Nisha Mody
@nishamody.bsky.social
I stan the Care Bears 🌈✨💝 Life Coach for Liberatory Dreamers 📚 Trauma-Informed Care in Libraries 🍄
www.nishaland.com
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You know two kinds of people. The ones you can be honest with, and the ones you’re afraid to be honest with. Both of them are a mirror for you.
October 22, 2025 at 2:52 AM
You know two kinds of people. The ones you can be honest with, and the ones you’re afraid to be honest with. Both of them are a mirror for you.
Asking ChatGPT to solve all your relationship problems before you go to bed will only feed your thought spirals.
But being witnessed and seen by others? AND being guided by someone who’s been there?
But being witnessed and seen by others? AND being guided by someone who’s been there?
September 30, 2025 at 4:01 PM
Asking ChatGPT to solve all your relationship problems before you go to bed will only feed your thought spirals.
But being witnessed and seen by others? AND being guided by someone who’s been there?
But being witnessed and seen by others? AND being guided by someone who’s been there?
My latest memoir review: “Negative Space” by Lilly Dancyger. A new favorite!
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"Negative Space" by Lilly Dancyger
A new favorite memoir!
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September 2, 2025 at 5:05 AM
My latest memoir review: “Negative Space” by Lilly Dancyger. A new favorite!
nisha.substack.com/p/negative-s...
nisha.substack.com/p/negative-s...
Half of breaking codependent patterns is cultivating safety around people not liking you. The other half is learning to love tf out of yourself.
If you long for one or both of the above, today's the LAST DAY to get on the waitlist of Meet Yourself an get an nishamody.myflodesk.com/meetyourself...
If you long for one or both of the above, today's the LAST DAY to get on the waitlist of Meet Yourself an get an nishamody.myflodesk.com/meetyourself...
Get early access to Meet Yourself!
Join the waitlist.
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August 22, 2025 at 7:26 PM
Half of breaking codependent patterns is cultivating safety around people not liking you. The other half is learning to love tf out of yourself.
If you long for one or both of the above, today's the LAST DAY to get on the waitlist of Meet Yourself an get an nishamody.myflodesk.com/meetyourself...
If you long for one or both of the above, today's the LAST DAY to get on the waitlist of Meet Yourself an get an nishamody.myflodesk.com/meetyourself...
Your "nice" era is officially expiring.
On 7/9, I'm hosting a free workshop:
You’re Not Being ‘Nice,’ You’re Being Invisible: A Workshop for People-Pleasers Who Are Ready to Be Seen.
If you shrink to keep the peace (or fear not being liked) register here: nishamody.myflodesk.com/invisible
On 7/9, I'm hosting a free workshop:
You’re Not Being ‘Nice,’ You’re Being Invisible: A Workshop for People-Pleasers Who Are Ready to Be Seen.
If you shrink to keep the peace (or fear not being liked) register here: nishamody.myflodesk.com/invisible
You're Not Being "Nice", You're Being Invisible
A Workshop for People Pleasers Who Are Ready to Be Seen
nishamody.myflodesk.com
June 23, 2025 at 7:57 PM
Your "nice" era is officially expiring.
On 7/9, I'm hosting a free workshop:
You’re Not Being ‘Nice,’ You’re Being Invisible: A Workshop for People-Pleasers Who Are Ready to Be Seen.
If you shrink to keep the peace (or fear not being liked) register here: nishamody.myflodesk.com/invisible
On 7/9, I'm hosting a free workshop:
You’re Not Being ‘Nice,’ You’re Being Invisible: A Workshop for People-Pleasers Who Are Ready to Be Seen.
If you shrink to keep the peace (or fear not being liked) register here: nishamody.myflodesk.com/invisible
Vulnerable share…and also I’m so effin proud of this writing
CW: weight loss
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CW: weight loss
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Today, I decided.
I think I love myself.
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May 2, 2025 at 11:37 PM
Vulnerable share…and also I’m so effin proud of this writing
CW: weight loss
open.substack.com/pub/nisha/p/...
CW: weight loss
open.substack.com/pub/nisha/p/...
I've got 8 pay-what-you-can spots for my Trauma-Informed and Relational Care for Libraries course.
If you're feeling the strain of budget cuts, community trauma, or just the daily weight of this world, I'd love to have you at next week's info session.
nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/
(1/3)
If you're feeling the strain of budget cuts, community trauma, or just the daily weight of this world, I'd love to have you at next week's info session.
nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/
(1/3)
TIRCL Info Session
<p>The next orientation for Trauma-Informed and Relational Care for Libraries is at the end of June. Sign up to see how this course can support you. Replay will be available.</p>
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April 22, 2025 at 7:52 PM
I've got 8 pay-what-you-can spots for my Trauma-Informed and Relational Care for Libraries course.
