I have you in cuffs, face up on the bed, but only your ankles are restrained. You have one hand stroking your cock, the other is covering your face. You are making a muffled sound through your fingers. I realise you are trying not to cry. I make you remove your hand from your face and I look at you. [...]

Do I want you to get attached to me? Oh yes. No-one ever asks this though. “You missed me didn’t you?” I ask.  It’s a rhetorical question. I know the answer. I want to hear you say it anyway.  I like to be missed. I like to be wanted. I like to be so far inside that it’s unbearable. I like desperation and fear of loss and emotions out of control. I like all of those things that make it dangerous for you. [...]

Q: I am 24 I still struggle with the fact that I have one labia larger then the other (in a big way) and I really do not know how to over come this. A:  Grrrrr… I hate hate HATE that now our labia may not be ‘good enough’, words cannot express how much I hate it. We see relatively few depictions of different shapes of women’s vaginas, [...]

I had this email exchange with the sex-voiced Texan. Me: Do you have a cowboy hat? You must have one, right? Never you mind why I’m asking… Him: Of course I do…My curiosity is piqued… But I’ll just answer the question. Me: Well of course you do! :D And cowboy boots right (that’s a dumb question isn’t it?)? Him: I’m smiling right now because those questions are very particular. [...]

TOO LATE! THE SURVEY IS FERME/FINITO/OTHER F-WORDSThat means you don’t really exist… you realise that right? Now everyone, I want you to sit quietly (shush you, Johnny…! Don’t think I can’t see you there in the back row!!) and pay attention…Here is a test. Well, ok, not a test, a survey, but it looks kind of like a test except it’s really easy and there are no wrong answers, [...]

ALT: a woman with curly hair is smiling and waving her hand in front of a #broadcity logo

I don’t seek out inexperienced submissives, nor do I like submissives *because* of it, but I do love inexperience. It is fresh and sweet and innocent. When I bring an inexperienced submissive with me into a kind of relationship that he has never been in before, I get to see everything with fresh eyes, as if it’s the first time for me also, [...]

All going to plan, the cougarling will arrive here on Saturday afternoon after a million hours of driving. He will stay for a few days (not with me: that’s waaay ‘too much too soon’). How long exactly depends on how it goes.  I sent him an outline of my expectations: ___ What I expect from the visit is that we will date like normal people dating, [...]

It is cold tonight, and I am, coincidentally, wearing three articles of clothing from boyfriends past. It is unintentional, and sweet. — My sweatshirt, too big, an unattractive colour really, is one that I grabbed out of my first submissive’s ‘give away’ bag when we were clearing out clothes to take to good will. He probably had it for quite a while before I took it. [...]

For Mystic: Her favourite poem. Because she would ask me why I loved her by Christopher Brennan (1870-1932) If questioning would make us wise No eyes would ever gaze in eyes; If all our tale were told in speech No mouths would wander each to each. Were spirits free from mortal mesh And love not bound in hearts of flesh No aching breasts would yearn to meet And find their ecstasy complete. For who is there that lives and knows The secret powers by which he grows? Were knowledge all, [...]

Random shit I spewed out at people. No zing zing with the pussy pussies! I will practice a gloat-covered sheepish victory dance If someone says ‘you are too nice’, they are trying to avoid saying ‘you are boring and have no genitals’. I am liking leaf number three, leaf number three is obviously superior to leaves number one or two, [...]

She told him to get up on the bed on his knees, and he scrambled up, kneeling on the edge of the bed, his hands cuffed behind him. She brought out the three pegs he had brought with him, the ‘macho’ pegs, the marquee pegs, the ‘hold-things-in-a-cyclone’ pegs and smiled at him. She brought her mouth to his left nipple, [...]

Twitter followers already know that I bought two new pairs of shoes yesterday… huzzah!!! This is the first… a pair of summer sandals, kind of butch with the plain bold straps and ‘fuck you’ buckle, they are a soft black leather with a dark brown wedge heel to femme it up… Today I wore them out to a late lunch with my vanilla ex who I forced into admiring them and saying how pretty they are… [...]

Random out of context stuff that I have said recently. It’s its own special ‘thing’, like a ‘thing’ you read about when you read about ‘things’ that aren’t like other ‘things’… Un-coffeed, I am kind of mean You totally win injury finger porn wars!!! I think Hitty McHitty-on-er-ton was over in the other corner with the fit brunette in the tiny shorts… I think you absolutely *must* say something about your ‘journey’, [...]

Hello lovely-boy-who-sends-me-his-impossible-beauty, Photos like that make me talk to myself. I am mostly incoherent. Even to myself. The veins in your arm are a nice touch. Did you put them there just for me? Thank you. Also, oh my fucking god. Guh. Ferns  [...]

Welcome to Elust #71 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #72? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ [...]

I can’t stop watching Ronda Rousey in this gif. It’s amazing.  If you watch the YouTube video, the lead-up to this throw is the guy, am MMA journalist, joking with Rousey, an MMA champion, in a ‘ha ha ur only a woman’ kind of way. “Hurr hurr, I don’t think you have enough strength and can compete with the men, [...]

Y’all know how rare it is for me to have a date, so, yeah, it’s a pretty big deal. I contacted him on a BDSM dating site about 6 weeks ago. His profile was scant, no photo, but for some reason I still liked it and sent him a cute note. He replied with enthusiastic sweetness. There are a couple of things about him that fall outside what I would normally go for, [...]

UPDATE 11 jAN: This fundraising campaign is now over. Thank you all so very much for your support, your donations, and for your enormous generosity. The final tally is here!  The bushfires here are not near me. I’m safe, my family and friends are safe. We’re lucky. The closest fires were more than 50kms away from my home, [...]

I can rule your world ’cause baby I am the Queen Aphrodite couldn’t hold a candle to me…   [...]

'My Sent Emails' in which a sub tells me the acceptable way to behave while ALSO telling me that he likes women who do what they want...

I don’t know anything about rigid cock rings except that they look sexy and they scare me silly. I somehow can’t get past this horrible visual of someone being unable to get it off an engorged cock and having a terrible paniced trip to the emergency room (DON’T SEARCH FOR THAT, I WARNED YOU!). I know it’s silly really, [...]

Welcome to Elust #67 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #68? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, [...]

 From Domme Chronicles: Erotic tales of love, passion, & domination Full collection, all volumes available here. ___ Volume 1 is just 99c until December 15th here Volume 2 here Volume 3 here  [...]

I want love to roll me over slowly Stick a knife inside me and twist it all around I want love to grab my fingers gently Slam them in a doorway, put my face into the ground   [...]