter how dear. “Such a mess.” 1/2
March 18, 2025 at 9:53 AM
Narcissist come in many forms. But no matter how shiny the snake oil he’s selling or how beautiful he seems. He has no empathy and therefore no soul.
March 18, 2025 at 6:17 AM
Song of the day is “I’m all out of fucks,” Air Supply.
Whoops. I meant all out of love. Or did I…?

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“All out of Love”
SOTD is “All out of Love.” Because I’m all out of fucks, will not explain things over while I am unpacking some complex trauma, and trying to unpack my actual stuff, so that I can do the stuff that…
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March 17, 2025 at 4:51 AM
If you want to know (hell, not even all of) the roots of my Sky Daddy issues, here ya go. This is why I need to stay away from socials a while. I desperately want to do what I love again. Singing and acting.
Just stop. I am fully team Satan now. 🔥 thedefunctdiva.wordpress.com/2025/03/15/j...
“Judith” Tool. IYKYK.
This one is very dark. If you are a person of religion, this more specifically applies to others repeated attempts to convert me as well as what just happened. I will not be wasting any more energy…
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March 15, 2025 at 12:16 AM
Even if I can’t stand up, I am determined to rise up somehow. Music can save you even when you can’t seem to save yourself.

Let’s “roll with it.” All of Us.
March 14, 2025 at 5:14 PM
No more words, just pain today. Still trying to find the music that can truly save me.
Today’s song is “Blur” by Mø and Foster the people. Click if you want to.
March 13, 2025 at 11:09 PM
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Why talk to text for writing is a porch oyster for me:

My family keeps laughing at my texts because even when my voice and enunciation are fine, the words I choose don’t translate as intended.

For example, this:
March 12, 2025 at 4:43 PM
In honor of the late, great (nay, incredible) Madeline Kahn and the joy she brings me when I see or hear her sing it, the SOTD is…

“I’m Tired,” from the iconic Mel Brooks film “Blazing Saddles.”

I needed to start today with a hearty laugh, obviously. Because WHY

More details on blog…

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March 11, 2025 at 6:25 PM
Opening this week with The Bangles and their banger cover of “Hazy Shade of Winter.”

Because singing along to the opening intonations of “Time, time, time, see what’s become of me,” seems better than screaming “DAYLIGHT SAVINGS TIME, WHAT THE HELL HAVE YOU DONE TO ME???”

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#songoftheday
March 10, 2025 at 7:10 PM
The safe word is:

(unintelligible scat syllables)

Shoo-bee doo-bee and goodnight, all…
March 10, 2025 at 3:21 AM
Last night I discovered I’m not half bad at singing “Memory” from Cats.

Just wait until I remember to learn the other half.

And yes, this is a text I had Jim send me last night, when I was singing and suddenly realized I do not know the middle of the song…

#musicals
March 10, 2025 at 2:35 AM
I forgot to hashtag my last post.

In my defense, we did stuff outside the house yesterday. It caused a minor cognitive crash.

Today, when I wrote down that I needed to finish learning a song, I hand wrote “LERN” instead of “LEARN.”

So I will extend myself some grace, I guess
March 9, 2025 at 9:47 PM
I love nature and the outdoors.

I just wish the feeling was mutual.

The ethereal “Go Outside” by Cults helps me idealize the concept of being one with Mother Nature.

In reality, I know full well that b*tch h*tes me.

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March 9, 2025 at 9:38 PM