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@friendlywraith.bsky.social
Software Engineer | Saint Louis, MO | Love languages and nice long baths 😊🌈
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Oh sorry I forgot to tell you I got a haircut. Will you forgive me? 🥹
November 11, 2025 at 12:16 PM
Oh sorry I forgot to tell you I got a haircut. Will you forgive me? 🥹
Wow WHO KNEW properly hydrating all day would *magically* cure my chapped lips?? Not me, I tell you! 🤣
November 11, 2025 at 2:13 AM
Wow WHO KNEW properly hydrating all day would *magically* cure my chapped lips?? Not me, I tell you! 🤣
Ask The Community #11! Where you answer a (often depraved) question I’ve been sent in an AMA before so that I (we) can get to know you better 🤗😏
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Do you prefer texting/dms or calls w friends?
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Do you prefer texting/dms or calls w friends?
November 9, 2025 at 3:36 PM
Ask The Community #11! Where you answer a (often depraved) question I’ve been sent in an AMA before so that I (we) can get to know you better 🤗😏
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Do you prefer texting/dms or calls w friends?
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Do you prefer texting/dms or calls w friends?
The winter jungle is here! 🪴🥰
November 9, 2025 at 3:33 PM
The winter jungle is here! 🪴🥰
Oldest selfie on your phone
This is from 2014… really concentrating hard on my reading 🤣
This is from 2014… really concentrating hard on my reading 🤣
November 8, 2025 at 2:04 PM
Oldest selfie on your phone
This is from 2014… really concentrating hard on my reading 🤣
This is from 2014… really concentrating hard on my reading 🤣
The hubby has started playing Hades II so I may as well be single now 🤣
November 7, 2025 at 1:48 AM
The hubby has started playing Hades II so I may as well be single now 🤣
I like sleeping naked but in the colder months it makes it hard to get out of bed in the morning 🥶 so I’ll put my socks and sweatpants by the bed and first warm them up under the covers before putting them on and then getting up — pretty genius move huh??
🤣 happy thursday sweeties!
🤣 happy thursday sweeties!
November 6, 2025 at 2:13 PM
I like sleeping naked but in the colder months it makes it hard to get out of bed in the morning 🥶 so I’ll put my socks and sweatpants by the bed and first warm them up under the covers before putting them on and then getting up — pretty genius move huh??
🤣 happy thursday sweeties!
🤣 happy thursday sweeties!
Who needs to drink green tea when you can just put it on your face?? 🍵 hope y’all are having a relaxing night! 💚
November 4, 2025 at 2:39 AM
Who needs to drink green tea when you can just put it on your face?? 🍵 hope y’all are having a relaxing night! 💚
Grrrl THAT NAME. THAT ABILITY. The way I died when I saw this 🤣🤣
November 3, 2025 at 2:02 AM
Grrrl THAT NAME. THAT ABILITY. The way I died when I saw this 🤣🤣
Oct 2025 Fitness Goals:
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⚖️ 🟢 Gained 11/20 lbs since Jan!
🐟 (🟢 0.5%) Hit daily protein target
🍩 (🟢 0.5%) Hit daily calorie target
🏋️ (🔴 89%) Lift weights 3x/wk
🚴 (🟢 0.11%) Cycle 3x/wk
🚲 (🟢 0.06%) 25 mins in Zone 2 per cycle
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Sept was crap goalwise but DID A LIL MORE in Oct so I'm countin the win 🤣
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⚖️ 🟢 Gained 11/20 lbs since Jan!
🐟 (🟢 0.5%) Hit daily protein target
🍩 (🟢 0.5%) Hit daily calorie target
🏋️ (🔴 89%) Lift weights 3x/wk
🚴 (🟢 0.11%) Cycle 3x/wk
🚲 (🟢 0.06%) 25 mins in Zone 2 per cycle
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Sept was crap goalwise but DID A LIL MORE in Oct so I'm countin the win 🤣
November 2, 2025 at 8:48 PM
Oct 2025 Fitness Goals:
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⚖️ 🟢 Gained 11/20 lbs since Jan!
🐟 (🟢 0.5%) Hit daily protein target
🍩 (🟢 0.5%) Hit daily calorie target
🏋️ (🔴 89%) Lift weights 3x/wk
🚴 (🟢 0.11%) Cycle 3x/wk
🚲 (🟢 0.06%) 25 mins in Zone 2 per cycle
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Sept was crap goalwise but DID A LIL MORE in Oct so I'm countin the win 🤣
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⚖️ 🟢 Gained 11/20 lbs since Jan!
🐟 (🟢 0.5%) Hit daily protein target
🍩 (🟢 0.5%) Hit daily calorie target
🏋️ (🔴 89%) Lift weights 3x/wk
🚴 (🟢 0.11%) Cycle 3x/wk
🚲 (🟢 0.06%) 25 mins in Zone 2 per cycle
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Sept was crap goalwise but DID A LIL MORE in Oct so I'm countin the win 🤣
Obsessed! 😍 (and if you’re not showing here I’m sure I still 💜 you!)
November 1, 2025 at 2:35 PM
Obsessed! 😍 (and if you’re not showing here I’m sure I still 💜 you!)
