Xander O’Connor
@xanderoconnor.bsky.social
I’m a writer and SAG actor of no repute but my wife and toddler like me so that’s nice. I think you’re pretty neat too, friendo!
acting bio/clips/representation:
https://resumes.actorsaccess.com/866894-2403462
I do swear and such so caveat emptor lol.
acting bio/clips/representation:
https://resumes.actorsaccess.com/866894-2403462
I do swear and such so caveat emptor lol.
uh lol prob not this copy:
November 13, 2025 at 3:02 AM
uh lol prob not this copy:
bad by comparison, surely.
November 13, 2025 at 1:12 AM
bad by comparison, surely.
receipts from my mid to late 20s when granted i was at my lifetime heaviest and leaned out a good bit when i became an actor at 28.
but still not to where I did at 38ish.
i look like i ate one of Trump’s sons
but still not to where I did at 38ish.
i look like i ate one of Trump’s sons
November 13, 2025 at 1:07 AM
receipts from my mid to late 20s when granted i was at my lifetime heaviest and leaned out a good bit when i became an actor at 28.
but still not to where I did at 38ish.
i look like i ate one of Trump’s sons
but still not to where I did at 38ish.
i look like i ate one of Trump’s sons
i’m 42 and this is a not-uncommon quick grocery store run fit:
(It’s both LA so never that cold and I have an EV that is great at cooling itself before I get in so never that meaningfully hot so this works year round if I want)
(Oh and the more common variant is more exercise-y because I will oft
(It’s both LA so never that cold and I have an EV that is great at cooling itself before I get in so never that meaningfully hot so this works year round if I want)
(Oh and the more common variant is more exercise-y because I will oft
November 11, 2025 at 4:57 AM
i’m 42 and this is a not-uncommon quick grocery store run fit:
(It’s both LA so never that cold and I have an EV that is great at cooling itself before I get in so never that meaningfully hot so this works year round if I want)
(Oh and the more common variant is more exercise-y because I will oft
(It’s both LA so never that cold and I have an EV that is great at cooling itself before I get in so never that meaningfully hot so this works year round if I want)
(Oh and the more common variant is more exercise-y because I will oft
lessons were learned.
tasty, gooey lessons, at least.
tasty, gooey lessons, at least.
November 8, 2025 at 7:50 PM
lessons were learned.
tasty, gooey lessons, at least.
tasty, gooey lessons, at least.
that deserves a biggun:
November 4, 2025 at 4:20 PM
that deserves a biggun:
many such cases, Los Angeles edition:
November 4, 2025 at 1:50 AM
many such cases, Los Angeles edition:
while this is clearly true, shout out to the neighborhood in LA where we took our daughter trick or treating.
impeccable vibes and the last photo is of a person DJing some good shit.
oh and Jesus Christ perfect weather is *very* nice for Halloween and *not* what I grew up with.
impeccable vibes and the last photo is of a person DJing some good shit.
oh and Jesus Christ perfect weather is *very* nice for Halloween and *not* what I grew up with.
November 1, 2025 at 5:02 AM
while this is clearly true, shout out to the neighborhood in LA where we took our daughter trick or treating.
impeccable vibes and the last photo is of a person DJing some good shit.
oh and Jesus Christ perfect weather is *very* nice for Halloween and *not* what I grew up with.
impeccable vibes and the last photo is of a person DJing some good shit.
oh and Jesus Christ perfect weather is *very* nice for Halloween and *not* what I grew up with.
independent of the content, just popping in to say i love seeing a beloved mutual holding the line on "words mean things".
i am now constitutionally-averse to online conflict and occasionally feel bad that i don't chime in to challenge misapprehensions more so i love it even more when others do.
i am now constitutionally-averse to online conflict and occasionally feel bad that i don't chime in to challenge misapprehensions more so i love it even more when others do.
October 28, 2025 at 4:56 AM
independent of the content, just popping in to say i love seeing a beloved mutual holding the line on "words mean things".
i am now constitutionally-averse to online conflict and occasionally feel bad that i don't chime in to challenge misapprehensions more so i love it even more when others do.
i am now constitutionally-averse to online conflict and occasionally feel bad that i don't chime in to challenge misapprehensions more so i love it even more when others do.
THIS COULD BE YOU:
(i tried to start drawing a tricorner hat and it immediately looked more like a mortarboard hat so now you're a pirate that just graduated!)
(i tried to start drawing a tricorner hat and it immediately looked more like a mortarboard hat so now you're a pirate that just graduated!)
October 28, 2025 at 1:11 AM
THIS COULD BE YOU:
(i tried to start drawing a tricorner hat and it immediately looked more like a mortarboard hat so now you're a pirate that just graduated!)
(i tried to start drawing a tricorner hat and it immediately looked more like a mortarboard hat so now you're a pirate that just graduated!)
this time of year they just call it “Valley”
October 27, 2025 at 9:44 PM
this time of year they just call it “Valley”
i live right by the stadium and it’s unfortunate they landed on the couple hottest days of the month (it’s otherwise been lovely!)
