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@localresident641.bsky.social
Married. Canadian. He/him
Adult content in reposts.

Profile pic: man with parachute falling.
Banner pic: snowy field with scattered bare trees.

Joined: Jan. 28/2026
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Read a great post by @carasutra.bsky.social on mastodon that, gratefully, led me here. Hoping to find some more amazing dominant women and women in female led relationships to follow. Thx.
My favourite part so far was the three giant toothpaste tubes suspended over the stage.
February 6, 2026 at 8:07 PM
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He may not have been all of those things when we started but he is now.

Want your partner to be the same?

#chastity and #FLR can do that for your relationship.

***A public service message on #FLRFriday***
February 6, 2026 at 8:45 AM
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There is a voice inside of you that whispers all day long, "I feel that this is right for me, I know that this is wrong!" No teacher, preacher, parent, friend, or wise man can decide what's right for you. Just listen to the voice inside!
FOLLOW AND REPOST
#bdsmqueen
February 6, 2026 at 3:11 PM
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February 6, 2026 at 2:58 PM
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Don't try to fix my crazy. It isn't broken!
FOLLOW AND REPOST!
#bdsmqueen #bdsmthehague #bdsmarnhem #fetish #kink #dominatrix #prodomme #femdom
February 6, 2026 at 3:25 PM
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February 6, 2026 at 4:23 PM
Went into town with my spouse yesterday. She went to the pharmacy. I went to the liquor store. We make different medication choices.
February 6, 2026 at 4:29 PM
Popular TV series episode: a middle-aged accountant is murdered. His widow and her boyfriend show up at the morgue for her to identify the body. They are taken into custody where we learn the husband knew about the boyfriend and was fine with it. The Rookie S8E4.
February 5, 2026 at 2:00 PM
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For years, I’ve been writing about enhancing foreplay and sex. But what about afterwards?

I’ve gathered my thoughts on sexual aftercare. The physical reassurances of love, but also small things that hit deeper. And why it’s all so important to me, especially now.

carasutra.com/2026/02/afte...
Aftercare After Sex: How to Reconnect, Recover and Deepen Intimacy
What happens after sex matters. A personal reflection on aftercare, emotional safety and the intimacy that follows.
carasutra.com
February 5, 2026 at 1:12 PM
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A night out at the Ritz 🤑💰another 5 star Bellatrix Experience
February 1, 2026 at 1:14 PM
@ladybellatrix.com I apologize. I unfollowed you by mistake.
February 4, 2026 at 3:38 AM
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A man doesn’t get to be centered in a Woman’s s•xuality just because he’s present. Presence is cheap, attention is cheap, opinions are free.
What isn’t cheap is the ability to stay useful without needing to be coddled, praised, or constantly reassured that he matters.
#FLR
#Gynarchy
February 4, 2026 at 3:05 AM
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You will consent to whatever I tell you to consent to.

#femdom #flr #milf #bdsm
February 4, 2026 at 1:10 AM
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Lady Bellatrix is the Queen of Mean 😈
February 2, 2026 at 7:12 PM
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Do you think I could make you cry? 🥲

Tears of pain. Tears of joy. Slave tears are hot 🤪🔥

Let's find out. The phone lines are on! ☎️
February 3, 2026 at 11:47 AM
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Update about my deafness, and it isn't good news.

I added my thoughts plus my recent audiogram to the top of my high frequency hearing loss piece from 2024, after my updated hearing test last weekend.

carasutra.com/2024/12/bein...

#deafef="/hashtag/deafness" class="hover:underline text-blue-600 dark:text-sky-400 no-card-link">#deafness #hearingloss #deaf #highfrequencyloss #hearingaids
Being Deaf: High-Frequency Hearing Loss & Me
In this personal post, I write about being deaf, my high-frequency hearing loss & my deafness experiences in the UK. Plus, my shiny new hearing aids!
carasutra.com
February 3, 2026 at 7:21 PM
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You heard the Mistress. You're already living in fear or you wouldn't be here.
A life lived in fear, is a life fully lived.

#blackmail #femdom
February 3, 2026 at 3:25 AM
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I was ambivalent about the dress but now absolutely fucking love it.

And I, for one, welcome Chappell Roan's nipples as supreme leaders in a new, bigot-free world.

(I can dream)
I'm so glad he doesn't live here any more.
February 3, 2026 at 1:11 PM
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If you thought Facebook memories from 'way back when' were cringe, try reading long public essays that vehemently state views that no longer resemble the person you are today.

Yikes on several bikes 😬

#Blogging #Blogger #Writing #AmWriting #PersonalWriting #LifeWriting #UKBlogger #BlogLife
February 3, 2026 at 3:02 PM
"The diversity of humanity is necessary, beautiful and something to be loudly celebrated, not derided."
Back in 2016, I wrote about not being able to orgasm from oral sex.

10 years on, I've updated this post through new-but-older eyes. An in-depth piece in which I share my personal perspective on internal and external sexual pressure & expectations.

carasutra.com/2016/05/why-...

#SexBlog
Why Cunnilingus Doesn’t Work for Me: I Can’t Orgasm from Oral Sex
Why cunnilingus doesn’t work for me, what it’s like not to orgasm from oral sex, and what that taught me about pleasure, pressure, and sexual expectations.
carasutra.com
February 3, 2026 at 3:34 PM
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February 2, 2026 at 10:12 PM