Well, had to block my first creep on fet. Exchanged a few messages, then he asked if I'd get on my knees for him after a spanking. JFC, dude.

Not gonna lie, it's a good thing I don't manage a company's social media. I'd be the absolute worst at it. I forgot I even had this account lmao

What a season, and what a team! Win it for Ueck, boys!

That's a student loan paid off (two that I've zeroed out this year) AND a credit card paid off! Slowly but surely, things are going the right direction!

Movie you've watched more than 6 times, GIFs only.

"My guard stood hard, when abstract threats - too noble too neglect, deceived me into thinking I had something to protect. Good and bad, I define these terms quite clear, no doubt, somehow."

-Bob Dylan

In light of today's events in DC, these lyrics feel especially relevant.

Curious on this thought - especially ideas from fellow switches, but one thing I've found troublesome is how some switches are often treated, especially by subs. My concern is that we're often expected to be 24/7 tops when that is absolutely not how we are wired. Thoughts?

One question I get quite a bit is "What do you get out of giving the spanking?" My answer can best be summarized by last night's session: I met with someone new, and through a slow buildup and a long warmup, helped her see she could take a lot more than she thought she could.

Bought my ticket to the Spring Spanktacular! April can't get here soon enough!

A break during a long, intense spanking that was so badly needed. Even though I'm a pure switch, I often end up topping far more than bottoming, so I tend to play really hard when I bottom. I'm sitting here 24 hours later still sore, but still feeling clear-headed.

Nearly 24 hours after getting a badly-needed destressor and I'm still feeling it!

Publishing a writing about this on Fet, but one thing that I find incredibly troublesome is the "Were you spanked growing up?" question I and many other spankos have received at one time or another.

Well, I got my bills all paid and now it's time to work on my book. In possibly related news, I had two directed self-spankings within twelve hours. Fifty strokes with the bath brush atop bruising from the night before certainly can motivate.

Not sure if I need to spank or be spanked today. Ugh I hate being a switch sometimes lol

More than I expected here, but definitely more to do!!

Fun Spanko Facts About Me: (RT w/your own!)

-Wood over leather for me.
-More of a nurturing top than a sadist (when I top).
-A pure 50/50 switch and can switch in-scene.
-I'm an exvangelical, a key motivator for me in this scene.
-Given spankings in a car, never taken one, but want to change that.

Never play without safe words. The more intense the scene, the more important they are. Period.

For those unfamiliar, my Fetlife profile: fetlife.com/users/9302119