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Mr. Kitty Kai
@spicymeowwerks.bsky.social
DC area transmasculine visual & performing artist and educator
Some good news for once, I’m happy to report that I just left the MVA & an ID with my proper name & GENDER is on its way to me! Thanks to MD for still allowing people to self-select their gender. Also thank you to Trans Maryland & Metro DSA for their help with the name change 😻 #transjoy #maryland
July 17, 2025 at 11:23 PM
I am proud to state that the Maryland court has approved my name and gender marker changes! They were even nice enough to tell me that I will be unable to change my gender marker on my SS card because of the new Executive Orders. So thank you to MD for being a sanctuary state. 🏳️‍⚧️ #transjoy #maryland
March 6, 2025 at 4:49 PM
People who were educated as children outside of the United States, do you know the words to famous political speeches or the “founders” of your country? Or for that matter of your native country whether you were taught in school or not. Just wondering how much of a weird American nationalism that is
March 1, 2025 at 10:47 PM
Just me over here trying not to fall into despair because it’s too late for me to escape the country now. Just a US citizen over here unable to attain a passport to leave the only country I’ve ever lived in because my gender was erased from the country database 🤷‍♂️🏳️‍⚧️
February 21, 2025 at 6:43 PM
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I was at a punk show in 83 where a skinhead jumped up on stage and gave a Nazi salute.

The bass player hit him with his bass, knocking him into the crowd and 150 people collectively hauled his ass out of the venue and threw him in the mud.

This was the right and only appropriate response.
If you are at an event where someone on stage gives a Hitler salute and that person is not dragged off by security and kicked out, you are at a Nazi rally.
February 21, 2025 at 2:42 PM
PSA: I’m currently offering FREE in person or online English private tutoring lessons to non-Native speakers in order to earn my certification hours. Please spread the work and reach out if you’re interested!
February 15, 2025 at 6:09 PM
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Hey everyone! Metro DC DSA Bodily Autonomy just launched a letter campaign to urge the DC government and Children’s Hospital not to ban gender-affirming care for trans kids.

The DC Human Rights Act makes discrimination based on gender identity illegal in DC.

actionnetwork.org/letters/tell...
Tell DC Government and Children's National Medical Center: No Ban on Care for Trans Kids
Tell DC Leaders: Restore Gender-Affirming Care for Trans Youth! Children’s National Hospital (CNMC) has paused all gender-affirming care for Transgender youth in response to a harmful executive order...
actionnetwork.org
February 5, 2025 at 3:56 PM
We’re less than a month in to this administration & I’m already having to avoid the news for self care even though I should be monitoring it for my own safety. I don’t really even have words anymore. The fight in me is dying & at this point I’m just waiting to be put in a camp merely for existing 🤷‍♂️
February 9, 2025 at 5:41 PM
What should I put on my 2025 calendar? What are you looking forward to? Anyone planning on visiting DC this year?
February 9, 2025 at 4:14 AM
Living in America in 2025 as a transman. I had an upper endoscopy today and have 4 ulcers. I’m horrified I’ll have to pay out of pocket because 🍊cut Medicaid. Also I’m a natural born US citizen, a white American with no record and I can’t leave the country, but I’m upset I’m not motivated to work.
February 7, 2025 at 11:56 PM
Join us at the US Treasury today! Get Elon Musk out now #stopthecoup #stopmusk #ustreasury #dcprotest
February 4, 2025 at 10:09 PM
If you liked The Green Bone Saga by Fonda Lee, which I absolutely loved, I recommend Babel (and Yellowface) by R. F. Kuang and also the tv show Warrior, based on Bruce Lee’s writings currently on Netflix. #greenbonesaga #rfkuang #fondalee #warrior #brucelee #bookrecommendations #tvrecommendations
February 4, 2025 at 6:37 AM
Just a reminder that I’m no longer willing to maintain relationships with people who can’t take responsibility for their own behavior as they often try to throw the blame on me instead. Also, there is no agree to disagree when harm has been done. I’m so tired of hearing that, especially from cis men
February 3, 2025 at 7:05 PM
Board game meetup at my place today. Let me know if you want in 😊
February 1, 2025 at 5:36 PM
I just booked Dance Exchange for Fridays in March! March 7th is Intro to Flow Arts: Which Prop is For You? The next week I will begin a new Dance & Flow Boot(y) Camp. Three weeks of learning proper stretching and exercises to prevent injury, build flexibility, and improve as a dancer/flow artist 😻
January 30, 2025 at 9:55 PM
Things I've done for myself recently, connected with Trans Maryland to do my name & gender change, helped raise nearly $1000 for HIPS, got gender affirming items at a clothing swap, made new friends at a book swap, enrolled in a TEFL certification program & attended a healing from breakup workshop.
January 29, 2025 at 11:54 PM
Today I’m laughing that my existence is against the law. Maybe tomorrow I’ll cry, but tonight I will dance in defiance. Come see my Luigi Mangione/Luigi from the Mushroom Kingdom boi-lesque & flow routine at Right Proper in Shaw on T St NW. Doors at 9, show starts 9:30PM. All proceeds go to HIPS 🏳️‍⚧️
January 24, 2025 at 8:52 PM
To all the people that said I was exaggerating (again) about Trump Part 2, go fuck yourself. The trans community is literally a public scapegoat right now. I am now afraid for my own personal health and safety and was blamed for this outcome because I also didn't support Harris.
January 23, 2025 at 9:38 PM
Instead of allowing myself to be upset about the anti-trans executive order, I'm working on my Luigi Mangione burlesque routine! An AU where he escapes into the Mushroom Kingdom and disguises himself as Luigi the plumber 🍄 Come see me this Friday at Right Proper in Shaw for the HIPS fundraiser show!
January 22, 2025 at 4:43 AM
Santa deed of the day, brought some hand warmers with me on my errands. Didn’t see the unhoused couple and their kitty, but the outdoor workers were glad. Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and all the winter joy. The days will continue to get longer from here 😻
December 25, 2024 at 10:36 PM
Exhausted from the constant struggle and isolation of poverty. Every month despite my efforts there’s never enough income. Food and expenses continue to increase and there is no money left over to pour back into my business or participate in my communities. Expendable income is no longer a thing.
December 9, 2024 at 7:52 PM
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Happy Thanksgiving!

Today is a good day to thank undocumented immigrants.
🦃 3/4 of them are essential workers vital to keeping our country running.

They make up:
📌 23% of construction workers
📌 40%–55% of agriculture workers
📌 25% of food preparation & serving workers
📌 8% of healthcare workers
November 28, 2024 at 8:22 PM
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November 28, 2024 at 6:40 AM
Legitimately every time I see my mother I regret it. In today’s episode, on top of misgendering me all night, I discovered that she dated a cop who watched his fellow cops beat a man to death for killing a cop. He was only there though, so his life shouldn’t have been ruined like it was…. 😒 ACAB
November 29, 2024 at 3:35 AM