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The Gray Gay
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Once called the “Etsy Ryan Reynolds.” Texas lawyer with three kids and a husband I love very much. I'm here to share a laugh or two with others, not at them.
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To all the Newskies. Welcome y’all (that means ALL y’all). If ya missed it, I’m a 50-year gay lawyer in Texas acting stupid through his midlife crisis. I've got a husband, a grown son and 2 little kids I love with all my heart. I put out love and silly content. I can't wait to get to know y’all.
Sugar, if this look doesn’t scream ‘serving face,’ it sure as shoot’n whispers ‘serving hash browns.
November 20, 2025 at 7:07 PM
A few of my favorite clips from emceeing a charity fashion show here in Houston. That’s Donald J Pliner, my husband, Theresa Gudice and me before the show, me starting the show and last, me with my new bestie, Natalie Eva Marie of WWE.
November 17, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Because every family should have a bit of magic… and a unicorn big enough to share.

Couldn’t love this painting (or the people in it) more! - by Tra Slaughter

#FamilyPortraitArt #HomeIsWhereTheArtIs #HoustonArtScene #OriginalArtwork #LocalArtistMagic
#art
#fineart
#Dads
#married
#family
November 6, 2025 at 3:23 PM
I am thrilled to have Puddles Pity Party home! I saw this painting a few years ago and was unable to afford it. I’ve never gotten over that. Today, Tra Slaughter Fine Arts delivered him!
November 5, 2025 at 10:30 PM
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We've been together every day for twenty-two years. Poor guy deserves a night off. #Anniversary #dads #Married
November 4, 2025 at 2:57 AM
We've been together every day for twenty-two years. Poor guy deserves a night off. #Anniversary #dads #Married
November 4, 2025 at 2:57 AM
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Dressed to depress. #happyhalloween2025
October 30, 2025 at 12:49 AM
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Give me Wednesday but make it 2006 Paris / Britney
October 29, 2025 at 11:35 PM
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I love MaBubu. He puts up with so much.
October 30, 2025 at 12:29 AM
Dressed to depress. #happyhalloween2025
October 30, 2025 at 12:49 AM
Give me Wednesday but make it 2006 Paris / Britney
October 29, 2025 at 11:35 PM
Today was a very big day for me. Over a year in the making for me to get “the call.” - I have a bag for you..
October 29, 2025 at 12:16 AM
Tonight started #HalloweenWars Week. I’ll post each night’s gift video in a thread.
My bestie and I have been giving each other surprise Halloween gifts every October for over ten years. This was tonight’s. #HalloweenWars
October 26, 2025 at 2:14 AM
My bestie and I have been giving each other surprise Halloween gifts every October for over ten years. This was tonight’s. #HalloweenWars
October 25, 2025 at 3:34 PM
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There is a designer bag I wanted but didn’t preorder so I watched it sell out. I’ve tried everything to get. My sales associates couldn’t even get it for me. I got scammed trying to buy on resale market. Today this happened. #IMarriedMyBestFriend
October 23, 2025 at 7:28 PM
There is a designer bag I wanted but didn’t preorder so I watched it sell out. I’ve tried everything to get. My sales associates couldn’t even get it for me. I got scammed trying to buy on resale market. Today this happened. #IMarriedMyBestFriend
October 23, 2025 at 7:28 PM
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These young’ns and this TikTokkery nonsense got me acting a fool in my closet. Hope it gives ya a laugh.
October 19, 2025 at 4:29 PM
These young’ns and this TikTokkery nonsense got me acting a fool in my closet. Hope it gives ya a laugh.
October 19, 2025 at 4:29 PM
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These are the things they don’t tell you!
October 15, 2025 at 5:11 PM
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breaking: bluesky mods caught gnawing on wires in the server room
October 15, 2025 at 5:40 PM
These are the things they don’t tell you!
October 15, 2025 at 5:11 PM
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shhhhh… it was a really long drive
October 13, 2025 at 7:17 PM
I have a dear friend whom I terrorize every Halloween with presents. Dark is my love language. #EmoAtHeart
October 11, 2025 at 11:01 PM
Halloweenier Tour of some of the bits and bobs on the first floor.
October 10, 2025 at 10:02 PM
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This ring was the first nice thing my immigrant mother bought after she got her nursing degree. I just got it back from NYC after a reviewing and slight upgrade. I may cry every time I see it. 😭
October 9, 2025 at 9:58 PM