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Not Cordelia
@notcordelia.bsky.social
Appalachian autistic trans woman. 36. Writer of dyke shit. Wife Gal. Poly. Always reading. MDNI.
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My wife and I still need support. We are still trying to find work which isn't easy when you're a refugee in a country where you can't legally work except for remote work and so many remote jobs have disappeared. Please donate or share so that Nic and I can continue to survive.
Donate to Support Our New Start and Urgent Needs, organized by Nic Frankenberry-Saas
Hello! We are a married lesbian couple (a trans woman and a nonbinary wom… Nic Frankenberry-Saas needs your support for Support Our New Start and Urgent Needs
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It's a kind of degendering and definitely parallel to certain kinds of transmisogyny.
February 17, 2026 at 7:10 PM
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Disclaimer: I'm talking about a particular kind of lesbophobia butches frequently get where their masculinity is cited to erase their womanhood.
February 17, 2026 at 7:10 PM
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Everyone loves queer subjectivity and respecting self-identification until it's time to call a butch a man
February 17, 2026 at 7:05 PM
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Get 'em while they're hot
February 17, 2026 at 12:11 PM
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The work continues, but maybe slower.
Learning from our mistakes: Why I wrote 'Brown/Trans/Les'
And the future direction of this newsletter.
taliabhattwrites.substack.com
February 17, 2026 at 12:09 PM
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We're very sad that we missed Valentine's by a week, but we're looking forward to making up for it!
February 17, 2026 at 10:32 AM
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I beg you… his life is in extreme danger😭
The infection has spread to his bones and could reach his blood soon
We urgently need tests and surgery to save him.
£1,100 could save his life 🙏
Please… don’t let him face this alone ⚠️
For his daughters, he is all they have left💔
chuffed.org/project/omsham
February 17, 2026 at 5:41 PM
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The truth is, poverty is an unforgivable crime. My child is dying before my eyes because of poverty
If I had enough money,I could have saved his life
I see the world saving the lives of animals while my child, who is supposed to be human, will die without anyone saving his life
spot.fund/jmdf5nkst
February 17, 2026 at 5:53 PM
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I'm completely exhausted 😭💔 Our tent is torn, the wind ripped it off, and my siblings are freezing at night. I need to buy a new tent, and I'm asking for $500 so we can stay safe. Please help me... Your support today could save my family 🙏😭
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February 16, 2026 at 3:38 PM
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I don't understand a love for media that is unthinking and fanatic and uncritical. There's nothing I enjoy that I couldn't name ten issues with on the spot. That's life, that's art, that's being a huge nerd with strong opinions. Art is not consumption is not dogma.
some people treat fandom like a religion & i find that incredibly odd as a bitch who loves apocrypha & heretics.
February 17, 2026 at 9:23 AM
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The UK's #1 export is trans panic, followed closely by eugenics
I saw a recent video discussing this and it's incredibly "funny" how every single things happening in that is the exact blueprint used for trans healthcare down to journalist fearmongering and parents trying to take their adult child off of those meds

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Was watching Tara Mooknee latest video on the recent ADHD scare as it's happening in the UK.
I know the parallel have been made but it is comical (sad) to see it to see it condensed in way where you can replace adhd with trans people and the video works almost flawlessly

youtu.be/DqJFyqf_kSY?...
February 17, 2026 at 8:21 AM
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Hello everyone, I'm Ahmed from Gaza. I'm a young man supporting my family. We're freezing to death in our tents. My father is struggling to breathe. I'm begging you, we desperately need your support. Please donate whatever you can.
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February 17, 2026 at 7:54 AM
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Perfidious Albion at it again
February 17, 2026 at 8:13 AM
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The UK is not run by the fucking "adults in the room" it's operated by a regime of abusers and sadists and cranks who prioritise ideology and cruelty and a harshly punitive, conformist worldview over the literal functioning of their rotten, inbred, class-obsessed nonce-worshipping society.
February 17, 2026 at 8:12 AM
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Patients were forced to go private at great personal cost because NHS assessments for ADHD have waitlists up to 8 years long. And now, despite having those diagnoses, GPs are just refusing to give people meds they need for a diagnosis they have because... fuck you, that's why.

Cool!
February 17, 2026 at 8:11 AM
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It's also basically ROGD laundered through Shrier and finally laundered into the report that is being waved around to accredit her as an "expert". Decades of crankology distilled into an officially-sanctioned message of "beat the queer out of your kid".
February 17, 2026 at 7:48 AM
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I’m Mohammed, a father in Gaza trying to keep my children safe during these difficult times. With no financial resources left, I urgently need $300 in emergency aid. My campaign is verified ✅ by Molly Shah, and your support can make a real difference.
chuffed.org/project/help...
February 17, 2026 at 6:10 AM
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I don't know who needs to hear this but AGP isn't a real thing, you're just a woman who finds the idea of being a sexy woman to be hot. That's normal woman stuff. That's not cis dude territory. Explore your gender and try E
February 17, 2026 at 6:51 AM
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A lot of UK politics (and the global trans panic downstream of UK legal opinions and policy and media frenzy) is basically a full-throated advocacy of child abuse to stamp out 'queer traits' and reverse the 2010s gains in queer acceptance.
February 17, 2026 at 6:54 AM
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The frustrating thing is that gender non-conforming behavior in children is already policed. Hilary Crank being shipped around media outlets as an "expert" telling parents to crack down on their kids showing any 'queer' behavior lest they grow up queer or, gasp, into trannies, is already orthodoxy.
This is the thing, Hilary Cass can pretend that she's not suggesting anything extreme but merely by using the language is correction to natural course of gender she will be promoting various forms of domestic abuse by the language itself.
"When my daughter defied the Correct Natural Trajectory I laid before her, I 'corrected' her sir. And when my wife tried to prevent me from keeping our daughter on the Correct Natural Trajectory, I 'corrected' her."
February 17, 2026 at 6:52 AM
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Why is HRT itself woefully understudied and underdeveloped? Because trans healthcare has largely been controlled by doctors who only care if you'll look fuckable to them by the end. WPATH can trace its origins to this too. We could be finding more methods and options for body expression but nah
February 17, 2026 at 7:09 AM
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the amount of medical studies done on your health and your kind of body is often low to nil. Cis women, trans women, trans guys, enbies of various kinds, there's like nothing. Viagra famously was found to help period pain first, but only got sold once they found out it worked on ED 2/
February 17, 2026 at 7:09 AM
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Have you ever had a doctor or surgeon try to tell you that breast growth on HRT stops after two years? Do you know why they say a blatantly wrong thing like that? There's like exactly 1 study ever done on transfem breast growth and it *ended* at 2 years. That's it. If you're not a cis dude then 1/
February 17, 2026 at 7:09 AM
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So far we have raised $111,152.69 for the WFM's Immigrant Rapid Response Fund, and we are going into our finale game: KING OF THE CASTLE! It has GREAT Twitch integration and we play it in a really fun way. COME HANG AND DONATE

twitch.tv/friendsatthetable
February 17, 2026 at 2:24 AM
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🚨 A humanitarian appeal from Gaza
we are still suffering

with no shelter and no source of income, and we have lost everything in this life.

We urgently need $300 for my sick mother’s treatment
Please don’t leave us alone
your support could save a life.🙏💔

chuffed.org/project/help...
February 16, 2026 at 9:19 PM