ossantoomp
@ossantoomp.bsky.social
Surviving midlife one thought at a time.
From Japan.
From Japan.
Everyone, try checking when your partner last said “I’m sorry.”
If it hasn’t happened in a year… something’s probably broken already, I swear lol
#relationships #truthslice
If it hasn’t happened in a year… something’s probably broken already, I swear lol
#relationships #truthslice
November 11, 2025 at 10:03 PM
Everyone, try checking when your partner last said “I’m sorry.”
If it hasn’t happened in a year… something’s probably broken already, I swear lol
#relationships #truthslice
If it hasn’t happened in a year… something’s probably broken already, I swear lol
#relationships #truthslice
If loss is really the disappearance of future possibilities,
then of course we never notice it coming.
You can’t miss what you still believe is waiting for you.
#loss #fromjapan
then of course we never notice it coming.
You can’t miss what you still believe is waiting for you.
#loss #fromjapan
November 10, 2025 at 12:05 PM
If loss is really the disappearance of future possibilities,
then of course we never notice it coming.
You can’t miss what you still believe is waiting for you.
#loss #fromjapan
then of course we never notice it coming.
You can’t miss what you still believe is waiting for you.
#loss #fromjapan
Loss isn’t just about the past.
It’s the moment when something that could have happened
suddenly becomes something that never will.
#loss #fromjapan
It’s the moment when something that could have happened
suddenly becomes something that never will.
#loss #fromjapan
November 10, 2025 at 12:04 PM
Loss isn’t just about the past.
It’s the moment when something that could have happened
suddenly becomes something that never will.
#loss #fromjapan
It’s the moment when something that could have happened
suddenly becomes something that never will.
#loss #fromjapan
But the end result of betraying your own heart is this:
a middle-aged zombie like me.
By the way, why do you Americans love zombies so much? lol
#ZombieCulture
a middle-aged zombie like me.
By the way, why do you Americans love zombies so much? lol
#ZombieCulture
November 9, 2025 at 1:58 PM
But the end result of betraying your own heart is this:
a middle-aged zombie like me.
By the way, why do you Americans love zombies so much? lol
#ZombieCulture
a middle-aged zombie like me.
By the way, why do you Americans love zombies so much? lol
#ZombieCulture
Sorry, everyone.
#MiddleAgedConfessions
I once went along with younger folks laughing at “middle-aged men desperate for validation,”
and I threw stones with them.
#MiddleAgedConfessions
I once went along with younger folks laughing at “middle-aged men desperate for validation,”
and I threw stones with them.
November 9, 2025 at 1:57 PM
Sorry, everyone.
#MiddleAgedConfessions
I once went along with younger folks laughing at “middle-aged men desperate for validation,”
and I threw stones with them.
#MiddleAgedConfessions
I once went along with younger folks laughing at “middle-aged men desperate for validation,”
and I threw stones with them.
**Good morning from Japan.
Morning isn’t a beginning for me.
It’s the night pretending it’s over.
TV keeps talking about yesterday.
I just wonder when my real morning will come.
#FromJapan #MenInTheDark**
Morning isn’t a beginning for me.
It’s the night pretending it’s over.
TV keeps talking about yesterday.
I just wonder when my real morning will come.
#FromJapan #MenInTheDark**
November 9, 2025 at 12:12 AM
**Good morning from Japan.
Morning isn’t a beginning for me.
It’s the night pretending it’s over.
TV keeps talking about yesterday.
I just wonder when my real morning will come.
#FromJapan #MenInTheDark**
Morning isn’t a beginning for me.
It’s the night pretending it’s over.
TV keeps talking about yesterday.
I just wonder when my real morning will come.
#FromJapan #MenInTheDark**
“Age is just a number,” huh — I want to deck the guy who believed that.
There’s barely any time left to be loved; it makes me want to cry.
Let’s keep fighting together.
#FromJapan #Midlife
There’s barely any time left to be loved; it makes me want to cry.
Let’s keep fighting together.
#FromJapan #Midlife
November 8, 2025 at 1:53 PM
“Age is just a number,” huh — I want to deck the guy who believed that.
There’s barely any time left to be loved; it makes me want to cry.
Let’s keep fighting together.
#FromJapan #Midlife
There’s barely any time left to be loved; it makes me want to cry.
Let’s keep fighting together.
#FromJapan #Midlife
So let me leave you with this:
3. Check the underwear. Seriously.
But don’t act like a creep, ok?
#FromJapan #marriedlife
And listen—
even if you find some insanely sexy lingerie,
don’t you dare get excited.
It’s probably not for you, bro. 😂
#truestory #brotherhood #marriageadvice
3. Check the underwear. Seriously.
But don’t act like a creep, ok?
#FromJapan #marriedlife
And listen—
even if you find some insanely sexy lingerie,
don’t you dare get excited.
It’s probably not for you, bro. 😂
#truestory #brotherhood #marriageadvice
November 7, 2025 at 12:05 PM
So let me leave you with this:
3. Check the underwear. Seriously.
But don’t act like a creep, ok?
