Fantasy, not financial harm.
Know your budget. Honor your needs.
This dynamic exists only where trust and boundaries are respected.
#ethicalfindom #softpower #devotion
Know your budget. Honor your needs.
This dynamic exists only where trust and boundaries are respected.
#ethicalfindom #softpower #devotion
December 14, 2025 at 5:19 AM
Fantasy, not financial harm.
Know your budget. Honor your needs.
This dynamic exists only where trust and boundaries are respected.
#ethicalfindom #softpower #devotion
Know your budget. Honor your needs.
This dynamic exists only where trust and boundaries are respected.
#ethicalfindom #softpower #devotion
Curious about a #debtcontract? Wanting to explore #findom but nervous about getting carried away and screwing up your finances? As an #ethicalfindom I make sure my boy has a lot of fun while staying within a reasonable budget. DM me and let’s talk! #domdaddy #leatherman
November 18, 2024 at 11:19 PM
Curious about a #debtcontract? Wanting to explore #findom but nervous about getting carried away and screwing up your finances? As an #ethicalfindom I make sure my boy has a lot of fun while staying within a reasonable budget. DM me and let’s talk! #domdaddy #leatherman
A boy saw my previous post about blackmail and messaged me to say it had happened to him once. I'll say it again. Extortion is a crime. It has no place in #findom or any other sector of #bdsm play. #ethicalfindom
November 22, 2024 at 1:53 PM
A boy saw my previous post about blackmail and messaged me to say it had happened to him once. I'll say it again. Extortion is a crime. It has no place in #findom or any other sector of #bdsm play. #ethicalfindom
Subs must declare any monetary Christmas presents they might receive to their Master. What happens with that money is not your decision to make.
#findom #ethicalfindom #gayfindom #financesforsubs
#findom #ethicalfindom #gayfindom #financesforsubs
December 23, 2024 at 2:53 PM
Subs must declare any monetary Christmas presents they might receive to their Master. What happens with that money is not your decision to make.
#findom #ethicalfindom #gayfindom #financesforsubs
#findom #ethicalfindom #gayfindom #financesforsubs
I‘ve been daydreaming of a new play thing ✨
#PrincessPayapa #ProtectHerPeace #FinDom #FinDomme #ethicalFinDom #FemDom #ownership #devotion #finsub #submissive #loyalsubject #humanATM #paypig
#PrincessPayapa #ProtectHerPeace #FinDom #FinDomme #ethicalFinDom #FemDom #ownership #devotion #finsub #submissive #loyalsubject #humanATM #paypig
April 18, 2025 at 11:26 PM
I‘ve been daydreaming of a new play thing ✨
#PrincessPayapa #ProtectHerPeace #FinDom #FinDomme #ethicalFinDom #FemDom #ownership #devotion #finsub #submissive #loyalsubject #humanATM #paypig
#PrincessPayapa #ProtectHerPeace #FinDom #FinDomme #ethicalFinDom #FemDom #ownership #devotion #finsub #submissive #loyalsubject #humanATM #paypig
It's agreed prior, it's clean, it's easy, it's real.
Just 'Not done? That will be $x'
We both know what and why, and it's a concrete penance that tangibly benefits me.
I kind of love it
Would be fun to explore more: Escalating fines, genuinely scary-big fines etc
#EthicalFindom
Just 'Not done? That will be $x'
We both know what and why, and it's a concrete penance that tangibly benefits me.
I kind of love it
Would be fun to explore more: Escalating fines, genuinely scary-big fines etc
#EthicalFindom
November 29, 2024 at 9:17 AM
It's agreed prior, it's clean, it's easy, it's real.
Just 'Not done? That will be $x'
We both know what and why, and it's a concrete penance that tangibly benefits me.
I kind of love it
Would be fun to explore more: Escalating fines, genuinely scary-big fines etc
#EthicalFindom
Just 'Not done? That will be $x'
We both know what and why, and it's a concrete penance that tangibly benefits me.
I kind of love it
Would be fun to explore more: Escalating fines, genuinely scary-big fines etc
#EthicalFindom
Just cleared my Throne… Which of my devoted darlings is aching to rise in more ways than one tonight? The urge to please me isn’t going away. Give in.
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#Findom #Femdom #FinancialDomination #ThroneMe #Domme #Bratty #SoftDomme #EthicalFindom #ObeyMe #SpoilHer #GFE #cuckhold
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#Findom #Femdom #FinancialDomination #ThroneMe #Domme #Bratty #SoftDomme #EthicalFindom #ObeyMe #SpoilHer #GFE #cuckhold
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August 5, 2025 at 5:10 AM
Just cleared my Throne… Which of my devoted darlings is aching to rise in more ways than one tonight? The urge to please me isn’t going away. Give in.
throne.com/ivyvaughn
#Findom #Femdom #FinancialDomination #ThroneMe #Domme #Bratty #SoftDomme #EthicalFindom #ObeyMe #SpoilHer #GFE #cuckhold
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#Findom #Femdom #FinancialDomination #ThroneMe #Domme #Bratty #SoftDomme #EthicalFindom #ObeyMe #SpoilHer #GFE #cuckhold
November 29, 2024 at 12:21 AM
POV: You are watching me count your money. Hope you have been a good and responsible boy.
