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WidowT
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Widow, Cat Mom, GenX, Jersey gal in SoCal, Book lover, Childfree by Choice, Rockabilly, Retro, Vintage Kitsch, Ketovore, Recovering T2 Diabetic, Eclectic Witch, Coffee Lover, Believer in Magick and Self-Transformation.
November 6, 2025 at 4:56 AM
November 6, 2025 at 4:50 AM
August 5, 2025 at 10:02 PM
pretty much...
August 4, 2025 at 9:35 PM
I recognize this every day....
April 24, 2025 at 6:55 PM
Some days, it's just like this: Pockets of peace of mind, disturbed and battered by the obnoxious, the righteously ignorant, the insecure, the manipulators, etc.
Even if you get through the day, your brain feels bruised and your spirit in tatters.
How do we keep this up, day after day...?
March 31, 2025 at 4:12 AM
March 15, 2025 at 11:20 PM
In 2014, Neil de Grasse Tyson hosted a modern vision of Carl Sagan's brilliant 1980 PBS series. 10 years later, I'm visiting the Cosmos again.
I highly recommend that, in these turbulent times, you pause, join me, and get some perspective and food for thought.
#wereallmadeofstarstuff
March 15, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Widow Goals: THIS is what I'm striving for.
To re-learn how to live again and be out in the world with joy, especially without my Sean. To get back out in the world, one step at a time, and on to my next adventure. #griefjourney #grief #widowhood #widowgoals #tolkienforever
March 14, 2025 at 1:53 PM
These babies always give me something to smile about, even when the grief is overwhelming. #grief #caturday #moxieandringo #furbabies #catlover #cats #emotionalsupportanimals
March 8, 2025 at 6:59 PM
At work, I dole empathy and compassion daily, wherever I sense the need. Since Sean has been gone, no one looks out and does that for me. I must self reflect in my new reality to focus and intentionally be my priority. #grief #griefjourney #widow #widowswalk #widowhood #bereavement #MoxieWidow
March 2, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Spending the weekends at home for a while. I need more reflection time on where I'm going and how much energy I'm giving to work, friends, online platforms, and myself. These are intense and crazy days. Time to check my 'why' against 'what' I do and make sure I'm doing what's best for ME.
March 1, 2025 at 5:26 PM
February 28, 2025 at 3:48 AM
Got up for a minute to refill my coffee. Came back and my seat....was taken. *sigh* #MoxieWidow #cats #catlover #catlife #moxieandringo
February 18, 2025 at 2:39 PM
Gift from a colleague. Also, currently mood:
February 17, 2025 at 3:51 PM
The trick is, don't let what they think about you become what you think about yourself.
February 12, 2025 at 3:40 PM
February 7, 2025 at 3:30 AM
February 4, 2025 at 5:07 PM
Ever consider the MAGICK in doing laundry? Earth energies that absorbed negativity are cleansed by Water, warmed and dried by Fire and Air to renew, protective energies that you wear in many colors. It could be a chore and a bore, or a ritual of protection. #witchsky #magickinthemundane #witchcraft
January 25, 2025 at 4:58 PM
January 20, 2025 at 9:22 PM
January 20, 2025 at 4:04 AM
Fellas, don't follow me. I'm a widow. I'm NOT interested in hookups, dating, etc. Don't follow me if you don't have a profile that shows we may have friendly interests in common. I WILL block you. I'm just as selective online as I am in person.
January 19, 2025 at 4:37 PM
Memorial tattoo for my Sean is complete. I love it, and I'm so glad I got it done to mark his 1-year death anniversary on January 13th. I'm flooded with memories of my love. I miss him so much.
January 13, 2025 at 4:16 AM
My boy wakes me almost exactly the same way. His sister just snuggles...
January 12, 2025 at 2:34 PM
No hook-ups, sexting, romance, or fairy tales. I don't swoon over your alleged military service or pictures of you being a dad. You will not 'collect' me, nor will I follow anyone back if I'm not the least bit interested. I had enough of that crap on X, which is why I'm here. But you'll be history.
January 9, 2025 at 10:44 PM