#FromJapan #marriedlife
And listen—
even if you find some insanely sexy lingerie,
don’t you dare get excited.
It’s probably not for you, bro. 😂
#truestory #brotherhood #marriageadvice
3. Check the underwear. Seriously.
But don’t act like a creep, ok?
#FromJapan #marriedlife
And listen—
even if you find some insanely sexy lingerie,
don’t you dare get excited.
It’s probably not for you, bro. 😂
#truestory #brotherhood #marriageadvice
Some say women wear sexy underwear just to feel good about themselves.
Maybe.
I don’t know.
It scared the hell out of me,
and I didn’t have the guts to ask.
#dontask
Maybe.
I don’t know.
It scared the hell out of me,
and I didn’t have the guts to ask.
#dontask
November 7, 2025 at 12:02 PM
Some say women wear sexy underwear just to feel good about themselves.
Maybe.
I don’t know.
It scared the hell out of me,
and I didn’t have the guts to ask.
#dontask
Maybe.
I don’t know.
It scared the hell out of me,
and I didn’t have the guts to ask.
#dontask
Not the usual stuff.
I mean, crazy sexy, see-through, string-thin panties
I had never seen in my damn life.
#WTF #truestory #helpbrothers
I mean, crazy sexy, see-through, string-thin panties
I had never seen in my damn life.
#WTF #truestory #helpbrothers
November 7, 2025 at 12:01 PM
Not the usual stuff.
I mean, crazy sexy, see-through, string-thin panties
I had never seen in my damn life.
#WTF #truestory #helpbrothers
I mean, crazy sexy, see-through, string-thin panties
I had never seen in my damn life.
#WTF #truestory #helpbrothers
Something felt off.
So when my wife wasn’t home, I took a look in the bedroom.
#FromJapan #marriage
And there they were—
inside the coat rack, hidden behind hanging pants—
a row of underwear she’d stashed away.
#redflag
So when my wife wasn’t home, I took a look in the bedroom.
#FromJapan #marriage
And there they were—
inside the coat rack, hidden behind hanging pants—
a row of underwear she’d stashed away.
#redflag
November 7, 2025 at 12:01 PM
Something felt off.
So when my wife wasn’t home, I took a look in the bedroom.
#FromJapan #marriage
And there they were—
inside the coat rack, hidden behind hanging pants—
a row of underwear she’d stashed away.
#redflag
So when my wife wasn’t home, I took a look in the bedroom.
#FromJapan #marriage
And there they were—
inside the coat rack, hidden behind hanging pants—
a row of underwear she’d stashed away.
#redflag
When she takes a bath, she locks the door tight—
even the kids can’t come in.
Around the same time, I noticed something else.
I do the laundry at home,
and suddenly her usual underwear—the ones she always bought online—
stopped showing up in the wash.
#redflag
even the kids can’t come in.
Around the same time, I noticed something else.
I do the laundry at home,
and suddenly her usual underwear—the ones she always bought online—
stopped showing up in the wash.
#redflag
November 7, 2025 at 11:59 AM
When she takes a bath, she locks the door tight—
even the kids can’t come in.
Around the same time, I noticed something else.
I do the laundry at home,
and suddenly her usual underwear—the ones she always bought online—
stopped showing up in the wash.
#redflag
even the kids can’t come in.
Around the same time, I noticed something else.
I do the laundry at home,
and suddenly her usual underwear—the ones she always bought online—
stopped showing up in the wash.
#redflag
2. Don’t let a moment of sexual frustration crush your soul.
Even if she doesn’t touch you anymore,
your value doesn’t drop to zero.
And don’t blame her.
There’s always a reason she walked down that hill.
#mensmentalhealth
#selfworth
Even if she doesn’t touch you anymore,
your value doesn’t drop to zero.
And don’t blame her.
There’s always a reason she walked down that hill.
#mensmentalhealth
#selfworth
November 7, 2025 at 11:58 AM
2. Don’t let a moment of sexual frustration crush your soul.
Even if she doesn’t touch you anymore,
your value doesn’t drop to zero.
And don’t blame her.
There’s always a reason she walked down that hill.
#mensmentalhealth
#selfworth
Even if she doesn’t touch you anymore,
your value doesn’t drop to zero.
And don’t blame her.
There’s always a reason she walked down that hill.
#mensmentalhealth
#selfworth
1. This problem will never be solved in a short time.
It’s a long-term project, period.
Start small: when you pass each other at home,
lightly touch her waist—
not in a creepy way, just naturally.
#relationship
#longgame
It’s a long-term project, period.
Start small: when you pass each other at home,
lightly touch her waist—
not in a creepy way, just naturally.
#relationship
#longgame
November 7, 2025 at 11:57 AM
1. This problem will never be solved in a short time.
It’s a long-term project, period.
Start small: when you pass each other at home,
lightly touch her waist—
not in a creepy way, just naturally.
#relationship
#longgame
It’s a long-term project, period.
Start small: when you pass each other at home,
lightly touch her waist—
not in a creepy way, just naturally.
