Just Me
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Rugger. Coach. GISHer. Nerd. Avid Reader. Cat Lover. Board Game Enthusiast. Feminist. Rogue. “She paints, she reads, she lights things on fire.” Dream big.
"Patric stole. She lied. She was occasionally violent... All with the goal of replacing the nothingness with...something." Nonfiction memoir of a diagnosed Sociopath.
Review:
"Really interesting look at an oft ignored diagnosis"
"Honest"
"Eye-opening"
"There's so much stigma; empathy needed"
Review:
"Really interesting look at an oft ignored diagnosis"
"Honest"
"Eye-opening"
"There's so much stigma; empathy needed"
December 14, 2025 at 3:13 PM
"Patric stole. She lied. She was occasionally violent... All with the goal of replacing the nothingness with...something." Nonfiction memoir of a diagnosed Sociopath.
Review:
"Really interesting look at an oft ignored diagnosis"
"Honest"
"Eye-opening"
"There's so much stigma; empathy needed"
Review:
"Really interesting look at an oft ignored diagnosis"
"Honest"
"Eye-opening"
"There's so much stigma; empathy needed"
"Stealing a small arsenal of guns from a neighbor, they take their classmates hostage at a school dance." Told in the aftermath from multiple viewpoints
My Review:
"Emotional gut punch"
"Everyone shoulders some blame here"
"Sad this is still relevant 20+ years later"
"Everyone should read this"
My Review:
"Emotional gut punch"
"Everyone shoulders some blame here"
"Sad this is still relevant 20+ years later"
"Everyone should read this"
December 14, 2025 at 3:13 PM
"Stealing a small arsenal of guns from a neighbor, they take their classmates hostage at a school dance." Told in the aftermath from multiple viewpoints
My Review:
"Emotional gut punch"
"Everyone shoulders some blame here"
"Sad this is still relevant 20+ years later"
"Everyone should read this"
My Review:
"Emotional gut punch"
"Everyone shoulders some blame here"
"Sad this is still relevant 20+ years later"
"Everyone should read this"
"His brother Shawn was just murdered. And Will knows the rules. No crying. No snitching. Revenge." Graphic novel on teenage gun violence.
My review:
"Beautiful art & incredibly evocative writing"
"Dark, yet hopeful"
"Cool to see ghosts who dont want revenge
"Says so much in just 10,000 words"
My review:
"Beautiful art & incredibly evocative writing"
"Dark, yet hopeful"
"Cool to see ghosts who dont want revenge
"Says so much in just 10,000 words"
December 14, 2025 at 3:13 PM
"His brother Shawn was just murdered. And Will knows the rules. No crying. No snitching. Revenge." Graphic novel on teenage gun violence.
My review:
"Beautiful art & incredibly evocative writing"
"Dark, yet hopeful"
"Cool to see ghosts who dont want revenge
"Says so much in just 10,000 words"
My review:
"Beautiful art & incredibly evocative writing"
"Dark, yet hopeful"
"Cool to see ghosts who dont want revenge
"Says so much in just 10,000 words"
Set during Nazi Germany: "6 mental patients, the doctor who will kill them, & the man who will burn their corpses"
My review:
"Fucked up"
"This story was not meant to be enjoyed"
"History is full of unspeakable horrors - it's important we speak about them"
"IDL if I'm angry, sad, or horrified"
My review:
"Fucked up"
"This story was not meant to be enjoyed"
"History is full of unspeakable horrors - it's important we speak about them"
"IDL if I'm angry, sad, or horrified"
December 14, 2025 at 3:13 PM
Set during Nazi Germany: "6 mental patients, the doctor who will kill them, & the man who will burn their corpses"
My review:
"Fucked up"
"This story was not meant to be enjoyed"
"History is full of unspeakable horrors - it's important we speak about them"
"IDL if I'm angry, sad, or horrified"
My review:
"Fucked up"
"This story was not meant to be enjoyed"
"History is full of unspeakable horrors - it's important we speak about them"
"IDL if I'm angry, sad, or horrified"
Currently obsessed with the poem "Revolutionary Spanish Lesson" by Martín Espada (1990)
November 25, 2025 at 7:07 PM
Currently obsessed with the poem "Revolutionary Spanish Lesson" by Martín Espada (1990)
"a player only identified in social media graphics as Big Al."
Okay, but sometimes we also call her Peppa.
Okay, but sometimes we also call her Peppa.
November 14, 2025 at 2:58 PM
"a player only identified in social media graphics as Big Al."
Okay, but sometimes we also call her Peppa.
Okay, but sometimes we also call her Peppa.
"Proud" doesn't even begin to cover it. Congrats Marist University Women's Rugby: You fought for this last weekend and it is so so so well deserved. Sweet 16 here we come: Let's Fucking Go!
November 10, 2025 at 5:18 PM
"Proud" doesn't even begin to cover it. Congrats Marist University Women's Rugby: You fought for this last weekend and it is so so so well deserved. Sweet 16 here we come: Let's Fucking Go!
Every year I have to take this training and every year this one bullet point makes me pause. HOW did it end up on the list? (There must be a story here) And WHY is it okay to take a child to a meth lab that's NOT being investigated by law enforcement???
November 1, 2025 at 2:17 PM
Every year I have to take this training and every year this one bullet point makes me pause. HOW did it end up on the list? (There must be a story here) And WHY is it okay to take a child to a meth lab that's NOT being investigated by law enforcement???
When the team has rugby practice but there's 40mph wind gusts cause there's a hurricane out there.
