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25. What season of your life are you in right now?
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November 4, 2025 at 5:12 AM
You find it's October
And she's gone
And she's gone
Summer's gone
You've been fooled by April
And he's gone
And he's gone
Winter's gone
And she's gone
And she's gone
Summer's gone
You've been fooled by April
And he's gone
And he's gone
Winter's gone
I do not love the word healing regarding psychology. We are complex, overdetermined creatures whose pain & suffering shape us. I would undo many if I could, but I do not heal from them as much as I attempt to integrate my hurt in ways that provide enrichment to my life.
24. What does healing look like for you?
November 4, 2025 at 5:11 AM
I do not love the word healing regarding psychology. We are complex, overdetermined creatures whose pain & suffering shape us. I would undo many if I could, but I do not heal from them as much as I attempt to integrate my hurt in ways that provide enrichment to my life.
I have things in my life which are rewarding and enriching, but all my experiences provide meaning. The painful ones, although unpleasant, dialectically inform the joyful moments, all providing meaning and a sort of purpose.
23. What gives your life meaning and purpose?
November 4, 2025 at 5:09 AM
I have things in my life which are rewarding and enriching, but all my experiences provide meaning. The painful ones, although unpleasant, dialectically inform the joyful moments, all providing meaning and a sort of purpose.
Overcoming the limitations of the zip code I was born in, and accomplishing the things my parents made tremendous sacrifices to provide. And trying my best to be compassionate along the way.
22. What are you proud of yourself for?
November 4, 2025 at 5:07 AM
Overcoming the limitations of the zip code I was born in, and accomplishing the things my parents made tremendous sacrifices to provide. And trying my best to be compassionate along the way.
A particular hope that I have about a person.
21. What is something that is holding you back that you need to let go of?
November 4, 2025 at 5:06 AM
A particular hope that I have about a person.
More than what serves me. I care so much that it forces me to be in service to others as a clinician, teacher, partner, father, and son. It propels me to more rigorous study and introspection, and helps drive a desire to be exceptional. It can also be overly critical and deferential.
17. Do you care about how you are perceived by others?
November 4, 2025 at 5:05 AM
More than what serves me. I care so much that it forces me to be in service to others as a clinician, teacher, partner, father, and son. It propels me to more rigorous study and introspection, and helps drive a desire to be exceptional. It can also be overly critical and deferential.
One thing my decades of work in clinical psychology has shown me is that we all hide parts of ourselves, from others, and from ourselves as well.
16a. Do you hide parts of yourself from others?
16b. Why do you hide them?
16b. Why do you hide them?
November 4, 2025 at 5:04 AM
One thing my decades of work in clinical psychology has shown me is that we all hide parts of ourselves, from others, and from ourselves as well.
Sincerity, companionship, openness, receptivity, trust.
15. How can someone make your day better in regards to your mental health?
November 4, 2025 at 5:03 AM
Sincerity, companionship, openness, receptivity, trust.
My experience in therapy has been more ontological than epistemological. I have come more fully into myself partially through the process of therapy.
14. What have you learned from being in therapy?
November 4, 2025 at 5:02 AM
My experience in therapy has been more ontological than epistemological. I have come more fully into myself partially through the process of therapy.
I am a clinical psychologist. My own therapy is critical to my work.
13. To people who go to therapy, what made you start?
November 4, 2025 at 5:01 AM
I am a clinical psychologist. My own therapy is critical to my work.
I am always me although it is a struggle, I try and appreciate that even brief dissociative moments are an aspect of my self, that I have no monita subjectivity but contain multitudes which are constantly shifting, forming, reforming, deforming, and moving with fluidity and intersectionality.
11. When is the last time you truly felt like yourself?
November 4, 2025 at 5:00 AM
I am always me although it is a struggle, I try and appreciate that even brief dissociative moments are an aspect of my self, that I have no monita subjectivity but contain multitudes which are constantly shifting, forming, reforming, deforming, and moving with fluidity and intersectionality.
Mr. Stevie Wonder
10. What brings you peace when you feel anxious?
November 4, 2025 at 4:59 AM
Mr. Stevie Wonder
Today. It wasn’t sadness per se, but more of a malaise that momentarily passed.
7. When was the last time you were sad?
November 4, 2025 at 4:59 AM
Today. It wasn’t sadness per se, but more of a malaise that momentarily passed.
The thing that causes emotionally impulsive experience of anger, frustration, or upset the most significantly is anyone disrespecting my son.
5. What triggers you?
November 4, 2025 at 4:57 AM
The thing that causes emotionally impulsive experience of anger, frustration, or upset the most significantly is anyone disrespecting my son.