#findom #ethicalfindom #gayfindom
#findom #ethicalfindom #gayfindom
August 28, 2025 at 6:33 PM
POV: You are watching me count your money. Hope you have been a good and responsible boy.
#findom #ethicalfindom #gayfindom
#findom #ethicalfindom #gayfindom
Yes and no. #ethicalfindom scamming? 🤷♀️ 😂😂
November 3, 2024 at 11:54 PM
Yes and no. #ethicalfindom scamming? 🤷♀️ 😂😂
Curious about #findom but nervous about getting carried away and screwing up your finances? As an #ethicalfindom I make sure my boy has a lot of fun while staying within a reasonable budget. DM me and let’s talk! #domdaddy #leatherman
November 19, 2024 at 3:05 AM
Curious about #findom but nervous about getting carried away and screwing up your finances? As an #ethicalfindom I make sure my boy has a lot of fun while staying within a reasonable budget. DM me and let’s talk! #domdaddy #leatherman
Curious about #findom but hesitant to actually try it? As an experienced #leatherman I love helping novices have a good, safe first experience with #ethicalfindom. DM me and let’s talk.
November 21, 2024 at 4:43 PM
Curious about #findom but hesitant to actually try it? As an experienced #leatherman I love helping novices have a good, safe first experience with #ethicalfindom. DM me and let’s talk.
Something I've found useful out of my findom experience is meting out *fines* for expectations not met.
It doesn't work if a sub isn't committed to doing those things in the first place, but if they are, and they blow it for some reason: My goodness it's nice
#EthicalFindom
It doesn't work if a sub isn't committed to doing those things in the first place, but if they are, and they blow it for some reason: My goodness it's nice
#EthicalFindom
April 9, 2025 at 5:15 AM
Something I've found useful out of my findom experience is meting out *fines* for expectations not met.
It doesn't work if a sub isn't committed to doing those things in the first place, but if they are, and they blow it for some reason: My goodness it's nice
#EthicalFindom
It doesn't work if a sub isn't committed to doing those things in the first place, but if they are, and they blow it for some reason: My goodness it's nice
#EthicalFindom
One of my #debtslaves needed to put his contract on pause while he sorted some things out. Now he’s back and ready to $erve again.
When you need to take a break from #findom, don’t just ghost. Talk to your #cashmaster about the situation and find a solution #ethicalfindom
When you need to take a break from #findom, don’t just ghost. Talk to your #cashmaster about the situation and find a solution #ethicalfindom
July 29, 2025 at 1:58 PM
One of my #debtslaves needed to put his contract on pause while he sorted some things out. Now he’s back and ready to $erve again.
When you need to take a break from #findom, don’t just ghost. Talk to your #cashmaster about the situation and find a solution #ethicalfindom
When you need to take a break from #findom, don’t just ghost. Talk to your #cashmaster about the situation and find a solution #ethicalfindom
There's no such thing as a free orgasm for subs. Good boys pay for them.
#findom #gayfindom #ethicalfindom
#findom #gayfindom #ethicalfindom
£20 donated to a charity that provides "hounds for those who cannot see".
Not real-naming or linking to the charity as they can get funny about receiving donations from 'interesting' sources.
Ethics or something. Which I thought was a place near London.
Not real-naming or linking to the charity as they can get funny about receiving donations from 'interesting' sources.
Ethics or something. Which I thought was a place near London.
February 20, 2025 at 3:08 PM
There's no such thing as a free orgasm for subs. Good boys pay for them.
#findom #gayfindom #ethicalfindom
#findom #gayfindom #ethicalfindom
I added penalty fines into my findom contract and it is supremely satisfying.
Not that my finsub makes many fine-able mistakes, but it's a very simple and pleasing way of having him atone for them
#DommeLife #EthicalFindom
Not that my finsub makes many fine-able mistakes, but it's a very simple and pleasing way of having him atone for them
#DommeLife #EthicalFindom
November 28, 2024 at 10:30 PM
I added penalty fines into my findom contract and it is supremely satisfying.
