QueerSandz
@queersandz.bsky.social
Sandz. They/them. Mentally ill, anxious mess, ND, queer, 30-something, too old for this shit.
Watch me overthink everything and fight for my life.
Here mainly for the gay pirate show.
Watch me overthink everything and fight for my life.
Here mainly for the gay pirate show.
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QueerSandz
@queersandz.bsky.social
· Jun 2
Yes, I like coming here to complain about my life and my stupid broken brain. Please indulge me.
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pansy garden! Micron linework and prismacolor marker fill 🌸
November 22, 2025 at 3:39 AM
pansy garden! Micron linework and prismacolor marker fill 🌸
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Who let me drink coffee when I'm already an anxious mess?! I shouldn't be left on my own devices! I can't adult on my own!
November 23, 2025 at 11:08 AM
Who let me drink coffee when I'm already an anxious mess?! I shouldn't be left on my own devices! I can't adult on my own!
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Thank you to all the OFMD fanfic writers out there keeping our crew alive and giving us content while we’re in the gravy basket.
November 22, 2025 at 11:58 PM
Thank you to all the OFMD fanfic writers out there keeping our crew alive and giving us content while we’re in the gravy basket.
I'd promise I'd stop complaining but let's be real that's never happening. Sorry.
November 23, 2025 at 12:38 AM
I'd promise I'd stop complaining but let's be real that's never happening. Sorry.
Still fucking grading papers when I should be resting. I'm so fucking tired of this job. I love teaching but this shit never stops even when you're on sick leave!
November 23, 2025 at 12:35 AM
Still fucking grading papers when I should be resting. I'm so fucking tired of this job. I love teaching but this shit never stops even when you're on sick leave!
Introduce yourself with the last 5 concerts you've seen.
Dropkick Murphys
Iron Maiden
Nine Inch Nails
The Libertines
Paul McCartney
(And seeing Indochine tonight. They're an iconic French band from the 80s that I see once on every tour, it's a big family event, we all go together.)
Dropkick Murphys
Iron Maiden
Nine Inch Nails
The Libertines
Paul McCartney
(And seeing Indochine tonight. They're an iconic French band from the 80s that I see once on every tour, it's a big family event, we all go together.)
Introduce yourself with the last 5 concerts you’ve seen.
Robbie Williams
1995 Smash Hits roadshow
Robbie Williams
1995 Smash Hits roadshow
Introduce yourself with the last 5 concerts you’ve seen.
Gregory Alan Isakov
Sammy Rae and the Friends
Death Cab for Cutie and The Postal Service
AJR (x2)
Ray LaMontague
Gregory Alan Isakov
Sammy Rae and the Friends
Death Cab for Cutie and The Postal Service
AJR (x2)
Ray LaMontague
November 23, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Introduce yourself with the last 5 concerts you've seen.
Dropkick Murphys
Iron Maiden
Nine Inch Nails
The Libertines
Paul McCartney
(And seeing Indochine tonight. They're an iconic French band from the 80s that I see once on every tour, it's a big family event, we all go together.)
Dropkick Murphys
Iron Maiden
Nine Inch Nails
The Libertines
Paul McCartney
(And seeing Indochine tonight. They're an iconic French band from the 80s that I see once on every tour, it's a big family event, we all go together.)
How can a human being sleep so much?! I know, depression and all that, but seriously, everyday I fall asleep on my couch. I can't look at something on my phone without my eyes getting all droopy! It's getting annoying really. And While I have so much things to do for work!
November 22, 2025 at 7:42 PM
How can a human being sleep so much?! I know, depression and all that, but seriously, everyday I fall asleep on my couch. I can't look at something on my phone without my eyes getting all droopy! It's getting annoying really. And While I have so much things to do for work!
I have some grading to do even though I'm on sick leave for my mental health because *deadlines* but I can't do it. I said I'd start on Monday, it's Wednesday and I still haven't started. I'm frozen on the couch, hating myself while I should be relaxing and taking care of myself! I hate this!
