refried brains
tastedestroyer.bsky.social
refried brains
@tastedestroyer.bsky.social
im nicky and I make weirdly specific playlists!
genderfluid and brain injured :)
trans/disability solidarity 🏳️‍⚧️♿️😷
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I'm not giving up on myself yet, but i need some help from others to give myself a chance.

complete guide for helping me get housing, medical treatment, and keep my car (shelter) legal! 🧵 ⤵️
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if you're on the left and you have an ACTUAL platform, please be on this type of time immediately, like tomorrow!
In all seriousness though, I will believe that internet socialists are serious when they start organizing adult literacy and community childcare programs
January 3, 2026 at 10:01 PM
one post of mine got big and out of context to the wrong audience and now my feed is is filled w a ton of things I’ve spent years clearly my all my socials of 😭 pls
January 3, 2026 at 8:09 PM
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I’ve spent this morning morbidly watching the MTV channels close down and the final songs played were:
MTV Music - Video Killed the Radio Star (Buggles)
Club MTV - Don’t Stop the Music (Rihanna)
MTV 90s - Goodbye (Spice Girls)
MTV 80s - Together in Electric Dreams (Oakey and Moroder)
December 31, 2025 at 10:34 AM
5 stages of the only playlist i've ever made in chronological order/not to be shuffled. a roller coaster ride of situationships and unrequited crushes. 
December 31, 2025 at 3:55 PM
I knew I would probably regret not buying the affinity suite for $100 but I didn’t know it was going to be this bad (acquisitioned by canva) 😭😭😭😭
December 30, 2025 at 10:13 AM
itzz new music monday!!!!!! check out new releases from trans + queer + BIPOC artists : https://f.mtr.cool/nyvcjwgvrx
December 29, 2025 at 8:22 PM
I spent today writing podcast eps on my primary focuses for 2026-ifying music artist content strategy.

It’s been almost 4 years since I released an episode, v stoked.

based on changes w audiences + platforms, these are strategy trends I predict shifting:

1. Quality over quantity - no more..
December 29, 2025 at 4:36 AM
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Tired: Christianity will save the world :-)
Wired: Christianity was hijacked by conservative movements and is unrecognizable from its original form >:(
Inspired: Christianity WAS hijacked by conservative movements, BECAUSE its teachings are radical enough to save the world >:-)
December 28, 2025 at 11:32 PM
my goal for 2026 is to get housing and medical treatment (PRP so that I don’t need multiple spinal fusions or die)

If u like this post pls consider donating or hiring me for my skills: content strategy, dynamic pricing strategy, reparenting consulting, astrology readings. Pp:refriedbrains
December 28, 2025 at 12:44 PM
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This reminds me of what Quincy Jones said about Kanye West when people compared them as producers.
December 28, 2025 at 12:33 AM
this post was meant for the transmascs/trans guys btw
the worst part about male privilege is that ppl just assume competency give trust to men so easily when like WHYYYY !!!!!!! whyyy do u trust men so easily when history shows that’s like the worst thing u could do
December 28, 2025 at 6:46 AM
the worst part about male privilege is that ppl just assume competency give trust to men so easily when like WHYYYY !!!!!!! whyyy do u trust men so easily when history shows that’s like the worst thing u could do
December 28, 2025 at 4:22 AM
made some progress w name change to do list. annoyed that it took 2hours total of my life specifically for my payp** acct
December 27, 2025 at 1:48 AM
and it’s in these conditions I’m supposed to prove to people to take a chance on hiring me for services?

that’s my only option so I’ll take it. 🫶🏼🩷

hmu for content strategy, audience development centered marketing, or reparenting education.
I’ve reached a point of living in my car/petsitting and having major spine issues that if the businesses I’ve worked so hard to launch this year don’t pan out fairly quickly, I don’t know how I will be alive in a year.

getting my life “back on track” feels farther away each day
December 26, 2025 at 2:29 PM
I’ve reached a point of living in my car/petsitting and having major spine issues that if the businesses I’ve worked so hard to launch this year don’t pan out fairly quickly, I don’t know how I will be alive in a year.

getting my life “back on track” feels farther away each day
December 26, 2025 at 2:28 PM
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a few weekends ago, i tried to solve the """male loneliness crisis"""" by sitting on the couch at the mall in Houston. here's something to read while you wait for grandma to come over: www.chron.com/culture/arti...
Is the cure to male loneliness watching football at Texas malls?
I sat on the couch at a busy Houston mall during holiday shopping season—for journalism.
www.chron.com
December 25, 2025 at 5:02 PM
sam ronson, lindsay lohan (👀), brie larson, ashlee simpson all in one place so u can pretend like ur an upper middle class 15 yo girl crying in her pb teen sheets in 2004. And if you were that girl? ur feelings r valid too <3 
December 24, 2025 at 3:55 PM
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one of my favorite stories this year is that buc-ee's tried to build a gas station in a town in Colorado and it's caused so many scandals that the town of like 3,000 people's government just can't function: www.chron.com/culture/arti...
Buc-ee's wants to come to town. It's thrown the local government into chaos.
Who knew a Buc-ee's could destabilize the government of a small town in Colorado?
www.chron.com
December 23, 2025 at 4:47 PM
I have been avoiding social media more than usual and also meditating daily my brain is being fixed !!!!!
December 23, 2025 at 12:47 AM
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I like that mistletoe increases the odds of being kissed. More plants should offer temporary environmental status. Brawling under lingonberries. The soft yearning of a love that dare not speak its name beneath the nightshade.
December 22, 2025 at 10:01 AM
new music monday is my favorite day, here are my weirdly specific playlists to check out: https://f.mtr.cool/jvrwviyiri
December 22, 2025 at 8:22 PM
I have ended up on the side of tiktok that is white ppl dancing to give it to me baby by rick james and I can’t say that’s not accurate 😭 although I don’t claim the girl doing mj hips
December 20, 2025 at 9:41 PM
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Against its better judgement and despite the looks from the peanut gallery, ska does indeed live on 🙏🏁💃
December 20, 2025 at 9:04 PM
sitting thru the worst dialogue in heated rivalry (clearly written by someone who has never fucked) to support the gay agenda. I’m putting my money where my mouth is even when it’s not convenient seeeeeeeee
December 18, 2025 at 12:00 PM
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I will also admit to being angry at people who thought they could buy rights by being in a different zip code while leaving kids behind in “red states” — we don’t leave people behind

Continually leaving poor people behind & blaming them does not build a movement for liberation and freedom
December 18, 2025 at 2:23 AM