Heddy C
@heddyc.bsky.social
Mom of the most wonderful 4 adult kids, still madly in love with my hubby (met when we were 12!) love to travel, hike, dance, hang w/friends, work out w/hub, 🔥)’( & anything to do with nature, especially the beach/water.
Nervous and excited. All 4 of my adult kiddos will fly from CA to the Tampa airport here in FL for Christmas week. One of my trans kids didn’t get his gender marker changed before Trump. His IDs have a handsome picture of him with his mustache and the gender marker female. How worried should I be?
November 21, 2025 at 1:02 PM
Nervous and excited. All 4 of my adult kiddos will fly from CA to the Tampa airport here in FL for Christmas week. One of my trans kids didn’t get his gender marker changed before Trump. His IDs have a handsome picture of him with his mustache and the gender marker female. How worried should I be?
My brother, after over 9 months, is no longer our responsibility. It was hard work, took a lot of patience, a lot of time, was sometimes disgusting and stinky, pushed my boundaries and exhausted me. I’m immensely relieved it is over! He’s in an assisted living home where they can take care of him.
August 25, 2025 at 12:31 AM
My brother, after over 9 months, is no longer our responsibility. It was hard work, took a lot of patience, a lot of time, was sometimes disgusting and stinky, pushed my boundaries and exhausted me. I’m immensely relieved it is over! He’s in an assisted living home where they can take care of him.
After many months of unexpected caregiving for my brother, I just found out today that we will help him move into an assisted living facility in 10 days!!!
August 14, 2025 at 3:26 AM
After many months of unexpected caregiving for my brother, I just found out today that we will help him move into an assisted living facility in 10 days!!!
A lovely brekkie thanks to my hubby, in a lovely location, thanks to my mom.
July 24, 2025 at 5:48 PM
A lovely brekkie thanks to my hubby, in a lovely location, thanks to my mom.
Sometimes being nice, sometimes caring more about somebody you love and their feelings, can be unhelpful to your own mental health. That is all. At least now I know when to peace out and log off and stop. That is a big step.
July 14, 2025 at 4:27 AM
Sometimes being nice, sometimes caring more about somebody you love and their feelings, can be unhelpful to your own mental health. That is all. At least now I know when to peace out and log off and stop. That is a big step.
It’s hard to stay hopeful and determined with the cruelty of this presidency.
July 9, 2025 at 9:34 PM
It’s hard to stay hopeful and determined with the cruelty of this presidency.
We had the best time with a friend! Met Kim for a leisurely 3 hour hike in a town called Plant City, then had a late lunch at a delish vegetarian restaurant, then sipped wine outside in the darling downtown Lakeland. GREAT Saturday!
June 2, 2025 at 2:46 PM
We had the best time with a friend! Met Kim for a leisurely 3 hour hike in a town called Plant City, then had a late lunch at a delish vegetarian restaurant, then sipped wine outside in the darling downtown Lakeland. GREAT Saturday!
Driving half way to meet a dear friend, Kim, who lives in Florida. Asking the way by the highway, we saw a 3 story high gigantic confederate flag. 😱🤬💔 Floridians, do better!!
May 31, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Driving half way to meet a dear friend, Kim, who lives in Florida. Asking the way by the highway, we saw a 3 story high gigantic confederate flag. 😱🤬💔 Floridians, do better!!
Last night as my mom and I were hugging good bye around 9:15pm, she said she loved me and thanked me for being so helpful. Then she said, “who would’ve thought that you would’ve ended up being such a great daughter?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
May 30, 2025 at 1:52 PM
Last night as my mom and I were hugging good bye around 9:15pm, she said she loved me and thanked me for being so helpful. Then she said, “who would’ve thought that you would’ve ended up being such a great daughter?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What a wonderful Saturday so far- and soon we’ll head to the Be Fabulous Music and Art Pride Festival in Sarasota! 8am Yoga with hubby and a new friend, then a great breakfast together, then Jamie drove to a florist and picked this up! I love my kids SO much!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
May 10, 2025 at 3:32 PM
What a wonderful Saturday so far- and soon we’ll head to the Be Fabulous Music and Art Pride Festival in Sarasota! 8am Yoga with hubby and a new friend, then a great breakfast together, then Jamie drove to a florist and picked this up! I love my kids SO much!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
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Drained. Tired. But determined. We can’t give up. Plus one of my 3 sons just excitedly signed a lease. His first apartment with a partner! Young love is so invigorating! Wishing him and his boyfriend fabulous memories in their new place come late May. 🥰
April 19, 2025 at 4:56 AM
Drained. Tired. But determined. We can’t give up. Plus one of my 3 sons just excitedly signed a lease. His first apartment with a partner! Young love is so invigorating! Wishing him and his boyfriend fabulous memories in their new place come late May. 🥰
We left to protest in St Pete’s but the bridge was closed😳, so I found a protest locally in Bradenton, just a 3 minute drive from us. Didn’t expect much, guessed maybe 50 people would attend in this red city. It was 800! 😃 Much more than a pleasant surprise- it was an encouraging hopeful euphoria!🥰
April 5, 2025 at 6:13 PM
We left to protest in St Pete’s but the bridge was closed😳, so I found a protest locally in Bradenton, just a 3 minute drive from us. Didn’t expect much, guessed maybe 50 people would attend in this red city. It was 800! 😃 Much more than a pleasant surprise- it was an encouraging hopeful euphoria!🥰
I said the pledge of allegiance in elementary school- so this sign is one of my favorites!!!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
April 5, 2025 at 6:01 PM
I said the pledge of allegiance in elementary school- so this sign is one of my favorites!!!! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
Microdosing news is keeping my mental health in check this term. And being outside. And the awesome weekends. And talking to my kids and friends. And meeting & volunteering for peeps in the LGBTQ community. 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️
March 26, 2025 at 8:08 PM
Microdosing news is keeping my mental health in check this term. And being outside. And the awesome weekends. And talking to my kids and friends. And meeting & volunteering for peeps in the LGBTQ community. 🏳️🌈 🏳️⚧️
This weekend was jammed packed, mostly wonderful, a little painful (broke my toe, sprained a couple fingers, got a black eye). But here, I’ll share some of the very best parts!