If you're feeling the strain of budget cuts, community trauma, or just the daily weight of this world, I'd love to have you at next week's info session.
nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/
(1/3)
If you're feeling the strain of budget cuts, community trauma, or just the daily weight of this world, I'd love to have you at next week's info session.
nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/
(1/3)
Wealth really fucks you up in the head.
April 17, 2025 at 3:34 AM
Wealth really fucks you up in the head.
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You don’t steal something you think is worthless.
April 17, 2025 at 2:58 AM
You don’t steal something you think is worthless.
April 16, 2025 at 9:33 PM
I exercised my writing yesterday: nisha.substack.com/p/im-not-eno...
i'm not enough: a list
seventeen stories, sensations, and feelings
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April 16, 2025 at 2:06 AM
I exercised my writing yesterday: nisha.substack.com/p/im-not-eno...
This is in less than 2 weeks! Get the details for my course Trauma-Informed and Relational Care for Libraries on 4/29: nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/
April 16, 2025 at 2:04 AM
This is in less than 2 weeks! Get the details for my course Trauma-Informed and Relational Care for Libraries on 4/29: nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/
💻 REGISTER: Info session for Trauma-Informed and Relational Care for Libraries course: 4/29 @ 9am PT/12pm ET
If you want to learn about trauma-informed care so you can move through these times in a way that doesn't retraumatize others (& urself), register: nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/ (1/)
If you want to learn about trauma-informed care so you can move through these times in a way that doesn't retraumatize others (& urself), register: nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/ (1/)
TIRCL Info Session
<p>The next orientation for Trauma-Informed and Relational Care for Libraries is at the end of June. Sign up to see how this course can support you. Replay will be available.</p>
nishamody.myflodesk.com
April 7, 2025 at 4:22 PM
💻 REGISTER: Info session for Trauma-Informed and Relational Care for Libraries course: 4/29 @ 9am PT/12pm ET
If you want to learn about trauma-informed care so you can move through these times in a way that doesn't retraumatize others (& urself), register: nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/ (1/)
If you want to learn about trauma-informed care so you can move through these times in a way that doesn't retraumatize others (& urself), register: nishamody.myflodesk.com/tirclapril25/ (1/)
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Happy National Library Week! If you don't have a library card, go get one. If you have one, use it!
Public goods thrive when everybody uses them. That's why they push kids to charter, home, and private schools, why they sow doubt and fear of libraries and our collections.
Use it or lose it!
Public goods thrive when everybody uses them. That's why they push kids to charter, home, and private schools, why they sow doubt and fear of libraries and our collections.
Use it or lose it!
April 7, 2025 at 3:53 PM
Happy National Library Week! If you don't have a library card, go get one. If you have one, use it!
Public goods thrive when everybody uses them. That's why they push kids to charter, home, and private schools, why they sow doubt and fear of libraries and our collections.
Use it or lose it!
Public goods thrive when everybody uses them. That's why they push kids to charter, home, and private schools, why they sow doubt and fear of libraries and our collections.
Use it or lose it!
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I love this. A woman of circumference 🥹🩷. I’ma start using that
Testify on our behalf! A woman with calves like a daikon radish! A woman who gets her boots at Torrid! A woman of circumference!
I'm talmbout not on any day!
on no days are you beating the affections of a woman who calf meat fill up the boot
on no days are you beating the affections of a woman who calf meat fill up the boot
April 1, 2025 at 4:48 PM
I love this. A woman of circumference 🥹🩷. I’ma start using that
Attending #AWP25 for the first time, and I’m just so so inspired 🥹 Perfect timing before my memoir writing retreat in a couple of weeks.
AND @roxanegay.bsky.social’s keynote was amazing 🤩 I was so tuned into what she said that I only got this photo of her walking off stage.
AND @roxanegay.bsky.social’s keynote was amazing 🤩 I was so tuned into what she said that I only got this photo of her walking off stage.
March 28, 2025 at 2:39 PM
Attending #AWP25 for the first time, and I’m just so so inspired 🥹 Perfect timing before my memoir writing retreat in a couple of weeks.
AND @roxanegay.bsky.social’s keynote was amazing 🤩 I was so tuned into what she said that I only got this photo of her walking off stage.
AND @roxanegay.bsky.social’s keynote was amazing 🤩 I was so tuned into what she said that I only got this photo of her walking off stage.
I honestly get so sad thinking about the rad liberatory people out there who don’t start the writing project or podcast or community garden or side biz they wanna start.
We need anticapitalist, relational, and liberatory people doing the cool shit! DO THE COOL SHIT!