Not that my finsub makes many fine-able mistakes, but it's a very simple and pleasing way of having him atone for them
#DommeLife #EthicalFindom
Not that my finsub makes many fine-able mistakes, but it's a very simple and pleasing way of having him atone for them
#DommeLife #EthicalFindom
I just spent an hour calming down a terrified young finsub whose shitty #findom had threatened to out him if he didn't send more money. For isolated gay guys, even just the threat can emotionally devastating. NEVER EVER DO SHIT LIKE THAT! #ethicalfindom
November 22, 2024 at 8:12 AM
I just spent an hour calming down a terrified young finsub whose shitty #findom had threatened to out him if he didn't send more money. For isolated gay guys, even just the threat can emotionally devastating. NEVER EVER DO SHIT LIKE THAT! #ethicalfindom
Of course! I’m always happy to promote #ethicalfindom
November 28, 2024 at 3:37 PM
Of course! I’m always happy to promote #ethicalfindom
I enjoy setting a budget, checking that it is being adhered to, and taking appropriate action when necessary. Taking complete control is a significant next step for me—but I already find the individual stages along the way very fulfilling.
#cashfag #cashmaster #findom #ethicalfindom #ObeyYourMaster
#cashfag #cashmaster #findom #ethicalfindom #ObeyYourMaster
June 13, 2025 at 9:34 PM
I enjoy setting a budget, checking that it is being adhered to, and taking appropriate action when necessary. Taking complete control is a significant next step for me—but I already find the individual stages along the way very fulfilling.
#cashfag #cashmaster #findom #ethicalfindom #ObeyYourMaster
#cashfag #cashmaster #findom #ethicalfindom #ObeyYourMaster
Curious about #findom but not sure it's right for you? Worried about how to do it without ruining your bank account? I'm always happy to answer questions, discuss limits, and help you decide if you want to try it out. #cashmaster #ethicalfindom
November 22, 2024 at 10:09 AM
Curious about #findom but not sure it's right for you? Worried about how to do it without ruining your bank account? I'm always happy to answer questions, discuss limits, and help you decide if you want to try it out. #cashmaster #ethicalfindom
One of my #cashslaves wanted to tribute more then he could afford. Part of being an #ethicalfindom is protecting the finsub’s finances by knowing when to say no #findom #loveyoursubs
November 22, 2024 at 4:13 AM
One of my #cashslaves wanted to tribute more then he could afford. Part of being an #ethicalfindom is protecting the finsub’s finances by knowing when to say no #findom #loveyoursubs
One of my #cashslaves just told me there’s a good chance he’s going to lose his job and needs to start job hunting. So we agreed to put his #debtcontract on hold while he sorts things out, because an #ethicalfindom doesn’t want to financially ruin his boy. Supporting my boys is very important to me.
December 6, 2024 at 3:46 PM
One of my #cashslaves just told me there’s a good chance he’s going to lose his job and needs to start job hunting. So we agreed to put his #debtcontract on hold while he sorts things out, because an #ethicalfindom doesn’t want to financially ruin his boy. Supporting my boys is very important to me.
My finsub is currently buying me something I've coveted for a while.
Fun fact: He has no idea what that thing he's buying is or what it's for :P
(it's not a sex toy, BUT IT LOOKS LIKE IT COULD BE ONE!)
#DommeLife #EthicalFinDom
Fun fact: He has no idea what that thing he's buying is or what it's for :P
(it's not a sex toy, BUT IT LOOKS LIKE IT COULD BE ONE!)
#DommeLife #EthicalFinDom
November 28, 2024 at 7:01 PM
My finsub is currently buying me something I've coveted for a while.
Fun fact: He has no idea what that thing he's buying is or what it's for :P
(it's not a sex toy, BUT IT LOOKS LIKE IT COULD BE ONE!)
#DommeLife #EthicalFinDom
Fun fact: He has no idea what that thing he's buying is or what it's for :P
(it's not a sex toy, BUT IT LOOKS LIKE IT COULD BE ONE!)
#DommeLife #EthicalFinDom
Curious about #findom but not sure it's right for you? Worried about how to do it without ruining your bank account? I'm always happy to answer questions, discuss limits, and help you decide if you want to try it out. #cashmaster #ethicalfindom
November 22, 2024 at 8:27 AM
Curious about #findom but not sure it's right for you? Worried about how to do it without ruining your bank account? I'm always happy to answer questions, discuss limits, and help you decide if you want to try it out. #cashmaster #ethicalfindom
I still have no idea why #Findom switches are so hated. Switching is a totally valid way to explore #kink. And if any #cashmaster wants to explore subbing for me, rest assured I won’t expose you. An #ethicalfindom doesn’t expose his #cashslave without permission.
November 22, 2024 at 5:45 AM
I still have no idea why #Findom switches are so hated. Switching is a totally valid way to explore #kink. And if any #cashmaster wants to explore subbing for me, rest assured I won’t expose you. An #ethicalfindom doesn’t expose his #cashslave without permission.