November 19, 2025 at 3:47 PM
I have some grading to do even though I'm on sick leave for my mental health because *deadlines* but I can't do it. I said I'd start on Monday, it's Wednesday and I still haven't started. I'm frozen on the couch, hating myself while I should be relaxing and taking care of myself! I hate this!
And that's one month of sick leave for me again!
I thought I could do it this time. But I guess that when your doctor AND your psychologist tell you to move your next psychiatrist appointment as soon as possible it means that things aren't going as well as you thought!
I'm so tired of all this.
I thought I could do it this time. But I guess that when your doctor AND your psychologist tell you to move your next psychiatrist appointment as soon as possible it means that things aren't going as well as you thought!
I'm so tired of all this.
November 13, 2025 at 12:55 AM
And that's one month of sick leave for me again!
I thought I could do it this time. But I guess that when your doctor AND your psychologist tell you to move your next psychiatrist appointment as soon as possible it means that things aren't going as well as you thought!
I'm so tired of all this.
I thought I could do it this time. But I guess that when your doctor AND your psychologist tell you to move your next psychiatrist appointment as soon as possible it means that things aren't going as well as you thought!
I'm so tired of all this.
Get to know your mutual. List 10 random things you like.
The sea
Succulents
Taking my coffee on my balcony
Arts and crafts
Anything citrus
Sparkling water
Wales
Boardgames and puzzles
Photography
Fairy lights
The sea
Succulents
Taking my coffee on my balcony
Arts and crafts
Anything citrus
Sparkling water
Wales
Boardgames and puzzles
Photography
Fairy lights
Get to know your mutuals. List 10 random things you like.
Late 19th century literature/art
Being entirely alone in nature (preferably by the sea)
Vanilla scents
Hiding under a blanket
Gulls
Collecting silly little trinkets
Decorating
My garden
Visiting old cemeteries
Rik Mayall
Late 19th century literature/art
Being entirely alone in nature (preferably by the sea)
Vanilla scents
Hiding under a blanket
Gulls
Collecting silly little trinkets
Decorating
My garden
Visiting old cemeteries
Rik Mayall
Get to know your mutuals. List 10 random things you like.
Big cities
Riding a bike fast downhill
"Men's" fragrances (smoky, tobacco, leather, cedar)
Ed Teach
Soft fuzzy textures
Everything picante
Tropical plants
Tasting someone else's drink/cigarette on their tongue
STRONG coffee
Clove cigarettes
Big cities
Riding a bike fast downhill
"Men's" fragrances (smoky, tobacco, leather, cedar)
Ed Teach
Soft fuzzy textures
Everything picante
Tropical plants
Tasting someone else's drink/cigarette on their tongue
STRONG coffee
Clove cigarettes
November 13, 2025 at 12:43 AM
Get to know your mutual. List 10 random things you like.
The sea
Succulents
Taking my coffee on my balcony
Arts and crafts
Anything citrus
Sparkling water
Wales
Boardgames and puzzles
Photography
Fairy lights
The sea
Succulents
Taking my coffee on my balcony
Arts and crafts
Anything citrus
Sparkling water
Wales
Boardgames and puzzles
Photography
Fairy lights
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I can't stop biting my nails and picking my skin and scratching until I bleed. I've put tape wherever I can and it's still not enough. I always find something new to fuck up. How do I fucking stop?! What do I have to do to get better?! I'm fucking tired of this shit.
November 6, 2025 at 1:09 AM
I can't stop biting my nails and picking my skin and scratching until I bleed. I've put tape wherever I can and it's still not enough. I always find something new to fuck up. How do I fucking stop?! What do I have to do to get better?! I'm fucking tired of this shit.
Birthday gift to myself? Left foot stress fracture. Happy birthday to me!
October 30, 2025 at 12:27 PM
Birthday gift to myself? Left foot stress fracture. Happy birthday to me!
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Here is a high rez version of the art for anyone who wants to print their own! Link in the alt text, too!
October 20, 2025 at 5:23 PM
Here is a high rez version of the art for anyone who wants to print their own! Link in the alt text, too!