We need anticapitalist, relational, and liberatory people doing the cool shit! DO THE COOL SHIT!
March 27, 2025 at 3:23 PM
I honestly get so sad thinking about the rad liberatory people out there who don’t start the writing project or podcast or community garden or side biz they wanna start.
We need anticapitalist, relational, and liberatory people doing the cool shit! DO THE COOL SHIT!
We need anticapitalist, relational, and liberatory people doing the cool shit! DO THE COOL SHIT!
Capitalism sells us convenience and certainty for the cost of humanity.
March 26, 2025 at 2:11 PM
Capitalism sells us convenience and certainty for the cost of humanity.
How much time do you spend ruminating over someone or something? This was after ONE session. So grateful and honestly PROUD I get to give people the gift of clarity and TIME back in their lives.
Come to my free workshop Sunday to get a taste: nishamody.myflodesk.com/gethonest (1/2)
Come to my free workshop Sunday to get a taste: nishamody.myflodesk.com/gethonest (1/2)
March 14, 2025 at 4:11 PM
How much time do you spend ruminating over someone or something? This was after ONE session. So grateful and honestly PROUD I get to give people the gift of clarity and TIME back in their lives.
Come to my free workshop Sunday to get a taste: nishamody.myflodesk.com/gethonest (1/2)
Come to my free workshop Sunday to get a taste: nishamody.myflodesk.com/gethonest (1/2)
Activists, advocates, and abolitionists are tired AF - and they need people to help them tend to the deep wounds from state violence brought to you by patriarchy, capitalism, colonization, classism, and ableism.
Is this you? I get you resourced to do your thing! (1/2)
Is this you? I get you resourced to do your thing! (1/2)
March 12, 2025 at 3:13 PM
Activists, advocates, and abolitionists are tired AF - and they need people to help them tend to the deep wounds from state violence brought to you by patriarchy, capitalism, colonization, classism, and ableism.
Is this you? I get you resourced to do your thing! (1/2)
Is this you? I get you resourced to do your thing! (1/2)
I’m scared but ready to confess some things to you over the next 4 days!
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4 truths over 4 days
find out 4 truths I reveal to myself and then share with you over 4 days
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March 10, 2025 at 8:11 PM
I’m scared but ready to confess some things to you over the next 4 days!
Sign up to receive my darkest secrets only shared via email 🤪
bit.ly/3XC2IPN
Sign up to receive my darkest secrets only shared via email 🤪
bit.ly/3XC2IPN
I’m sacred af that I’m talking too much after I share something about myself, even though I literally help people who keep themselves small live out loud.
I do this work because I know this feeling, and being honest about this feeling makes me better. (1/2)
I do this work because I know this feeling, and being honest about this feeling makes me better. (1/2)
March 10, 2025 at 12:39 AM
I’m sacred af that I’m talking too much after I share something about myself, even though I literally help people who keep themselves small live out loud.
I do this work because I know this feeling, and being honest about this feeling makes me better. (1/2)
I do this work because I know this feeling, and being honest about this feeling makes me better. (1/2)
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Just what we need, AI summaries of seized electronic devices so the cops can be even more useless.
Cellebrite Is Using AI to Summarize Chat Logs and Audio from Seized Mobile Phones
The proliferation of AI through law enforcement tools already has civil liberties experts concerned. “When you have results from an AI, they are not transparent. Often you cannot trace back where a co...
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March 9, 2025 at 10:41 PM
Just what we need, AI summaries of seized electronic devices so the cops can be even more useless.
If your definition of a good guy is someone who does something any of your girlfriends would do in a heartbeat, raise your bar.
March 9, 2025 at 10:16 PM
If your definition of a good guy is someone who does something any of your girlfriends would do in a heartbeat, raise your bar.
I ended up married because I’m a master as convincing myself of things to protect myself.
And I ended up divorced by awakening to some big truths.
That was over 10 years ago, but that doesn’t mean I never lie to myself anymore! So I’m gonna get honest with you and confess 4 truths… 👇🏾
And I ended up divorced by awakening to some big truths.
That was over 10 years ago, but that doesn’t mean I never lie to myself anymore! So I’m gonna get honest with you and confess 4 truths… 👇🏾
March 9, 2025 at 7:39 PM
I ended up married because I’m a master as convincing myself of things to protect myself.
And I ended up divorced by awakening to some big truths.
That was over 10 years ago, but that doesn’t mean I never lie to myself anymore! So I’m gonna get honest with you and confess 4 truths… 👇🏾
And I ended up divorced by awakening to some big truths.
That was over 10 years ago, but that doesn’t mean I never lie to myself anymore! So I’m gonna get honest with you and confess 4 truths… 👇🏾