Three lil pumpkins 🎃 which one did I carve?? It’s trickier than you think! 🤗
November 1, 2025 at 2:19 PM
Three lil pumpkins 🎃 which one did I carve?? It’s trickier than you think! 🤗
2009. Halloween. Zombie. Earned the title, "Drunkest Bitch at the Party" because I kept making out with everyone and being a sassy b*tch. No regrets 😂. Happy Halloween friends! 🧡
October 31, 2025 at 4:24 PM
2009. Halloween. Zombie. Earned the title, "Drunkest Bitch at the Party" because I kept making out with everyone and being a sassy b*tch. No regrets 😂. Happy Halloween friends! 🧡
Back on Pokemon TCGP and wow there are SO MANY DECKS to catch up on 😵! At least I get to look at cuties like Grookey again 😍
(Curse you @classicsftw.bsky.social for bringing this back into my life!!)
(Curse you @classicsftw.bsky.social for bringing this back into my life!!)
October 31, 2025 at 10:50 AM
Back on Pokemon TCGP and wow there are SO MANY DECKS to catch up on 😵! At least I get to look at cuties like Grookey again 😍
(Curse you @classicsftw.bsky.social for bringing this back into my life!!)
(Curse you @classicsftw.bsky.social for bringing this back into my life!!)
I just finished all three of the books in the tarot sequence + the epilogue-y fourth book and WOW SUCH a great read! The characters were great, the story was great, I laughed, I cried. Can’t WAIT for more from this author! 😍 (thanks for the rec @matchatrees.bsky.social 😘)
October 31, 2025 at 9:45 AM
I just finished all three of the books in the tarot sequence + the epilogue-y fourth book and WOW SUCH a great read! The characters were great, the story was great, I laughed, I cried. Can’t WAIT for more from this author! 😍 (thanks for the rec @matchatrees.bsky.social 😘)
Okay diva is a 🐌 now huh? 🤣
October 30, 2025 at 11:05 PM
Okay diva is a 🐌 now huh? 🤣
Ask The Community #10! Where you answer a (often depraved) question I’ve been sent in an AMA before so that I (we) can get to know you better 🤗😏
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Most loads taken?
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Most loads taken?
October 30, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Ask The Community #10! Where you answer a (often depraved) question I’ve been sent in an AMA before so that I (we) can get to know you better 🤗😏
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Most loads taken?
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Most loads taken?
HAPPY (U.S.) NATIONAL CAT 🐈 DAY! Here’s me pretending to sleep while Nomi actually does so (she’s a professional). I love her so much! 🥹❤️
Let’s celebrate all our sweet feline friends today! 💕
Let’s celebrate all our sweet feline friends today! 💕
October 29, 2025 at 11:46 AM
HAPPY (U.S.) NATIONAL CAT 🐈 DAY! Here’s me pretending to sleep while Nomi actually does so (she’s a professional). I love her so much! 🥹❤️
Let’s celebrate all our sweet feline friends today! 💕
Let’s celebrate all our sweet feline friends today! 💕
Only slept 2.5 hours last night (curse you active mind!) but still gonna try to have a good day 🥹 here’s to hoping y’all slept better than me! 🥰
October 29, 2025 at 11:09 AM
Only slept 2.5 hours last night (curse you active mind!) but still gonna try to have a good day 🥹 here’s to hoping y’all slept better than me! 🥰
Glad y’all enjoyed my 🍆! Now back to my regularly scheduled programming 😘🥰
October 28, 2025 at 9:55 PM
Glad y’all enjoyed my 🍆! Now back to my regularly scheduled programming 😘🥰
The PNW is so pretty y’all 🥹😍
October 27, 2025 at 2:51 PM
The PNW is so pretty y’all 🥹😍
It’s sooo nice being home after a trip! Looking forward to getting back into my routine 🥹. Thanks Seattle and Olympia, you were amazing and beautiful and I look forward to returning! ❤️
October 27, 2025 at 2:01 PM
It’s sooo nice being home after a trip! Looking forward to getting back into my routine 🥹. Thanks Seattle and Olympia, you were amazing and beautiful and I look forward to returning! ❤️
I recently turned on the “your phone is too close your face” feature and gosh the amount of times it activates 😂 I’ve been destroying my eyes for years apparently!
October 24, 2025 at 4:15 PM
I recently turned on the “your phone is too close your face” feature and gosh the amount of times it activates 😂 I’ve been destroying my eyes for years apparently!
Just read an article about how one way to find happiness in life is by figuring out your purpose (which can shift and change over time) and focusing on doing stuff to further that purpose.
I’ve never really thought about what my purpose is! Have you? What would you say yours is? 🥰
I’ve never really thought about what my purpose is! Have you? What would you say yours is? 🥰
October 24, 2025 at 1:57 PM
Just read an article about how one way to find happiness in life is by figuring out your purpose (which can shift and change over time) and focusing on doing stuff to further that purpose.
I’ve never really thought about what my purpose is! Have you? What would you say yours is? 🥰
I’ve never really thought about what my purpose is! Have you? What would you say yours is? 🥰
We made it to Friday! 🎉 What’re the weekend plans errybody? We’re heading down to Olympia to visit some friends 🥰
October 24, 2025 at 1:15 PM
We made it to Friday! 🎉 What’re the weekend plans errybody? We’re heading down to Olympia to visit some friends 🥰