March 24, 2025 at 2:19 PM
This weekend was jammed packed, mostly wonderful, a little painful (broke my toe, sprained a couple fingers, got a black eye). But here, I’ll share some of the very best parts!
One of my goals, w/my mom’s Parkinsons, is to keep her active. I firmly push her to walk around her old farts’ campus with me 5 times a week. We’ve held hands while walking the 1.1 miles, but for the first time in our lives we saw wood ducks.😍Their coloring appeared to be AI! Absolutely gorgeous.
March 22, 2025 at 2:12 AM
One of my goals, w/my mom’s Parkinsons, is to keep her active. I firmly push her to walk around her old farts’ campus with me 5 times a week. We’ve held hands while walking the 1.1 miles, but for the first time in our lives we saw wood ducks.😍Their coloring appeared to be AI! Absolutely gorgeous.
Volunteered the past 2 days for 11-15 year olds for a local LGBTQ youth group. It’s spring break here, so they hosted a camp 9am-5pm. I was there 8:30-1:30 (then went to help my mom & brother). Spending time with people under 80, and with humans that don’t have cognitive dissonance, was AWESOME!! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
March 21, 2025 at 11:04 PM
Volunteered the past 2 days for 11-15 year olds for a local LGBTQ youth group. It’s spring break here, so they hosted a camp 9am-5pm. I was there 8:30-1:30 (then went to help my mom & brother). Spending time with people under 80, and with humans that don’t have cognitive dissonance, was AWESOME!! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
The 1.1 mile walk with my mom around her old folks’ campus is usually peaceful, with ducks, geese, ibis, turtles, herons & squirrels.
March 1, 2025 at 1:02 AM
The 1.1 mile walk with my mom around her old folks’ campus is usually peaceful, with ducks, geese, ibis, turtles, herons & squirrels.
I love my nanny-kiddos! 💞Miss these cuties. 🥹 Video calls make my day!! 🥰
February 25, 2025 at 7:53 PM
I love my nanny-kiddos! 💞Miss these cuties. 🥹 Video calls make my day!! 🥰
A beautiful large moth on the way up the stairs to our condo. 🤎
February 25, 2025 at 7:48 PM
A beautiful large moth on the way up the stairs to our condo. 🤎
I’m always grateful for sunsets from Anna Maria Island. Especially when I’m with my hubby.🥰
February 25, 2025 at 5:56 PM
I’m always grateful for sunsets from Anna Maria Island. Especially when I’m with my hubby.🥰
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For the US to side with Russia and North Korea to oppose a UN resolution condemning the illegal invasion of Ukraine defies all common sense and adds insult to the countless injuries suffered by the brave Ukrainian people. edition.cnn.com/2025/02/24/p...
US joins Russia to vote against UN resolution condemning Russia’s war against Ukraine | CNN Politics
The United States joined Russia to vote against a UN General Assembly resolution condemning Russia’s war against Ukraine Monday in a stunning shift from years of US policy.
edition.cnn.com
February 25, 2025 at 9:29 AM
For the US to side with Russia and North Korea to oppose a UN resolution condemning the illegal invasion of Ukraine defies all common sense and adds insult to the countless injuries suffered by the brave Ukrainian people. edition.cnn.com/2025/02/24/p...
Another dinner with the gruzz (& my brother). The brined/smoked salmon was delish! But gee we miss our friends…
February 25, 2025 at 2:27 AM
Another dinner with the gruzz (& my brother). The brined/smoked salmon was delish! But gee we miss our friends…