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36, they/he, yup’ik/sugpiaq, recovering internet user. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🪶🍉♑️🧩🎵🎮🚗 sober words, high thoughts, and filtered selfies. 🔞
posing with my new 🍃 battery (and realizing i took three hits trying to pose with my new battery)
November 26, 2025 at 4:47 AM
update for the TL, i guess
November 18, 2025 at 5:14 PM
can’t dissociate my way out of this one, i’m afraid
November 17, 2025 at 1:57 PM
can’t wait to see my dogs again (i’m at work for another half an hour)
November 14, 2025 at 11:26 PM
i think a double feature is in order. the saddest, gayest double feature ever.
November 14, 2025 at 4:33 AM
wish i could tell you who drew this 🤧
November 4, 2025 at 4:53 PM
i’m 5’4” btw
October 28, 2025 at 4:11 PM
love is a burger joint 🍔
October 28, 2025 at 3:45 PM
ma’amed! at the grocery store
September 27, 2025 at 9:15 PM
i am a millennial so i am nothing if not intensely nostalgic
September 7, 2025 at 2:52 PM
just had a 15-minute freak-out because i hate meta and i hate notification dots. persistent dots, at least
April 23, 2025 at 1:26 AM
love is a burger joint 🍔
March 29, 2025 at 5:38 AM
washed my hair and kept it twisted up in a bun for two days 😚
February 28, 2025 at 2:59 AM
whoops, journaling for three days about my relationship with social media has turned into writing a memoir. despite hardly leaving the house, i’ve lived a lot of life in 36-plus years—and, naturally, have formed some hard opinions that i needed to write somewhere.
January 18, 2025 at 7:27 PM
what the hell, sure.
January 16, 2025 at 9:34 PM
January 13, 2025 at 8:01 PM
when i see oomf post a selfie in the sunlight
January 10, 2025 at 7:57 PM
zak bag
January 8, 2025 at 5:19 AM
y’know…
January 7, 2025 at 5:09 AM
January 6, 2025 at 9:03 PM
who knows if i’ll make it to midnight. time is an illusion, a social construct, and a flat circle. happy new year, if i lt means anything to you! 🥂
January 1, 2025 at 6:22 AM
just narrowly avoided a meltdown over someone potentially falling in love, as much as they did with me, but with someone else
January 1, 2025 at 3:26 AM
(willam voice) look who’s ready for a night at home! 🚬
December 31, 2024 at 7:16 PM
“why do you want to be in love?”
“oh, um, i think because i’ve completely grown and changed over the last two days”
December 30, 2024 at 7:20 AM
happy 36th birthday to this diva
December 29, 2024 at 12:42 AM