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dori 🩸 (they/them)
@whimsyqueen.bsky.social
Grad Student • Horror/Spec Writer • Queer • ANTENORA out now • Words: The Deeps, Demons & Death Drops, etc. • (they/them, 25)
psst

it’s my birthday

🖤
July 21, 2025 at 5:22 AM
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the whole 'red states bad, blue states good' mentality really puts into focus the way some of you people are about entire countries, actually.
July 5, 2025 at 5:43 PM
besties who DM TRRPGs, what do you do about players who seem to be averse to working together? that no matter what, the party just seems to NOT COMMUNICATE OR WORK TOGETHER despite every effort? Not in an antagonistic way, but they just don’t seem to think outside of their own stuff? #ttrpg
June 24, 2025 at 3:09 PM
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In the event we somehow manage to dig ourselves out of this, I truly hope that we, collectively, never forget that change and resistance was led by people either willfully leaving the safety of their lives/desks/offices, or were never afforded a life with opportunity for to be an 'elsewhere' at all.
June 9, 2025 at 2:03 PM
Popping back in to share that my book, ANTENORA, won GOLD in the Foreword INDIE Awards General Category! I’ve been in such a creative funk lately and I’m so grateful that this happened to begin to pull me out of it. EEK! Thank you everyone who read my book and continues to share it!!!!
June 5, 2025 at 7:18 PM
and ya know every so often you’re just overcome with the crippling fear that everyone in your life has suddenly decided that they all hate you and want nothing to do with you anymore

and that’s on conditional love and unstable childhoods I guess
May 14, 2025 at 7:57 PM
tried to type out this post a few times so I’m settling on this:

i’m having a hard time again. i graduated from my masters program this past week and nothing has gotten easier. the things that are supposed to bring me joy have gotten complicated and frustrating.

one deep breath at a time.
May 11, 2025 at 2:45 PM
can someone PLEASE tell me how to convince my grandparents that my university isn’t capable of just INVENTING a PhD program in my field because they “like me so much and want to keep me”
May 9, 2025 at 6:15 PM
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Young people SHOULD “have it easier” than you did. I’m sorry you got the strap up hill both ways and paid your debts with pounds of flesh, but the reason we work for progress is to make growing up and growing old gentler, easier, kinder, freer. Struggle isn’t necessary in a healthy society.
April 25, 2025 at 5:50 AM
a reminder to myself and the world around me, because it’s hard to feel like enough in your own communities sometimes. In case you need it:
- I am trans enough. My identity is mine alone.
- I am good/talented enough regardless of my output.
- “deserve” is a dangerous word. Take what you need.
April 21, 2025 at 11:36 PM
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i get messages sayin 'i want to be the next chuck tingle' and yes this is flattering but buckaroo it is not the question. the question is: 'how can you be the next YOU?' the truth is there is nobody better at proving love in YOUR UNIQUE WAY than YOU can. you hold such incredible power. use it
April 19, 2025 at 2:24 PM
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So, I hear ya’ll like #Sinners. might I also humbly suggest…
April 19, 2025 at 1:15 PM
so thrilled to be waking up in Onya Nurve’s America #dragrace
April 19, 2025 at 1:24 PM
a list, for no particular reason…

- voice like a hyacinth, Mallory Pearson
- no exit (and selections from being and nothingness), Jean-Paul Sartre
- the secret history, Donna Tartt
- simulacra and simulation, Jean Baudrillard
- if we were villains, M.L. Rio
- doctor faustus, Christopher Marlowe

😘
April 17, 2025 at 4:15 PM
dear agents, just to let u know that once I finish this novel I’ve already got one that’s almost complete along with like four other novellas just ready to fucking go, if that sort of thing appeals to u 😘

catch me in ur inboxes soon I pinkie promise (esp if u liked Antenora!!!)
April 16, 2025 at 10:29 PM
against all odds, I have submitted my motherfucking thesis to proquest. It’s almost fucking over.
April 16, 2025 at 10:28 PM
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This is relevant again.
April 15, 2025 at 7:16 AM
Do I constantly feel like I’m missing out on things bc of my intentional stepping back from social media and focusing on my own writing instead of writing FOR publication? Yes. Yes I do.

But have I also written more in the past month than I had the 6 months that came before that? Also yes! So.
April 15, 2025 at 12:31 PM
has anyone ever considered ditching their MA program with three weeks left to go because the lady you submit the thesis to who gives you formatting notes essentially told you that no matter how many times you try, your project will never look right to her but she refuses to say WHY?

just curious.
April 11, 2025 at 8:26 PM
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Gonna take this opportunity to say that I can personally deliver no script for as little as 7 million, and I know some other writers who can do it for as little as five million.
April 10, 2025 at 9:20 PM
This photo is from an event that I worked with the Independent Music Collective at my university. We can’t put on events like this without grant funding.

Donate to organizations while you still can. Keep the arts alive.
Cultural groups across U.S. told that federal humanities grants are terminated
Among the thousands of groups affected by the sudden cessation of funds are state arts councils, museums, historic sites, archives, libraries, educators and media outlets in all 50 states.
www.npr.org
April 3, 2025 at 8:32 PM
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imagine sisyphus trotting cutely and proving love
April 3, 2025 at 4:03 PM
hey friends, out of curiosity:

if a publisher says “we’ll get back to you by X date” how long after that date is appropriate to send a follow-up, if they haven’t responded since then?
April 3, 2025 at 1:51 PM
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(1/10) The #SlutWalk is a transnational movement that calls for an end to rape culture, victim blaming, and slut-shaming, especially concerning survivors of sexual assault.
April 3, 2025 at 12:40 PM
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"Age verification" laws are actually "upload your ID or get your face scanned to access every website, ending anonymity and associating your identity with everything you do online" laws and if more people understood that they would not be down for this authoritarian nonsense
April 2, 2025 at 12:57 PM