RP • @benthecurious Whiteness and control culture harms us all.

#leadwithhumanity #connectionovercontrol #choosingconnection #compassionatecuriosity #benandjamesapodcast #controlculture

You may have heard this linked to leadership or control BUT...

What matters most is safety, communication, and what works best for you and your dog. Behavior isn't a power struggle—it's a conversation. 🐾

#MythBustingWithKindness
#ConnectionOverControl
#BehaviorIsNotDominance

Are we confronting or cultivating conversations in our digital spaces?

For more, see episode 304 of Paper Napkin Wisdom here: bit.ly/4hzcFp7

#SocialMedia #DigitalCommunication #ConnectionOverControl #BusinessMindset #Leadership #Engagement

Calibrated Label 9/10
🤝 Calibrated questions make people feel involved. When others see themselves as co-creators of a solution, they become allies, not opponents.
#ConnectionOverControl #SolutionsTogether #SharedEffort

True strength lies in embracing your authentic self. Submissive betas thrive by supporting others, fostering trust, and prioritizing harmony over dominance. It’s not about control—it’s about connection. Step into your role with pride. #BetaEmpowerment #StrengthInSubmission #ConnectionOverControl”

“Nothing in Life Is Free” (NILIF) method is rooted in dominance theory, which we now know is flawed. Dogs don’t need to “earn” everything—they need trust, safety, and consistency, especially rescue dogs with trauma histories. 💞

#HolisticDogTraining #TraumaInformedCare #ConnectionOverControl

#nonviolentcommunication #ConflictResolution #LeadWithEmpathy #EmotionalIntelligence #MindfulCommunication #MutualUnderstanding #ConnectionOverControl #GrowthMindset #TransformConflict #ListeningIsPower #peacefulleadership

#AhimsaDharma #Nonviolence #EthicalLiving #RightSpeech #MindfulRelationships #CompassionatePause #ConsciousCommunication #RelationshipAwareness #EmotionalAwareness #SelfReflection #RespondNotReact #SpeakingWithCare #ConflictWithoutHarm #HealingThroughUnderstanding #ConnectionOverControl