Ethan
@incoherentethan.bsky.social
Composer
Unserious gay person
2.8 star rating on Google Reviews
instagram.com/estearley
he/they
Unserious gay person
2.8 star rating on Google Reviews
instagram.com/estearley
he/they
Chilly autumn wake and bake outside on the balcony with a warm cup of coffee I NEED YOUUUUUU
November 11, 2025 at 4:02 PM
Chilly autumn wake and bake outside on the balcony with a warm cup of coffee I NEED YOUUUUUU
I’m not ready to cut off my hair yet, but sometimes I can definitely see the appeal of another big change and being a little free from it again, ya know?
November 11, 2025 at 3:31 PM
I’m not ready to cut off my hair yet, but sometimes I can definitely see the appeal of another big change and being a little free from it again, ya know?
Embrace rejection to move forward there’s no other wayyyyy
November 11, 2025 at 3:14 PM
Embrace rejection to move forward there’s no other wayyyyy
I think I slept 12 (nonconsecutive) hours last night and I feel so much better
Am I in a negative headspace for valid reasons or am I just sleep deprived and need a little nap?
November 11, 2025 at 1:36 PM
I think I slept 12 (nonconsecutive) hours last night and I feel so much better
Yeah followers and numbers don’t count and it’s not that serious, ik ik ik. I still do get a little annoyed when former mutuals on the other website didn’t keep the mutual when migrating over here
November 10, 2025 at 8:40 PM
Yeah followers and numbers don’t count and it’s not that serious, ik ik ik. I still do get a little annoyed when former mutuals on the other website didn’t keep the mutual when migrating over here
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they should invent a situation that improves
November 10, 2025 at 4:09 AM
they should invent a situation that improves
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Back to the gym today
November 10, 2025 at 8:22 PM
Back to the gym today
Am I in a negative headspace for valid reasons or am I just sleep deprived and need a little nap?
November 10, 2025 at 7:36 PM
Am I in a negative headspace for valid reasons or am I just sleep deprived and need a little nap?
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chat should I quit my job to focus on being hot
November 10, 2025 at 5:31 PM
chat should I quit my job to focus on being hot
Instagram should make a spiritual successor to MySpace top 8 but for gays to keep their current roster up to date
November 10, 2025 at 4:25 PM
Instagram should make a spiritual successor to MySpace top 8 but for gays to keep their current roster up to date
I’m on my 3rd listen of Alive 2007 this weekend, AMA
November 10, 2025 at 2:50 AM
I’m on my 3rd listen of Alive 2007 this weekend, AMA
Men have been giving me more compliments on my physique lately. I’ve kinda be enjoying it tbh but I’ve also it’s very strange bc I still don’t see the progress (or as much as I want?) all the time and it kinda makes me feel a bit imposter-y 🤩
November 9, 2025 at 10:14 PM
Men have been giving me more compliments on my physique lately. I’ve kinda be enjoying it tbh but I’ve also it’s very strange bc I still don’t see the progress (or as much as I want?) all the time and it kinda makes me feel a bit imposter-y 🤩
A big ego feels like a silly thing to have
November 9, 2025 at 10:04 PM
A big ego feels like a silly thing to have
I miss twitter polls bc I would tweet something rn like “should I drive to ch*cago to get out of my head and recalibrate” with a poll and completely ignore the results because I’m already in the car on my way and-
November 9, 2025 at 6:05 PM
I miss twitter polls bc I would tweet something rn like “should I drive to ch*cago to get out of my head and recalibrate” with a poll and completely ignore the results because I’m already in the car on my way and-
I mean, sure I have a silly little mood disorder that I’ve dealt with my entire life that may never go away and makes me question whether or not happiness is (or will ever be) a sustainable thing for me but at least I’m really cool and chic about it!!
November 9, 2025 at 5:25 PM
I mean, sure I have a silly little mood disorder that I’ve dealt with my entire life that may never go away and makes me question whether or not happiness is (or will ever be) a sustainable thing for me but at least I’m really cool and chic about it!!
First snow of the season and Melodrama is ON, we’re so back
November 9, 2025 at 5:15 PM
First snow of the season and Melodrama is ON, we’re so back
One of my students just called me “the emo cousin” lmfaoooo
November 8, 2025 at 8:38 PM
One of my students just called me “the emo cousin” lmfaoooo
You just had to be there
November 8, 2025 at 1:37 AM
You just had to be there
There’s only two types of people in the world— the ones that entertain and the ones that observe
I deleted my Tumblr in 2016 because me and my ex had a very public reblog fight and I decided I could never let that happen again
November 7, 2025 at 10:33 PM
There’s only two types of people in the world— the ones that entertain and the ones that observe
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Which is not saying I don’t love pop music too or that no one cultured survived that crisis just to put a disclaimer out for the “what about waffles?” crowd
November 7, 2025 at 10:27 PM
Which is not saying I don’t love pop music too or that no one cultured survived that crisis just to put a disclaimer out for the “what about waffles?” crowd
I actually think crashing out online is not only acceptable, but maybe even ideal! But only if it’s funny
November 7, 2025 at 10:17 PM
I actually think crashing out online is not only acceptable, but maybe even ideal! But only if it’s funny
We’re starting with Lili Boulanger btw
Do you think I can use the new Rosalia as a gateway and excuse to teach bsky gays about classical music
November 7, 2025 at 7:56 PM
We’re starting with Lili Boulanger btw
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He’s sweaty for an amazing reason!
November 7, 2025 at 7:33 PM
He’s sweaty for an amazing reason!