Shae Queer Therapy 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
@shaequeertherapy.com
(they/them) I'm a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist working with LGBTQIA individuals and partners on gender, sexuality, being neurodivergent, kink and non-monogamy. shaequeertherapy.com
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Hiya! I'm a trans non-binary gender queer AuDHD sex and relationship therapist and activist. You can find out more about me at shaequeertherapy.com
I'll be playing in the 🏳️🌈Queer Baseball Fundraiser Games🏳️⚧️ with my baseball club the London Mets - 19th July. 12pm in Finsbury Park London. Join us! Watch me flounce around the pitch 😂⚾✨
June 26, 2025 at 10:57 PM
I'll be playing in the 🏳️🌈Queer Baseball Fundraiser Games🏳️⚧️ with my baseball club the London Mets - 19th July. 12pm in Finsbury Park London. Join us! Watch me flounce around the pitch 😂⚾✨
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I'm watching the Parliamentary debate about the self-ID e-petition and my JAW IS ON THE FLOOR.
The MPs speaking are hitting ALL the key pro-trans talking points:
- transphobic bias in EHRC
- nightmare of SC ruling
- toilet bans are awful
- must hear trans voices
- IGLA rainbow map
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The MPs speaking are hitting ALL the key pro-trans talking points:
- transphobic bias in EHRC
- nightmare of SC ruling
- toilet bans are awful
- must hear trans voices
- IGLA rainbow map
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May 19, 2025 at 4:35 PM
I'm watching the Parliamentary debate about the self-ID e-petition and my JAW IS ON THE FLOOR.
The MPs speaking are hitting ALL the key pro-trans talking points:
- transphobic bias in EHRC
- nightmare of SC ruling
- toilet bans are awful
- must hear trans voices
- IGLA rainbow map
1/
The MPs speaking are hitting ALL the key pro-trans talking points:
- transphobic bias in EHRC
- nightmare of SC ruling
- toilet bans are awful
- must hear trans voices
- IGLA rainbow map
1/
This was such a lovely and wholesome day! Thanks for having me @discobooks.bsky.social 🩵🤍🩷 #🏳️⚧️
I love this adorable pic of me and @shaequeertherapy.com blowing bubbles at a very queer picnic this weekend. A lil bit of trans joy to start the week off right!
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May 5, 2025 at 2:47 PM
This was such a lovely and wholesome day! Thanks for having me @discobooks.bsky.social 🩵🤍🩷 #🏳️⚧️
Me doing my serious job with my lovely trans clients. Pippy being a tiny buffoon.
April 29, 2025 at 7:49 PM
Me doing my serious job with my lovely trans clients. Pippy being a tiny buffoon.
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We believe the Supreme Court – which disgracefully refused to hear from trans people before its decision last week – has placed the UK in breach of its obligations under the Human Rights Act.
So we’re readying a challenge – join us:
goodlaw.social/xpme
We believe the Supreme Court – which disgracefully refused to hear from trans people before its decision last week – has placed the UK in breach of its obligations under the Human Rights Act.
So we’re readying a challenge – join us:
goodlaw.social/xpme
Help us challenge the Supreme Court’s judgment on trans rights | Good Law Project
goodlaw.social
April 25, 2025 at 7:46 AM
🏳️⚧️ NEW 🏳️⚧️
We believe the Supreme Court – which disgracefully refused to hear from trans people before its decision last week – has placed the UK in breach of its obligations under the Human Rights Act.
So we’re readying a challenge – join us:
goodlaw.social/xpme
We believe the Supreme Court – which disgracefully refused to hear from trans people before its decision last week – has placed the UK in breach of its obligations under the Human Rights Act.
So we’re readying a challenge – join us:
goodlaw.social/xpme
I often get these comments. TERFS tell me Im a man bc they think I'm a transwoman. I want to find it affirming in genderfuckery, but it's indicative of the rising hate transwomen face. The UK ruling has implications for ALL trans people, but the hate will be directed at transwomen esp Black & POC
April 22, 2025 at 8:31 PM
I often get these comments. TERFS tell me Im a man bc they think I'm a transwoman. I want to find it affirming in genderfuckery, but it's indicative of the rising hate transwomen face. The UK ruling has implications for ALL trans people, but the hate will be directed at transwomen esp Black & POC
He is my heart.
