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Too weird to live, too rare to die
Is there a term for a white person lying about being white and pretending to be indigenous? I know of someone in an online space who’s pretending to be First Nations in order to safeguard themselves due to being an insufferable bully.
November 18, 2025 at 1:06 PM
I hope those that treated me that way have the life they deserve.
November 16, 2025 at 9:01 PM
I wish I had the capacity I have now. I wish I could reach back through time to whisper advice, reassurance. I can't. But I know now after years of reflection, on and off therapy, and trying to ground myself that the hurt I felt back then was valid and not just self-pity.
November 16, 2025 at 9:01 PM
I reread through one of the most gutting messages I'd received from someone who I'd originally planned to grow old with, and while I didn't feel anything for them other than the satisfaction they are no longer in my life, I did feel for past-me. How I was treated was not okay.
November 16, 2025 at 9:01 PM
I went through and deleted a bunch of messages on my Insta—some 10+ years old—and filled with the hauntings of people who saw me as a burden in their lives.
November 16, 2025 at 8:57 PM
Cleaning up my main bsky
November 14, 2025 at 3:53 AM
The funniest joke ever is that the majority of ppl who don’t actually need glp-1s will be prescribed it.

And those that do need it will have to fight several gods and reshape reality to be considered at all for a prescription.
November 14, 2025 at 3:53 AM
Anyway. The woman who cleans our offices at night has been missing all week, and when I asked after her, no one can tell me where she is. Praying she’s just on vacation and that she hasn’t been taken.
November 7, 2025 at 4:53 PM
Or did you know that you wanted to be desired by me?
November 7, 2025 at 3:43 PM
But let me ask you: what’s my favorite color? What are my siblings names? What’s the school I went to? What was my initial career pursuit? Did you know me?
November 7, 2025 at 3:42 PM
With being put on pedastals, to being made to be the boogeyman, I do love that so many paint such immense pictures of me without ever having known me.

And those that have? I’m glad you started therapy, I’m glad your schooling/job/house is going well.
November 7, 2025 at 3:42 PM
I’ll never tell those that act as shadows in my presence that their obsessive thoughts and conversation about me give me great power. Please keep doing it to benefit me.
November 7, 2025 at 3:33 PM
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this headline hums with ancient autumnal dread
October 23, 2025 at 12:41 PM
There’s someone who, back in 2023, said they didn’t want to waste their time roleplaying when they could instead be making.

I wish I’d listened to them.
September 25, 2025 at 10:38 PM
Numbers wise, the male canon had over 8,000 dms. Almost 2,400 with his love interest. Edie? With her love interest? 241.
September 25, 2025 at 10:38 PM
There was cruel joking abt it being “The (someone else’s character) & Edie Show”, talking abt killing my oc off without me there and out of spite… the pressure and weird interpersonal beef and ultimatums that sparked whenever I tried to write anything other than that male canon.
September 25, 2025 at 10:38 PM
Saved a bunch of rp from a retired server over the last 2 weeks. Going through it was maddening bcuz while others said heinously stupid shit abt my oc—the male canon I wrote has more dms & threads by several fucking thousand messages. More than all my other charas combined. Wish I was exaggerating.
September 25, 2025 at 10:38 PM
I don’t refuse to give grounds to those unwilling to challenge their parents on the evil shit they do and say.

You say you believe in freedom and equity but remain silent when your momma or your daddy start reciting mein kampf?? Get real or get bent.
September 16, 2025 at 6:15 PM
Trying to find where you gave this much of a shit regarding Melissa’s murder via political assassination and am coming up with absolutely fucking nothing.

Nice to know where your priorities lie!
September 11, 2025 at 5:23 PM
I love that we’ll soon be totally severed from the rest of the world. 🥴
Beginning to get emails like this from small overseas businesses I've ordered products from in the past.

I guess this is freedom.
August 27, 2025 at 6:34 PM
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Andor teaches us that rebellion doesn’t have to be big feats of heroism. Sometimes it can just be doing your job really poorly.
August 27, 2025 at 4:33 PM
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I am following the shooting at Annunciation Catholic School. I am horrified by the act of violence not only at a school meant to be a safe learning environment but also at a place of faith. Violence targeting our children and places of worship must end. Residents deserve safety.
August 27, 2025 at 4:02 PM
A friend and I reconnected this morning after yonks, and it made me simultaneously feel more normal than I have in a while and aware that they, outside of my boyfriend and one one other, have been the only person to ask me about last September, and how I was managing.
August 27, 2025 at 2:51 PM