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Barry
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Psychologist, therapist and writer. Host of the 'Get a Better Handle On Life' podcast and practical Tinycast on stress, optimism, relationships, mindset and personal performance.
How Contact with Nature Aids Personal Growth
How Contact with Nature Aids Personal Growth
From our ancient survival to modern self-discovery, Nature is one of the most powerful teachers at our disposal. It is a constant reminder of our place and our potential throughout our lives.
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September 19, 2025 at 6:34 AM
A Structured, Life Personal Development Plan

A consistent, planned approach brings several benefits: it reduces decision fatigue, strengthens self-discipline, and helps maintain stability when life feels uncertain. Instead of relying on willpower alone, you create and commit to a system that…
A Structured, Life Personal Development Plan
A consistent, planned approach brings several benefits: it reduces decision fatigue, strengthens self-discipline, and helps maintain stability when life feels uncertain. Instead of relying on willpower alone, you create and commit to a system that supports mental clarity, emotional steadiness, and physical health.
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September 18, 2025 at 7:04 AM
Want to change your life without changing who you are?
In my latest post, I break down the real benefits of investing in yourself (and why it’s easier than most people think).
Ready to move forward with clarity and confidence?
The Benefits of Personal Development
Personal development holds the key to unlocking your true potential, enhancing self-awareness, and seeking continuous self-improvement.
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August 7, 2025 at 6:34 AM
What Is Emotional Resilience?Resilient people are robust because of their understanding of themselves, confidence in their abilities and willingness to take action in the face of adversity.
What Is Emotional Resilience?
Emotional resilience describes the ability to ‘bounce back’ in response to challenge, change or crisis. Resilience is built on learnable skills.
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July 31, 2025 at 8:35 AM
We should welcome solitude. It provides a chance to rediscover yourself, and your life. By choosing to step away from the hurley-burley you can crhttps://www.barrywinbolt.com/wp-admin/post.php?post=44968&action=edit#eate moments of peace and rediscovery. 
How to Welcome Solitude for Balance and Peace
Meaningful time spent alone is as essential to our wellbeing. The pace and demands of 21st-century living leave little time for reflection, so opportunities to switch off and disconnect are few. Unless we take action to counteract it, the constant pressure inevitably shapes our lives and not for the better.
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July 29, 2025 at 6:33 AM
Taking care of inner business
July 26, 2025 at 10:05 AM
How to Improve Emotional Intelligence for a Positive Mindset
How to Improve Emotional Intelligence for a Positive Mindset
Improve emotional intelligence: cultivate self-awareness, empathy, and social skills. Learn to regulate emotions, embrace growth mindset. Empower yourself for positive living.
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July 26, 2025 at 6:08 AM
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I agree. Do you?
July 23, 2025 at 6:59 PM
The forest where we were walking with our dog, this morning.
July 24, 2025 at 2:21 PM
In my work, I'm seeing increasing levels of verbal abuse – by the public – towards people who are just doing their job (receptionists, call centre staff etc.). Nobody goes to work to be insulted, and the potential for emotional damage is often not acknowledged.
July 24, 2025 at 12:25 PM
Difference of Opinion Doesn’t Mean Disagreement or Conflict

Differing opinions are often seen as battle lines drawn in the sand. But a difference of opinion doesn’t have to mean disagreement.
Difference of Opinion Doesn’t Mean Disagreement or Conflict
Differing opinions are often seen as battle lines drawn in the sand. But a difference of opinion doesn’t have to mean disagreement.
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July 24, 2025 at 6:35 AM
We hear a lot of talk about authenticity, and rightly so, in a world that awash with fakes. Fake news is the most obvious, but also fake merchandise, fake offerings (scams)… and, sadly, even fake friends. We can't fix the world but each of us can contribute.
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Authenticity – What does it Mean to Be Authentic
Authenticity self means being true to yourself, even when that is difficult. and living in line with your values and beliefs.
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July 23, 2025 at 6:10 PM