#relationship
#longgame
I’m already one of the guys who gave up,
but for the brothers still trying to fix things,
I want to leave you with these three things.
#relationship
#longgame
but for the brothers still trying to fix things,
I want to leave you with these three things.
#relationship
#longgame
November 7, 2025 at 11:56 AM
I’m already one of the guys who gave up,
but for the brothers still trying to fix things,
I want to leave you with these three things.
#relationship
#longgame
but for the brothers still trying to fix things,
I want to leave you with these three things.
#relationship
#longgame
Going back up the hill with a wife who already walked down it…
Man, that’s almost impossible.
Not totally impossible, but damn close.
Because that electric feeling you had when you first touched her hand?
There’s no way that’s living in her anymore.
#FromJapan
#midlife
Man, that’s almost impossible.
Not totally impossible, but damn close.
Because that electric feeling you had when you first touched her hand?
There’s no way that’s living in her anymore.
#FromJapan
#midlife
November 7, 2025 at 11:55 AM
Going back up the hill with a wife who already walked down it…
Man, that’s almost impossible.
Not totally impossible, but damn close.
Because that electric feeling you had when you first touched her hand?
There’s no way that’s living in her anymore.
#FromJapan
#midlife
Man, that’s almost impossible.
Not totally impossible, but damn close.
Because that electric feeling you had when you first touched her hand?
There’s no way that’s living in her anymore.
#FromJapan
#midlife
In Japan, there’s a popular post from a female influencer saying,
“Middle-aged men should shut up and go talk to AI.”
It went mega-viral. Millions of impressions.
Honestly… I’m just grateful I lived long enough to actually have AI to talk to.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedLife
“Middle-aged men should shut up and go talk to AI.”
It went mega-viral. Millions of impressions.
Honestly… I’m just grateful I lived long enough to actually have AI to talk to.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedLife
November 7, 2025 at 4:44 AM
In Japan, there’s a popular post from a female influencer saying,
“Middle-aged men should shut up and go talk to AI.”
It went mega-viral. Millions of impressions.
Honestly… I’m just grateful I lived long enough to actually have AI to talk to.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedLife
“Middle-aged men should shut up and go talk to AI.”
It went mega-viral. Millions of impressions.
Honestly… I’m just grateful I lived long enough to actually have AI to talk to.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedLife
If you’re hurting this season:
bro, same.
We’re walking through a damn theme park of illusions.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
bro, same.
We’re walking through a damn theme park of illusions.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
November 7, 2025 at 3:22 AM
If you’re hurting this season:
bro, same.
We’re walking through a damn theme park of illusions.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
bro, same.
We’re walking through a damn theme park of illusions.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
They slap a “Happy Birthday, Jesus” sticker on it
and pretend it’s not the biggest annual cover-up in human history.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
and pretend it’s not the biggest annual cover-up in human history.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
November 7, 2025 at 3:22 AM
They slap a “Happy Birthday, Jesus” sticker on it
and pretend it’s not the biggest annual cover-up in human history.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
and pretend it’s not the biggest annual cover-up in human history.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
Everyone’s acting like Christmas is holy and cute,
but let’s be honest—
it’s just a worldwide festival of booze, fake smiles,
and couples trying to sneak home early to have sex.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
but let’s be honest—
it’s just a worldwide festival of booze, fake smiles,
and couples trying to sneak home early to have sex.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
November 7, 2025 at 3:21 AM
Everyone’s acting like Christmas is holy and cute,
but let’s be honest—
it’s just a worldwide festival of booze, fake smiles,
and couples trying to sneak home early to have sex.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
but let’s be honest—
it’s just a worldwide festival of booze, fake smiles,
and couples trying to sneak home early to have sex.
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
As an aside, Last Christmas hits different when you’re freshly dumped.
How the hell is a breakup song THAT catchy?
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
How the hell is a breakup song THAT catchy?
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
November 7, 2025 at 3:20 AM
As an aside, Last Christmas hits different when you’re freshly dumped.
How the hell is a breakup song THAT catchy?
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
How the hell is a breakup song THAT catchy?
#FromJapan #MiddleAgedCrisis #LostAndConfused #ChristmasBlues
You have to take it step by step:
lightly holding her hand,
touching her shoulder,
facing her,
gently touching her face and hair…
That’s how you help her climb that gentle slope,
slowly and with time.
#SexlessMarriageFromJapan
lightly holding her hand,
touching her shoulder,
facing her,
gently touching her face and hair…
That’s how you help her climb that gentle slope,
slowly and with time.
#SexlessMarriageFromJapan
November 6, 2025 at 5:21 PM
You have to take it step by step:
lightly holding her hand,
touching her shoulder,
facing her,
gently touching her face and hair…
That’s how you help her climb that gentle slope,
slowly and with time.
#SexlessMarriageFromJapan
lightly holding her hand,
touching her shoulder,
facing her,
gently touching her face and hair…
That’s how you help her climb that gentle slope,
slowly and with time.
#SexlessMarriageFromJapan