Everything out there may be shit but it's 5 years since me and @shaequeertherapy.com adopted this handsome three-legged man and he's the best. I love you Pipkin
April 18, 2025 at 10:33 PM
He is my heart.
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Planned action!
Protest planned at parliament square on Saturday at 1pm to protest supreme court ruling.
Protest planned at parliament square on Saturday at 1pm to protest supreme court ruling.
April 16, 2025 at 3:23 PM
Planned action!
Protest planned at parliament square on Saturday at 1pm to protest supreme court ruling.
Protest planned at parliament square on Saturday at 1pm to protest supreme court ruling.
Trancestry: 10 years of the Museum of Transology is on at Kings Cross til 11 May. Super accessibility friendly & such a beautifully curated space full of history & culture. A testament to how important our stories are esp now as our human rights continue to be in jeopardy. @hex.ooo #trans
April 14, 2025 at 9:38 PM
Made these super gay cookies for a friend's birthday (Baking beautiful treats for people is my love language). No they are not Lush Bath bombs 😂 although there is one that looks similar. It would be a very tragic mistake if it were.
April 6, 2025 at 5:49 PM
Made these super gay cookies for a friend's birthday (Baking beautiful treats for people is my love language). No they are not Lush Bath bombs 😂 although there is one that looks similar. It would be a very tragic mistake if it were.
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PSA: trans people are incredibly smart, charming and funny. We're also principled, creative and talented. Please hire trans people. Trans people will give you brand sex appeal. Trans people ward away tooth decay. Trans people are preferred by 9 out of 10 cats.
April 2, 2025 at 8:17 AM
PSA: trans people are incredibly smart, charming and funny. We're also principled, creative and talented. Please hire trans people. Trans people will give you brand sex appeal. Trans people ward away tooth decay. Trans people are preferred by 9 out of 10 cats.
Trans Day of Visibility 🏳️⚧️ - It's exhausting being trans right now. Check in on your friends, ask to hang, play games, walk, wholesome stuff. We don't want our identity to be all of who we are. Its just a part of us. We just want to live healthily & happily. That's the real trans agenda. #TDOV
March 31, 2025 at 8:31 AM
Trans Day of Visibility 🏳️⚧️ - It's exhausting being trans right now. Check in on your friends, ask to hang, play games, walk, wholesome stuff. We don't want our identity to be all of who we are. Its just a part of us. We just want to live healthily & happily. That's the real trans agenda. #TDOV
Saw Flow yesterday, and it was really so beautiful. I prepped myself for it by reading spoilers because I am not good with animals in distress. But the themes of friendship, survival, grief, care and dogs just being idiots really shone through. Very Ghibli-esque. Well deserving of all the awards.
March 30, 2025 at 12:13 PM
Saw Flow yesterday, and it was really so beautiful. I prepped myself for it by reading spoilers because I am not good with animals in distress. But the themes of friendship, survival, grief, care and dogs just being idiots really shone through. Very Ghibli-esque. Well deserving of all the awards.
Me trying to express a serious point to a therapy client.
March 25, 2025 at 7:29 PM
Me trying to express a serious point to a therapy client.
Gorgeous and special night at Drag Down The Borders. Inspiring to be in a community of grassroots organisers and to witness and partake in so much queer joy and activism!
March 23, 2025 at 2:32 PM
Gorgeous and special night at Drag Down The Borders. Inspiring to be in a community of grassroots organisers and to witness and partake in so much queer joy and activism!
