Nadeem Hasan, PsyD
@nadeemhasanpsyd.bsky.social
Psychologist • 🕊️
Accusing others of virtue signaling can be a big fat projection.
Moral outrage can be moral.
Moral outrage can be moral.
January 26, 2026 at 7:51 PM
Accusing others of virtue signaling can be a big fat projection.
Moral outrage can be moral.
Moral outrage can be moral.
I eventually believed that I knew myself well enough to challenge the ghost and drive him out. But I should have known better. Self-knowledge is not the same as a cure.
From Ian McEwans’ ‘What We Can Know.’
From Ian McEwans’ ‘What We Can Know.’
January 19, 2026 at 10:00 PM
I eventually believed that I knew myself well enough to challenge the ghost and drive him out. But I should have known better. Self-knowledge is not the same as a cure.
From Ian McEwans’ ‘What We Can Know.’
From Ian McEwans’ ‘What We Can Know.’
Idealizations are built on sand.
-Recurring lesson
-Recurring lesson
January 16, 2026 at 2:03 AM
Idealizations are built on sand.
-Recurring lesson
-Recurring lesson
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“It is hoped that the therapist, because of greater psychological integration resulting from his own developmental experience & analysis, is less frightened of, & less prone to run from [highly charged, painful, conflict-laden] feelings than is the patient” - Ogden
January 12, 2026 at 6:42 PM
“It is hoped that the therapist, because of greater psychological integration resulting from his own developmental experience & analysis, is less frightened of, & less prone to run from [highly charged, painful, conflict-laden] feelings than is the patient” - Ogden
Anyone whose fondest images of self reflect unrealistic notions of superiority, and who runs into evidence that he or she is only human, may attempt to restore self-esteem by exerting power.
McWilliams
McWilliams
January 9, 2026 at 5:58 PM
Anyone whose fondest images of self reflect unrealistic notions of superiority, and who runs into evidence that he or she is only human, may attempt to restore self-esteem by exerting power.
McWilliams
McWilliams
🧵 Drinking less in the new year.
I've seen online and in my personal life that many people are setting New Year's Resolutions to drink less or quit drinking altogether.
A few thoughts from a therapist's perspective:
I've seen online and in my personal life that many people are setting New Year's Resolutions to drink less or quit drinking altogether.
A few thoughts from a therapist's perspective:
January 4, 2026 at 8:12 PM
🧵 Drinking less in the new year.
I've seen online and in my personal life that many people are setting New Year's Resolutions to drink less or quit drinking altogether.
A few thoughts from a therapist's perspective:
I've seen online and in my personal life that many people are setting New Year's Resolutions to drink less or quit drinking altogether.
A few thoughts from a therapist's perspective:
A key moment in therapy for those who have experienced neglect & unmet developmental needs is when the therapist can bear and witness this pain, tolerate the grief that they went unmet, and facilitate the new experience of receiving care and updating one’s self-understanding.
December 10, 2025 at 9:15 PM
A key moment in therapy for those who have experienced neglect & unmet developmental needs is when the therapist can bear and witness this pain, tolerate the grief that they went unmet, and facilitate the new experience of receiving care and updating one’s self-understanding.
The inner world is not the unmoved mover or uncaused cause, but part of a powerful web of reciprocal forces, as much a product of the person's way of life as the cause.
Paul Wachtel, Cyclical Psychodynamics and the Contextual Self
Paul Wachtel, Cyclical Psychodynamics and the Contextual Self
December 3, 2025 at 1:32 AM
The inner world is not the unmoved mover or uncaused cause, but part of a powerful web of reciprocal forces, as much a product of the person's way of life as the cause.
Paul Wachtel, Cyclical Psychodynamics and the Contextual Self
Paul Wachtel, Cyclical Psychodynamics and the Contextual Self
Sure, there's virtue signaling, but there's also vice signaling, intelligent signaling, slacker signaling, nihilist signaling, educated signaling, self-taught signaling, friendly signaling, leave-me-alone signaling, etc.
The list goes on...
The list goes on...
November 26, 2025 at 9:34 PM
Sure, there's virtue signaling, but there's also vice signaling, intelligent signaling, slacker signaling, nihilist signaling, educated signaling, self-taught signaling, friendly signaling, leave-me-alone signaling, etc.
The list goes on...
The list goes on...
Growth as a therapist requires the willingness to be uncomfortable.
Studying theory you don’t quite understand, trying interventions you don’t know will work, going in directions where you don’t know where you’ll end up.
Otherwise one’s clinicial vision and repertoire will remain limited.
