Vivian
@vivivivian.bsky.social
🏳️⚧️She/her🏳️⚧️ 31
Pinsetter mechanic
Probably being silly
feel free to message me💚💚
Pinsetter mechanic
Probably being silly
feel free to message me💚💚
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Vivian
@vivivivian.bsky.social
· May 6
Transgender is like ferrari because I'm constantly asking my race engineer if I can pass
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🔮 @leftistlawyer.com could you please help share my mutual aid I am a Native Two Spirit person trying to raise funds to take the month off of work my doctor recommended after I was violently raped
myself and other Natives would appreciate you sharing our mutual aids today
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
myself and other Natives would appreciate you sharing our mutual aids today
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
Support MARAllMighty
Support MARAllMighty
ko-fi.com
November 26, 2025 at 6:56 PM
🔮 @leftistlawyer.com could you please help share my mutual aid I am a Native Two Spirit person trying to raise funds to take the month off of work my doctor recommended after I was violently raped
myself and other Natives would appreciate you sharing our mutual aids today
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
myself and other Natives would appreciate you sharing our mutual aids today
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
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Weirdly enough I don't mind early 20's me, I feel like I looked androgynous enough that it doesn't make me dysphoric. Now mid to late 20's me can go to hell and I've deleted almost all the pictures I had of me with facial hair *shudders*
November 26, 2025 at 6:48 AM
Weirdly enough I don't mind early 20's me, I feel like I looked androgynous enough that it doesn't make me dysphoric. Now mid to late 20's me can go to hell and I've deleted almost all the pictures I had of me with facial hair *shudders*
Note to self: tone down the sluttiness for Thanksgiving
Note to self: dress really slutty for Christmas
Note to self: dress really slutty for Christmas
🎉 I CAME OUT TO MY PARENTS AND IT WENT GREAT!!🎉
Not bad for a couple conservative Catholics, sometimes I forget that despite everything they're still good parents💚
Not bad for a couple conservative Catholics, sometimes I forget that despite everything they're still good parents💚
November 23, 2025 at 4:21 AM
Note to self: tone down the sluttiness for Thanksgiving
Note to self: dress really slutty for Christmas
Note to self: dress really slutty for Christmas
🎉 I CAME OUT TO MY PARENTS AND IT WENT GREAT!!🎉
Not bad for a couple conservative Catholics, sometimes I forget that despite everything they're still good parents💚
Not bad for a couple conservative Catholics, sometimes I forget that despite everything they're still good parents💚
November 22, 2025 at 11:39 PM
🎉 I CAME OUT TO MY PARENTS AND IT WENT GREAT!!🎉
Not bad for a couple conservative Catholics, sometimes I forget that despite everything they're still good parents💚
Not bad for a couple conservative Catholics, sometimes I forget that despite everything they're still good parents💚
These new scrabble rules are tearing the community apart!
imagine you actually had to put proper linguistic effort in and racism was illegal
November 22, 2025 at 8:35 PM
These new scrabble rules are tearing the community apart!
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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I have to work a few hours and then send the most important text of my life, and i really don't want to. I was hoping to distract myself enough to go to sleep and that didn't work🙃
Coming out to my parents tomorrow. I'm scared, but some of my friends are going to the bar with me tomorrow night to celebrate/cry so that'll be nice
November 22, 2025 at 6:41 AM
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I have to work a few hours and then send the most important text of my life, and i really don't want to. I was hoping to distract myself enough to go to sleep and that didn't work🙃
Coming out to my parents tomorrow. I'm scared, but some of my friends are going to the bar with me tomorrow night to celebrate/cry so that'll be nice
November 21, 2025 at 6:58 PM
Coming out to my parents tomorrow. I'm scared, but some of my friends are going to the bar with me tomorrow night to celebrate/cry so that'll be nice
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if youre trans and youre struggling to justify why you as a person should be allowed to take up space in the universe just consider that by your sheer existence you make a lot of the worst people on earth mad enough that they will die early deaths from stress. so thats a p good reason
November 21, 2025 at 1:37 AM
if youre trans and youre struggling to justify why you as a person should be allowed to take up space in the universe just consider that by your sheer existence you make a lot of the worst people on earth mad enough that they will die early deaths from stress. so thats a p good reason
Another solid series tonight, bowled against a bunch of friends so had a great time!
November 21, 2025 at 3:16 AM
Another solid series tonight, bowled against a bunch of friends so had a great time!
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my facial hair is the biggest source of dysphoria for me, i shave every day (often painfully) bc if i can see or feel any stubble i start spiraling ;ω;
if you want to support a trans woman on this tdor, it would mean the world to me to be closer to getting laser hair removal <3
ko-fi.com/raynpuddle
if you want to support a trans woman on this tdor, it would mean the world to me to be closer to getting laser hair removal <3
ko-fi.com/raynpuddle
November 20, 2025 at 7:37 PM
my facial hair is the biggest source of dysphoria for me, i shave every day (often painfully) bc if i can see or feel any stubble i start spiraling ;ω;
if you want to support a trans woman on this tdor, it would mean the world to me to be closer to getting laser hair removal <3
ko-fi.com/raynpuddle
if you want to support a trans woman on this tdor, it would mean the world to me to be closer to getting laser hair removal <3
ko-fi.com/raynpuddle
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another good person is my friend mel, whose state banned her insurance from covering her bottom surgery less than 200 days away from her surgery date, after over 1200 days stuck on the waitlist. it will absolutely destroy her savings and she needs any help she can get
gofund.me/13d0714fe
gofund.me/13d0714fe
Donate to Help Mel cover upcoming surgery expenses in New York., organized by Mel B
North Carolina banned my insurance from covering my surgery. I now have to… Mel B needs your support for Help Mel cover upcoming surgery expenses in New York.
