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J O Y ❥ ✊🏾
@kraehenherz.bsky.social
An exhausted collection of special interests. Bisexual disaster. Mixed, still unapologetically Black. Your local non-binary trickster dryad. Might accidentally say clever things. Sometimes nsfw. Not your fetish.

(they/them) writes in en/de
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I’m so grateful for all the support and would appreciate if you keep sharing this and helping out if you can. Even a small amount will help us out 🫶🏾🖤
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so, the dentist sent over a cost estimate and the immediate cost will be around 1200€, and then another at least 500€ for things that will need to be done in the very near future, so if you all could share and give via paypal or kofi we would be very thankful.
October 29, 2025 at 11:13 AM
Good luck with all your future endeavors- tata!
is a sentence I’m saying on a regular basis now, while chuckling very much.
November 11, 2025 at 4:00 PM
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Due to being a refugee, I only get invited to interviews for menial and service jobs. Because of my disability, I can't work those. I live on modest and sporadic freelance earnings and can't afford surgical expenses. Please help if you can 🙏

#HelpSky #MutualAid

gofund.me/25003d6e4
Donate to Help Emma Get Gender-Affirming Surgery, organized by Em Zakharuk
UPD: Thanks to your generosity, I've been able to book a surgery date. Please help … Em Zakharuk needs your support for Help Emma Get Gender-Affirming Surgery
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November 11, 2025 at 3:07 PM
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My ribcage is aching
I’m broken and gay
I plead to the lesbians
to kiss the pain away

🎶🎶
November 11, 2025 at 12:29 PM
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I'll kiss and ill cuddle
I'll kneel down and pray
Aphrodite please mend her
We need her okay 🥺
November 11, 2025 at 2:29 PM
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Und kurzes Update was diesen Monat so geht. Man kann mir auf Patreon auch einfach umsonst folgen, denn alle nicht-exklusiven Inhalte poste ich sowieso öffentlich.

Ich halte nichts von Gatekeeping :)

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November 10, 2025 at 2:14 PM
My ribcage is aching
I’m broken and gay
I plead to the lesbians
to kiss the pain away

🎶🎶
November 11, 2025 at 12:29 PM
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Framing such an issue as “your attachment style”, shifts responsibility onto that person alone rather than an issue in the relationship to work on together.
November 11, 2025 at 12:07 PM
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Broken record and all but again:

Attachment styles in psychology are a property of a relationship, not of a person.

One person can (and usually does) have different attachments to different people.
November 11, 2025 at 12:07 PM
Invasion before bed and for breakfast is a lot. I think I dreamed of aliens… 😱
November 11, 2025 at 9:51 AM
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PSA: my flirting writes cheques my calendar _cannot_ cash.

i am okay with this if you are.
November 10, 2025 at 8:32 PM
I actually never had a good group kink/sex experience before. I think the concept sounds super fun but it can be difficult for traumatized people. Would be cool to figure that out in the future :)
November 10, 2025 at 5:50 PM
W…women 🫠🫠🫠
November 10, 2025 at 5:40 PM
I just found an older nude with a clothes pin on my nipple and I forgot about it and it’s really cute 🥰
November 10, 2025 at 3:50 PM
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Ich suche trans binäre und nicht binäre Personen, ihre die Erfahrungen, Meinungen, teilen wollen oder sogar bereit wären Interviewpartner für das Thema "trans* am Arbeitsplatz bzw. im Arbeitsmarkt" zu sein.

Bei Interesse schickt mir eine DM.
Bitte teilen!
November 10, 2025 at 3:43 PM
Chat, @juneever.green is laughing about me!!!
November 10, 2025 at 2:38 PM
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This is my cuddle pile contribution. Just a lot of soft curves, very squeezable 😌
November 9, 2025 at 5:34 PM
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I'm nearing limited funds where id have to skip meals just to be safe. I felt bad getting sandwiches this morning. Sorry to be annoying about this. I need help to keep going. I am also open for 2 icon slots for these if anyone would like art from me!

ko-fi.com/reinav
November 10, 2025 at 12:15 PM
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it’s my birthday week folks! added a couple new items over the weekend. there are 11 now in the same price range. top priorities are bed sheets and the body pillow.
hey folks, my birthday is next week and it would mean a lot if y'all could help me get this registry finished out. there are a dozen items ranging from $12 up to $182. all things i need around the house and haven't been able to replace since my ex left.

whether you can help or not, please share 🖤
Fresh Start Registry | Amazon Gift List
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November 10, 2025 at 1:40 PM
People in the neighborhood are throwing metal and bricks into a container and I’M GOING NUTS!!!!

😫😫😫
November 10, 2025 at 12:09 PM
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This distinction matters deeply when it comes to expressing specific harms and forms of violence. This isn't me claiming that you can't experience it in any case, but that I'm increasingly seeing it misused for situations it does not fit.
November 9, 2025 at 11:33 PM
Oh god I’m so happy more people are saying this. As a Black person, I deeply agree. Please be aware of the difference!!!
I need a lot of trans people, especially trans mascs, to realise that "degendering" isn't just a new word for "misgendering". Degendering is a word for being thrown out of your gender without being treated as your agab. "Regendering" is often what you're looking for, instead.
November 10, 2025 at 10:58 AM
Me: I’ll try to do a voice message that won’t be overwhelming!

Four minutes late: well, I tried 😱😭
November 10, 2025 at 10:14 AM
Today I learned that at 6‘1 I’m actually medium height. 😂
The border between short and medium height is 5’8 and the border between medium and tall is 6’3 thank you for your attention
November 10, 2025 at 7:00 AM
Good night, cuddle pile 🖤🫶🏾💋
November 9, 2025 at 10:21 PM