(This is funnier if you know the team I coach is the Red Foxes)
(This is funnier if you know the team I coach is the Red Foxes)
October 31, 2025 at 7:02 PM
When the team has rugby practice but there's 40mph wind gusts cause there's a hurricane out there.
(This is funnier if you know the team I coach is the Red Foxes)
(This is funnier if you know the team I coach is the Red Foxes)
"Show everyone, even in other countries, tell Rhonda to show the chickens.” -R
I'm glad my niece loves the dress I got her enough to show the chickens. Highest possible praise. 😅
I'm glad my niece loves the dress I got her enough to show the chickens. Highest possible praise. 😅
October 10, 2025 at 5:02 PM
"Show everyone, even in other countries, tell Rhonda to show the chickens.” -R
I'm glad my niece loves the dress I got her enough to show the chickens. Highest possible praise. 😅
I'm glad my niece loves the dress I got her enough to show the chickens. Highest possible praise. 😅
But it does??!? @merriam-webster.com says so.
September 26, 2025 at 1:10 AM
But it does??!? @merriam-webster.com says so.
My niece (age 4 1/2) sent this to me in the mail with no other note or context.
It’s my new favorite piece of art.
She knows me well.
It’s my new favorite piece of art.
She knows me well.
September 20, 2025 at 1:26 AM
My niece (age 4 1/2) sent this to me in the mail with no other note or context.
It’s my new favorite piece of art.
She knows me well.
It’s my new favorite piece of art.
She knows me well.
Watching: Women's Rugby World Cup
Reading (audio): Vox by Christina Dalcher
Reading (physical): Houseboy by Ferdinand Oyono
Reading (audio): Vox by Christina Dalcher
Reading (physical): Houseboy by Ferdinand Oyono
August 31, 2025 at 1:18 AM
Watching: Women's Rugby World Cup
Reading (audio): Vox by Christina Dalcher
Reading (physical): Houseboy by Ferdinand Oyono
Reading (audio): Vox by Christina Dalcher
Reading (physical): Houseboy by Ferdinand Oyono
This is probably a decent four-picture summary of Camp Mark 7 ASL Immersion Week 2025
August 30, 2025 at 10:28 AM
This is probably a decent four-picture summary of Camp Mark 7 ASL Immersion Week 2025
Took my sister to a Katy Perry concert last night. Sang the songs. Wore the sparkles. A great time was had.
August 10, 2025 at 1:23 PM
Took my sister to a Katy Perry concert last night. Sang the songs. Wore the sparkles. A great time was had.
Nothing like waiting til the last 80 minutes to remember this item is supposed to be posted on social
#RogueHunt #WentRogueBeBackLater
#RogueHunt #WentRogueBeBackLater
August 10, 2025 at 11:35 AM
Nothing like waiting til the last 80 minutes to remember this item is supposed to be posted on social
#RogueHunt #WentRogueBeBackLater
#RogueHunt #WentRogueBeBackLater
This show was my first real obsession and defined me pre-teen/teen years. It's what started my love of Superman.
#smallville #roguehunt #IfCharactersWentRogue
#smallville #roguehunt #IfCharactersWentRogue
August 7, 2025 at 8:06 PM
This show was my first real obsession and defined me pre-teen/teen years. It's what started my love of Superman.
#smallville #roguehunt #IfCharactersWentRogue
#smallville #roguehunt #IfCharactersWentRogue
Obviously.
And to this day I think I’m the only person who genuinely likes Superman IV
And to this day I think I’m the only person who genuinely likes Superman IV
July 16, 2025 at 1:36 AM
Obviously.
And to this day I think I’m the only person who genuinely likes Superman IV
And to this day I think I’m the only person who genuinely likes Superman IV
Quick Question: If Atlanta is wearing blue and Indiana is wearing red… WHYYYY?!???
July 13, 2025 at 11:14 PM
Quick Question: If Atlanta is wearing blue and Indiana is wearing red… WHYYYY?!???
From ages 12 - 20, Superman made up at least 50% of my personality, but as each successive movie got worse and worse, my passion dwindled.
From what I’ve heard so far, my deep-seated childhood obsession is about to come back. 🤞 I need this to be good.
From what I’ve heard so far, my deep-seated childhood obsession is about to come back. 🤞 I need this to be good.
July 11, 2025 at 5:02 PM
From ages 12 - 20, Superman made up at least 50% of my personality, but as each successive movie got worse and worse, my passion dwindled.
From what I’ve heard so far, my deep-seated childhood obsession is about to come back. 🤞 I need this to be good.
From what I’ve heard so far, my deep-seated childhood obsession is about to come back. 🤞 I need this to be good.
Rugby is humbling because I scored twice in this game and yet this is the photo that made the team recap
July 9, 2025 at 3:14 AM
Rugby is humbling because I scored twice in this game and yet this is the photo that made the team recap
I took my niece on her first-ever backpacking trip. It rained the whole time and had the potential to be miserable, but we found lots (lots!) of salamanders, ate s'mores for breakfast, spent the evening overlooking a lake, and I got to watch my niece conquer creek crossings.
July 9, 2025 at 2:00 AM
I took my niece on her first-ever backpacking trip. It rained the whole time and had the potential to be miserable, but we found lots (lots!) of salamanders, ate s'mores for breakfast, spent the evening overlooking a lake, and I got to watch my niece conquer creek crossings.
July 4, 2025 at 12:27 AM
Friend asked me if Raisin Bran, the cereal, is gay and apparently I have opinions.
July 3, 2025 at 6:22 PM
Friend asked me if Raisin Bran, the cereal, is gay and apparently I have opinions.