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Today my 8YO started telling me excitedly about “non-berry” people. She informed me:
- it’s wrong to call them “he” or “she” because they use them/they pronouns
- They’re not boys or girls
- They have a flag and it’s gray and purple and yellow and white
- they all believe in ghosts
- it’s wrong to call them “he” or “she” because they use them/they pronouns
- They’re not boys or girls
- They have a flag and it’s gray and purple and yellow and white
- they all believe in ghosts
March 19, 2025 at 12:21 PM
Today my 8YO started telling me excitedly about “non-berry” people. She informed me:
- it’s wrong to call them “he” or “she” because they use them/they pronouns
- They’re not boys or girls
- They have a flag and it’s gray and purple and yellow and white
- they all believe in ghosts
- it’s wrong to call them “he” or “she” because they use them/they pronouns
- They’re not boys or girls
- They have a flag and it’s gray and purple and yellow and white
- they all believe in ghosts
I was happy to contribute as an "expert" to this article for @verywellmindset.bsky.social on responsive desire. Check it out (even if the image is naff...): www.verywellmind.com/i-thought-my...
I Thought My Libido Was Broken Until I Learned About Responsive Desire
There's a lot of variety when it comes to the ways humans experience desire, and unless your experience is causing you distress, there's probably nothing to worry about.
www.verywellmind.com
March 17, 2025 at 5:36 PM
I was happy to contribute as an "expert" to this article for @verywellmindset.bsky.social on responsive desire. Check it out (even if the image is naff...): www.verywellmind.com/i-thought-my...
She's so cross with me for being away 😂
March 16, 2025 at 9:42 AM
She's so cross with me for being away 😂
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This elderly man showed up to support an anti-trans bill in my home state and then, because he had to wait hours to testify, he was stuck listening to queer folks rally against it
By the time it was his turn to speak, he'd changed his mind
Never doubt that speaking out can change hearts and minds
By the time it was his turn to speak, he'd changed his mind
Never doubt that speaking out can change hearts and minds
Wisconsin man who showed up to support an anti-trans bill does something amazing - Queerty
“I have a very little knowledge of gay people and things like that there…” “I have a very little knowledge of gay people and things like that there…”
www.queerty.com
March 14, 2025 at 6:50 PM
This elderly man showed up to support an anti-trans bill in my home state and then, because he had to wait hours to testify, he was stuck listening to queer folks rally against it
By the time it was his turn to speak, he'd changed his mind
Never doubt that speaking out can change hearts and minds
By the time it was his turn to speak, he'd changed his mind
Never doubt that speaking out can change hearts and minds
Met Popeye and Bluto at Popeye's Village in Malta (it's the set from the 1980s film with Robin Williams and it's so fun and really dedicated to the details!). Clearly I eat more spinach than them though...
March 13, 2025 at 9:32 AM
Met Popeye and Bluto at Popeye's Village in Malta (it's the set from the 1980s film with Robin Williams and it's so fun and really dedicated to the details!). Clearly I eat more spinach than them though...
Hi Malta! Where are my queers???? #Malta #queerMalta
March 9, 2025 at 1:10 PM
Hi Malta! Where are my queers???? #Malta #queerMalta
I'm doing my best to work on getting more rest and joy. So, I won't be responding to emails or messages until I'm back. I will be posting a few updates though!
Find some little moments for yourself to enjoy your own company and do something just for you. #restisresistance
Find some little moments for yourself to enjoy your own company and do something just for you. #restisresistance
March 7, 2025 at 7:19 PM
I'm doing my best to work on getting more rest and joy. So, I won't be responding to emails or messages until I'm back. I will be posting a few updates though!
Find some little moments for yourself to enjoy your own company and do something just for you. #restisresistance
Find some little moments for yourself to enjoy your own company and do something just for you. #restisresistance
OUT OF OFFICE ON! But it goes to everyone's spam anyway, so not like it matters so much because no one will see it. (@porkbun.com). Anyways, after 2 years, finally a holibob!
March 7, 2025 at 5:05 PM
OUT OF OFFICE ON! But it goes to everyone's spam anyway, so not like it matters so much because no one will see it. (@porkbun.com). Anyways, after 2 years, finally a holibob!
Chateau de Pippy is in the works. Here he is testing out the side windows. (and biting them too like the menace he is)
March 6, 2025 at 12:29 AM
Chateau de Pippy is in the works. Here he is testing out the side windows. (and biting them too like the menace he is)