Woke up this morning wondering if anyone has ever written a gentlebeard Notting Hill AU?
#gentlebeard #ofmdfic #ofmd
#gentlebeard #ofmdfic #ofmd
October 20, 2025 at 12:07 PM
Woke up this morning wondering if anyone has ever written a gentlebeard Notting Hill AU?
#gentlebeard #ofmdfic #ofmd
#gentlebeard #ofmdfic #ofmd
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Angela Lansbury would have been 100 this week. been thinking lately about how she pushed to get older out of work actor friends roles on Murder She Wrote so they could get health insurance. How lovely it must have been to be in a position to do that for others. So many people in anim out of work.
October 17, 2025 at 5:27 AM
Angela Lansbury would have been 100 this week. been thinking lately about how she pushed to get older out of work actor friends roles on Murder She Wrote so they could get health insurance. How lovely it must have been to be in a position to do that for others. So many people in anim out of work.
I just came out as NB to one of my colleague. First time I come out to someone outside my close friends. It wasn't planned but it felt right. It was so scary but also I've never felt so happy. I don't even have words.
October 14, 2025 at 3:03 PM
I just came out as NB to one of my colleague. First time I come out to someone outside my close friends. It wasn't planned but it felt right. It was so scary but also I've never felt so happy. I don't even have words.
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happy world mental health day 🖤
October 10, 2025 at 3:57 PM
happy world mental health day 🖤
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porn is not evil.
sex is not evil.
pleasure is not evil.
kink is not evil.
none of them are things to feel shame or embarrassment about.
none of them deserve the heavy-handed censorship that they're facing.
resist oppression (even if you don't partake in what is being oppressed)
sex is not evil.
pleasure is not evil.
kink is not evil.
none of them are things to feel shame or embarrassment about.
none of them deserve the heavy-handed censorship that they're facing.
resist oppression (even if you don't partake in what is being oppressed)
October 8, 2025 at 6:52 PM
porn is not evil.
sex is not evil.
pleasure is not evil.
kink is not evil.
none of them are things to feel shame or embarrassment about.
none of them deserve the heavy-handed censorship that they're facing.
resist oppression (even if you don't partake in what is being oppressed)
sex is not evil.
pleasure is not evil.
kink is not evil.
none of them are things to feel shame or embarrassment about.
none of them deserve the heavy-handed censorship that they're facing.
resist oppression (even if you don't partake in what is being oppressed)
All my friends who swore they'd never have kids are having kids. Please, tell me there are people who don't change their minds when they hit 30! Kids are popping all around me at the moment and, sure, they're cute and I'm happy for my friends but I kinda feel alone and broken here.
October 8, 2025 at 6:43 PM
All my friends who swore they'd never have kids are having kids. Please, tell me there are people who don't change their minds when they hit 30! Kids are popping all around me at the moment and, sure, they're cute and I'm happy for my friends but I kinda feel alone and broken here.
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all discourse aside, there is one machine with consciousness. it's printers. they are alive and conscious and they hate you and they'd take your arm clean off if you let them. never trust a printer.
October 6, 2025 at 7:36 PM
all discourse aside, there is one machine with consciousness. it's printers. they are alive and conscious and they hate you and they'd take your arm clean off if you let them. never trust a printer.
Dreamt that Rita and Taika propositioned me. What are you doing brain?!
October 6, 2025 at 8:46 AM
Dreamt that Rita and Taika propositioned me. What are you doing brain?!
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happy bi day to me, to you, to trans bisexuals, to bisexuals who mostly prefer women, to bisexuals who mostly prefer men, to bisexuals who do gender fuckery together or alone or with many, to ace bisexuals, to aro bisexuals, to all bisexuals!!! i love you, we are grand and beautiful
September 23, 2025 at 1:41 PM
happy bi day to me, to you, to trans bisexuals, to bisexuals who mostly prefer women, to bisexuals who mostly prefer men, to bisexuals who do gender fuckery together or alone or with many, to ace bisexuals, to aro bisexuals, to all bisexuals!!! i love you, we are grand and beautiful