Unlike us men, who shoot straight up to the peak like a steep cliff,
women move on a slow, gentle slope.
Nobody is going to match the timing of our instant arousal —
that’s just reality.
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First of all, men and women approach sex in fundamentally different ways.
Our desire comes straight from instinct, so even if we “understand” that difference in our heads, it’s damn hard to handle it properly in real life.

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You have to take it step by step:
lightly holding her hand,
touching her shoulder,
facing her,
gently touching her face and hair…
That’s how you help her climb that gentle slope,
slowly and with time.
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But unless you get this point right, nothing’s gonna start.

That’s why the most important thing is preparation.

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