Studying theory you don’t quite understand, trying interventions you don’t know will work, going in directions where you don’t know where you’ll end up.
Otherwise one’s clinicial vision and repertoire will remain limited.
November 11, 2025 at 8:35 PM
Growth as a therapist requires the willingness to be uncomfortable.
Studying theory you don’t quite understand, trying interventions you don’t know will work, going in directions where you don’t know where you’ll end up.
Otherwise one’s clinicial vision and repertoire will remain limited.
Studying theory you don’t quite understand, trying interventions you don’t know will work, going in directions where you don’t know where you’ll end up.
Otherwise one’s clinicial vision and repertoire will remain limited.
Reposted by Nadeem Hasan, PsyD
The hardest, recurring psychological task of my life has been learning to accept the absurdity of existence, to see ambition and achievement for the false gods they are, and to understand, truly understand, how one can flourish in what looks, from the outside, like mediocrity.
November 9, 2025 at 3:08 AM
The hardest, recurring psychological task of my life has been learning to accept the absurdity of existence, to see ambition and achievement for the false gods they are, and to understand, truly understand, how one can flourish in what looks, from the outside, like mediocrity.
Reposted by Nadeem Hasan, PsyD
suspecting at least part of the reason why humility is considered a “silent” virtue
is because of its somewhat paradoxical nature
in that the more we (truly) possess it, the less likely we are to know that
and if / when we’re sure we have it, we almost certainly don’t
is because of its somewhat paradoxical nature
in that the more we (truly) possess it, the less likely we are to know that
and if / when we’re sure we have it, we almost certainly don’t
November 6, 2025 at 10:53 PM
suspecting at least part of the reason why humility is considered a “silent” virtue
is because of its somewhat paradoxical nature
in that the more we (truly) possess it, the less likely we are to know that
and if / when we’re sure we have it, we almost certainly don’t
is because of its somewhat paradoxical nature
in that the more we (truly) possess it, the less likely we are to know that
and if / when we’re sure we have it, we almost certainly don’t
Rupture/repair as exposure:
The worst relational fears can be survivable and one doesn’t have to shrink to prevent these fears from materializing so much in the future.
The ground is more solid than anticipated & there’s more room to be oneself.
There’s more room for authenticity & intimacy.
The worst relational fears can be survivable and one doesn’t have to shrink to prevent these fears from materializing so much in the future.
The ground is more solid than anticipated & there’s more room to be oneself.
There’s more room for authenticity & intimacy.
November 5, 2025 at 4:37 PM
Rupture/repair as exposure:
The worst relational fears can be survivable and one doesn’t have to shrink to prevent these fears from materializing so much in the future.
The ground is more solid than anticipated & there’s more room to be oneself.
There’s more room for authenticity & intimacy.
The worst relational fears can be survivable and one doesn’t have to shrink to prevent these fears from materializing so much in the future.
The ground is more solid than anticipated & there’s more room to be oneself.
There’s more room for authenticity & intimacy.
Reposted by Nadeem Hasan, PsyD
Truly humble people, I suspect, never describe themselves as such; rather, they worry about their own pride, arrogance, and hubris.
- Donna Orange
- Donna Orange
November 1, 2025 at 8:58 PM
Truly humble people, I suspect, never describe themselves as such; rather, they worry about their own pride, arrogance, and hubris.
- Donna Orange
- Donna Orange
Anxiety can be secondary to guilt.
It's hard to feel settled if there's a fear that one has always done something wrong.
Understanding this inclination can help differentiate one's moral compass from a hypervigilance organized around a vague sense of badness.
It's hard to feel settled if there's a fear that one has always done something wrong.
Understanding this inclination can help differentiate one's moral compass from a hypervigilance organized around a vague sense of badness.
September 17, 2025 at 2:58 PM
Anxiety can be secondary to guilt.
It's hard to feel settled if there's a fear that one has always done something wrong.
Understanding this inclination can help differentiate one's moral compass from a hypervigilance organized around a vague sense of badness.
It's hard to feel settled if there's a fear that one has always done something wrong.
Understanding this inclination can help differentiate one's moral compass from a hypervigilance organized around a vague sense of badness.
Reposted by Nadeem Hasan, PsyD
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Some of my favorite quotes speak to the paradoxes inherent in psychotherapy:
If the analyst cannot be experienced as a new object, analysis never gets under way; if he cannot be experienced as an old one, it never ends.
- Jay Greenberg
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Some of my favorite quotes speak to the paradoxes inherent in psychotherapy:
If the analyst cannot be experienced as a new object, analysis never gets under way; if he cannot be experienced as an old one, it never ends.