gofund.me
November 20, 2025 at 6:50 PM
another good person is my friend mel, whose state banned her insurance from covering her bottom surgery less than 200 days away from her surgery date, after over 1200 days stuck on the waitlist. it will absolutely destroy her savings and she needs any help she can get
gofund.me/13d0714fe
gofund.me/13d0714fe
On trans day of remembrance it's not only important to honor the trans people we've lost but also to support us while we're still here. Please help Mara if you can!
with everything Going On Lately in my direction it’s been hard to deal with anything relating to my doctors request that I take a month off unpaid for sexual violence leave
buppy asked for help a week ago and every penny means the world
please help a 2S Native heal
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
buppy asked for help a week ago and every penny means the world
please help a 2S Native heal
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
Support MARAllMighty
Support MARAllMighty
ko-fi.com
November 20, 2025 at 7:26 PM
On trans day of remembrance it's not only important to honor the trans people we've lost but also to support us while we're still here. Please help Mara if you can!
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On this Trans Day of Remembrance, we remember the bright and courageous trans people whose lives were stolen by hatred. Their absence is felt across our city.
We will honor them by building a New York where every trans person can live safely, fully and freely.
We will honor them by building a New York where every trans person can live safely, fully and freely.
November 20, 2025 at 4:57 PM
On this Trans Day of Remembrance, we remember the bright and courageous trans people whose lives were stolen by hatred. Their absence is felt across our city.
We will honor them by building a New York where every trans person can live safely, fully and freely.
We will honor them by building a New York where every trans person can live safely, fully and freely.
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it's hard to spend any amount of time in trans spaces without feeling the looming weight of death that hangs over us all. too many of us have been lost to a world that would rather see us dead than ourselves
November 20, 2025 at 3:44 PM
it's hard to spend any amount of time in trans spaces without feeling the looming weight of death that hangs over us all. too many of us have been lost to a world that would rather see us dead than ourselves
Honestly I put equal odds on them being cool and asking if I have a new name and me never seeing them again until their funeral
I have to work a tournament Saturday morning so I will be sending the message when I get home, that way if it goes bad I don't have to work the next day. Fuck i can't believe I'm coming out to my parents in a few days
November 20, 2025 at 4:31 AM
Honestly I put equal odds on them being cool and asking if I have a new name and me never seeing them again until their funeral
I have to work a tournament Saturday morning so I will be sending the message when I get home, that way if it goes bad I don't have to work the next day. Fuck i can't believe I'm coming out to my parents in a few days
November 20, 2025 at 12:56 AM
I have to work a tournament Saturday morning so I will be sending the message when I get home, that way if it goes bad I don't have to work the next day. Fuck i can't believe I'm coming out to my parents in a few days
Finally slowed down at work so I've put a rough draft together and holy shit it feels real now, mildly freaking out about it. Like it's finally sinking in that this is happening this weekend and I get to find out if I'm still invited to Thanksgiving
Thinking of how to start my coming out text to my parents:
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times"
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times"
November 19, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Finally slowed down at work so I've put a rough draft together and holy shit it feels real now, mildly freaking out about it. Like it's finally sinking in that this is happening this weekend and I get to find out if I'm still invited to Thanksgiving
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with everything Going On Lately in my direction it’s been hard to deal with anything relating to my doctors request that I take a month off unpaid for sexual violence leave
buppy asked for help a week ago and every penny means the world
please help a 2S Native heal
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
buppy asked for help a week ago and every penny means the world
please help a 2S Native heal
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
Support MARAllMighty
Support MARAllMighty
ko-fi.com
November 19, 2025 at 6:22 PM
with everything Going On Lately in my direction it’s been hard to deal with anything relating to my doctors request that I take a month off unpaid for sexual violence leave
buppy asked for help a week ago and every penny means the world
please help a 2S Native heal
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
buppy asked for help a week ago and every penny means the world
please help a 2S Native heal
ko-fi.com/marallmighty
Thinking of how to start my coming out text to my parents:
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times"
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times"
November 19, 2025 at 4:42 PM
Thinking of how to start my coming out text to my parents:
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times"
"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times"
Oh the internet isn't working?
Reject modernity, embrace tradition
Reject modernity, embrace tradition
The UI can take some getting used to but at least they're friendly
November 18, 2025 at 6:43 PM
Oh the internet isn't working?
Reject modernity, embrace tradition
Reject modernity, embrace tradition
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This is exactly what happened.
Kind of feels like the IOC expected for the study to say "yeah trans women are like the hulk somehow" and when it completely undercut the reasoning behind banning us. They have simply elected to ignore their own work.
November 18, 2025 at 12:13 PM
This is exactly what happened.
Finally talked to my coworker and everything should be fine going forward. Now I can focus on coming out to my parents this weekend 😬
November 18, 2025 at 12:55 AM
Finally talked to my coworker and everything should be fine going forward. Now I can focus on coming out to my parents this weekend 😬