October 27, 2025 at 9:01 PM
i live right by the stadium and it’s unfortunate they landed on the couple hottest days of the month (it’s otherwise been lovely!)
me right now (at daughters outdoor Hollywood swim lesson, of course) being all enlightened and shit.
October 25, 2025 at 4:58 PM
me right now (at daughters outdoor Hollywood swim lesson, of course) being all enlightened and shit.
these two songs exist in a dialogue with each other; a fundamental tension that paradoxically becomes complementary.
October 24, 2025 at 6:39 PM
these two songs exist in a dialogue with each other; a fundamental tension that paradoxically becomes complementary.
watch out for this freak, @theophite.bsky.social , in case he’s not on your radar or already blocked or whatever.
it appears that maybe he created his account to try to get dirt or whatever on you plus be anti-Ukraine for bonus lolz
it appears that maybe he created his account to try to get dirt or whatever on you plus be anti-Ukraine for bonus lolz
October 23, 2025 at 3:50 AM
watch out for this freak, @theophite.bsky.social , in case he’s not on your radar or already blocked or whatever.
it appears that maybe he created his account to try to get dirt or whatever on you plus be anti-Ukraine for bonus lolz
it appears that maybe he created his account to try to get dirt or whatever on you plus be anti-Ukraine for bonus lolz
legit hard lols at this, by the way.
well played.
well played.
October 22, 2025 at 3:51 PM
legit hard lols at this, by the way.
well played.
well played.
anyone else want to share their non-nazi tattoos?
got this one last year, first and possibly only ever (or in another 10 years of thinking about it i might get *one* more), remain delighted with it.
magic celtic tree of life and also light and darkness!
got this one last year, first and possibly only ever (or in another 10 years of thinking about it i might get *one* more), remain delighted with it.
magic celtic tree of life and also light and darkness!
October 21, 2025 at 5:22 PM
anyone else want to share their non-nazi tattoos?
got this one last year, first and possibly only ever (or in another 10 years of thinking about it i might get *one* more), remain delighted with it.
magic celtic tree of life and also light and darkness!
got this one last year, first and possibly only ever (or in another 10 years of thinking about it i might get *one* more), remain delighted with it.
magic celtic tree of life and also light and darkness!
it’s a cool hat but i think i look stupid in hats so have only ever really worn it to Dodger’s games (I have been to 1.5 of them. That is also the distance in miles I live from the stadium. My 5 year old had a great time so prob gonna do it more in the future).
The Dodgers version of “LA” is dope.
The Dodgers version of “LA” is dope.
October 21, 2025 at 4:48 PM
it’s a cool hat but i think i look stupid in hats so have only ever really worn it to Dodger’s games (I have been to 1.5 of them. That is also the distance in miles I live from the stadium. My 5 year old had a great time so prob gonna do it more in the future).
The Dodgers version of “LA” is dope.
The Dodgers version of “LA” is dope.
We went to Pasadena instead of downtown Los Angeles due to logistics related to having a five-year-old. Vibes were, of course, incredible.
(Crowd was much larger than this looks, to be clear, and was on the move at this point.)
(Crowd was much larger than this looks, to be clear, and was on the move at this point.)
October 19, 2025 at 12:51 AM
We went to Pasadena instead of downtown Los Angeles due to logistics related to having a five-year-old. Vibes were, of course, incredible.
(Crowd was much larger than this looks, to be clear, and was on the move at this point.)
(Crowd was much larger than this looks, to be clear, and was on the move at this point.)
great excuse for this classic:
October 18, 2025 at 11:14 PM
great excuse for this classic:
banger sign that my omnicompetent wife freehanded on a whim this morning.
October 18, 2025 at 11:08 PM
banger sign that my omnicompetent wife freehanded on a whim this morning.
lol i wasn’t trying to cosplay but i got called Cap a bunch and some pics were taken and children held the shield.
for something that i thought was good optics that also could stop a pepper ball from hitting my 5 year old, it went well!
(not that i feared such things)
for something that i thought was good optics that also could stop a pepper ball from hitting my 5 year old, it went well!
(not that i feared such things)
October 18, 2025 at 10:58 PM
lol i wasn’t trying to cosplay but i got called Cap a bunch and some pics were taken and children held the shield.
for something that i thought was good optics that also could stop a pepper ball from hitting my 5 year old, it went well!
(not that i feared such things)
for something that i thought was good optics that also could stop a pepper ball from hitting my 5 year old, it went well!
(not that i feared such things)
defending democracy runs on tactical snack breaks:
October 18, 2025 at 9:04 PM
defending democracy runs on tactical snack breaks:
def bringing this shield tho.
not going to be anywhere that i need to protect my 5 year olds from attacks by cops but a) you never know; and b) it looks sweet and is pretty patriotic-themed.
not going to be anywhere that i need to protect my 5 year olds from attacks by cops but a) you never know; and b) it looks sweet and is pretty patriotic-themed.
October 17, 2025 at 4:45 PM
def bringing this shield tho.
not going to be anywhere that i need to protect my 5 year olds from attacks by cops but a) you never know; and b) it looks sweet and is pretty patriotic-themed.
not going to be anywhere that i need to protect my 5 year olds from attacks by cops but a) you never know; and b) it looks sweet and is pretty patriotic-themed.