- Jay Greenberg
September 13, 2025 at 9:39 PM
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Some of my favorite quotes speak to the paradoxes inherent in psychotherapy:
If the analyst cannot be experienced as a new object, analysis never gets under way; if he cannot be experienced as an old one, it never ends.
- Jay Greenberg
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Some of my favorite quotes speak to the paradoxes inherent in psychotherapy:
If the analyst cannot be experienced as a new object, analysis never gets under way; if he cannot be experienced as an old one, it never ends.
- Jay Greenberg
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Training new clinicians in the age of behavioral treatment and managed care is very challenging and disheartening.
I very much enjoy supervising young clinicians. I appreciate their passion and enthusiasm. It is very difficult, though, because the way in which I practice often seems fundamentally
I very much enjoy supervising young clinicians. I appreciate their passion and enthusiasm. It is very difficult, though, because the way in which I practice often seems fundamentally
September 10, 2025 at 11:23 AM
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I think these dynamics become more deeply problematic with marginalized patients. The powerful therapist, perched high atop their place of privilege and knowing, bestows wisdom upon the simple fool unable to educated themself. As Gherovici often repeats, even the poor can afford an unconscious.
September 9, 2025 at 10:58 PM
I think these dynamics become more deeply problematic with marginalized patients. The powerful therapist, perched high atop their place of privilege and knowing, bestows wisdom upon the simple fool unable to educated themself. As Gherovici often repeats, even the poor can afford an unconscious.
Healthy groups don’t demand conformity to belong.
September 6, 2025 at 1:00 AM
Healthy groups don’t demand conformity to belong.
‘Every analytic pair is engaged from the outset in the task of creating a way of talking together that is adequate to give expression both to the patient's fear of the truth and to the patient's need to know the truth of his or her experience.’
September 4, 2025 at 9:13 PM
‘Every analytic pair is engaged from the outset in the task of creating a way of talking together that is adequate to give expression both to the patient's fear of the truth and to the patient's need to know the truth of his or her experience.’
I’m happy to share that I’ve started my own private practice. I’ll be seeing individuals virtually anywhere in CA.
Feel free to check out my website for more info and to connect.
www.nadeemhasanpsyd.com
Feel free to check out my website for more info and to connect.
www.nadeemhasanpsyd.com
Nadeem Hasan, Psy.D.
Nadeem Hasan, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
www.nadeemhasanpsyd.com
August 28, 2025 at 4:27 PM
I’m happy to share that I’ve started my own private practice. I’ll be seeing individuals virtually anywhere in CA.
Feel free to check out my website for more info and to connect.
www.nadeemhasanpsyd.com
Feel free to check out my website for more info and to connect.
www.nadeemhasanpsyd.com
Sam to Michael in The Big Chill, 1983
August 25, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Sam to Michael in The Big Chill, 1983
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“A rigid allegiance to one or the other type of analytic thinking can narrow the way one listens to the patient. Worse, it can lead to a situation where the analyst does not listen at all because his theory offers him a prepackaged and formulaic understanding.”
- Akhtar, S. (2012).
- Akhtar, S. (2012).
August 17, 2025 at 2:29 PM
“A rigid allegiance to one or the other type of analytic thinking can narrow the way one listens to the patient. Worse, it can lead to a situation where the analyst does not listen at all because his theory offers him a prepackaged and formulaic understanding.”
- Akhtar, S. (2012).
- Akhtar, S. (2012).
The foolish reject what they see, not what they think.
The wise reject what they think, not what they see.
Huang Po
The wise reject what they think, not what they see.
Huang Po
August 14, 2025 at 12:27 AM
The foolish reject what they see, not what they think.
The wise reject what they think, not what they see.
Huang Po
The wise reject what they think, not what they see.
Huang Po
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#LRP it would be unfortunate indeed for patients
if health care providers were unable to conceptualize any role for the current political climate in the etiology of whatever they were treating
because of the privilege afforded them by their race, gender identity, sexuality, and/or citizenship
if health care providers were unable to conceptualize any role for the current political climate in the etiology of whatever they were treating
because of the privilege afforded them by their race, gender identity, sexuality, and/or citizenship
August 12, 2025 at 11:51 AM
#LRP it would be unfortunate indeed for patients
if health care providers were unable to conceptualize any role for the current political climate in the etiology of whatever they were treating
because of the privilege afforded them by their race, gender identity, sexuality, and/or citizenship
if health care providers were unable to conceptualize any role for the current political climate in the etiology of whatever they were treating
because of the privilege afforded them by their race, gender identity, sexuality, and/or citizenship