Some of the things that contribute to our overall psychological wellbeing which are ignored are sleep and diet. Our violently neoliberal and caste social culture in the US are major contributors, and also don’t help sleep or diet.
4. What is bad for our mental health that we ignore?
November 4, 2025 at 4:56 AM
Some of the things that contribute to our overall psychological wellbeing which are ignored are sleep and diet. Our violently neoliberal and caste social culture in the US are major contributors, and also don’t help sleep or diet.
My most acute moments of emotional distress and dysregulation were in my early 20s and following my divorce and separation.
3. When did you realize that you needed help with your mental health?
November 4, 2025 at 4:55 AM
My most acute moments of emotional distress and dysregulation were in my early 20s and following my divorce and separation.
Improved? I go back to the idea of not knowing what mental health means. The things that enrich my life and provide me with meaning are my son, friends, partner, parents, work, music, reading and exercise.
2. What improved your mental health?
November 4, 2025 at 4:54 AM
Improved? I go back to the idea of not knowing what mental health means. The things that enrich my life and provide me with meaning are my son, friends, partner, parents, work, music, reading and exercise.
I don’t like the phrase “mental health.” What’s my overall mood? Do I feel mentally stable? Am I clinically depressed or psychotic? What does it mean? I would say that my life is overall good with tolerable challenges and inexperience a normal, regulated, wide range of emotional experiences.
1. On a scale of 1 to 10, how is your mental health?
November 4, 2025 at 4:53 AM
I don’t like the phrase “mental health.” What’s my overall mood? Do I feel mentally stable? Am I clinically depressed or psychotic? What does it mean? I would say that my life is overall good with tolerable challenges and inexperience a normal, regulated, wide range of emotional experiences.
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November 1, 2025 at 5:55 PM
This is one of the pieces I'm most proud of writing. Joni Mitchell even included it in her website's media archive. 😉
A large portion of the field of clinical psychology has been taken over by a “feel good” neoliberal, commodified system rebranded as “mental health,” focused on self care & narcissism. Decolonizing clinical psychology involves rejection of this system, ensconced in its privilege & myopia.
November 1, 2025 at 3:53 PM
A large portion of the field of clinical psychology has been taken over by a “feel good” neoliberal, commodified system rebranded as “mental health,” focused on self care & narcissism. Decolonizing clinical psychology involves rejection of this system, ensconced in its privilege & myopia.
A large portion of the function of social media is education, yet it is unregulated. There is research that suggests that over a third of information in mental health on social media is inaugurate. This is a major problem.
I agree with this. Creators reach large audiences and should carry heavy responsibility, because people can act on their advice or recommendations.
Especially when they’re speaking on areas like finance, medicine, law, education where bad information can cause real harm.
Especially when they’re speaking on areas like finance, medicine, law, education where bad information can cause real harm.
October 28, 2025 at 1:15 AM
A large portion of the function of social media is education, yet it is unregulated. There is research that suggests that over a third of information in mental health on social media is inaugurate. This is a major problem.
“A typical form of splitting endemic to neoliberal practices and ideologies pits omnipotent narcissistic versions of autonomy against degraded narcissistic versions of dependence” - Lynne Layton
October 14, 2025 at 3:54 AM
“A typical form of splitting endemic to neoliberal practices and ideologies pits omnipotent narcissistic versions of autonomy against degraded narcissistic versions of dependence” - Lynne Layton
“A passive, depoliticized citizen becomes the ideal feature of the system as neoliberalism erodes collective struggles along with public-mindedness.” Nancy Cato Hollander
October 13, 2025 at 2:06 AM
“A passive, depoliticized citizen becomes the ideal feature of the system as neoliberalism erodes collective struggles along with public-mindedness.” Nancy Cato Hollander
“[Psychoanalytic therapists] are not doctors practicing psycho-orthopedics; we are more like missionaries, artists, & soldiers in an ethical-cultural-existential slugfest …
October 5, 2025 at 6:33 PM
“[Psychoanalytic therapists] are not doctors practicing psycho-orthopedics; we are more like missionaries, artists, & soldiers in an ethical-cultural-existential slugfest …
“As one of many practices of inductive enchantment, the actual work of ΨΑ lies not in its discursive, rational, and object-related dimensions alone but depends upon the effectiveness with which it weaves the individual into the collective, depends, in other words, on work that takes place beyond
September 30, 2025 at 7:03 PM
“As one of many practices of inductive enchantment, the actual work of ΨΑ lies not in its discursive, rational, and object-related dimensions alone but depends upon the effectiveness with which it weaves the individual into the collective, depends, in other words, on work that takes place beyond