Louis de Ponk du Lac
@vikego.bsky.social
DJ. Gaymer. Vinyl Collector. Pokemon Collector. Shyt Talker. Music enthusiast. Neuro Zesty. USN Veteran. ☀️Leo ↗️Aquarius 🌙Cap
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Louis de Ponk du Lac
@vikego.bsky.social
· Nov 20
Blue tint for the Bluesky. Still understanding my way around this app.
My current relationship is the best I’ve been in. Tbh what makes it special in large part is me. I'm consistently working on myself and applying that growth into all my relationships.
6. What is the best relationship you've ever been in? What made it special?
December 17, 2025 at 11:49 PM
My current relationship is the best I’ve been in. Tbh what makes it special in large part is me. I'm consistently working on myself and applying that growth into all my relationships.
You have to maintain your identity.
You should be able to have self fulfillment in your life.
You should be learning and growing individually.
You should learn to have experiences, friendships that don’t involve you and your person.
Don’t forget to have a relationship with yourself.
You should be able to have self fulfillment in your life.
You should be learning and growing individually.
You should learn to have experiences, friendships that don’t involve you and your person.
Don’t forget to have a relationship with yourself.
5. What are some 'hard to swallow' facts about relationships?
December 17, 2025 at 4:38 PM
You have to maintain your identity.
You should be able to have self fulfillment in your life.
You should be learning and growing individually.
You should learn to have experiences, friendships that don’t involve you and your person.
Don’t forget to have a relationship with yourself.
You should be able to have self fulfillment in your life.
You should be learning and growing individually.
You should learn to have experiences, friendships that don’t involve you and your person.
Don’t forget to have a relationship with yourself.
Flirting. Have a conversation about it. Define it for each other. What are the levels of comfort/ discomfort. What degree of flirting spills into cheating.
Also, cheating. It’s spoken about often but very surface level. Again define it. What does that look + feel like? What are the expectations?
Also, cheating. It’s spoken about often but very surface level. Again define it. What does that look + feel like? What are the expectations?
4. What often destroys relationships but is hardly talked about?
December 17, 2025 at 3:39 PM
Flirting. Have a conversation about it. Define it for each other. What are the levels of comfort/ discomfort. What degree of flirting spills into cheating.
Also, cheating. It’s spoken about often but very surface level. Again define it. What does that look + feel like? What are the expectations?
Also, cheating. It’s spoken about often but very surface level. Again define it. What does that look + feel like? What are the expectations?
Lying. But specifically, withholding feelings/information.
If something bothers you or doesn’t sit well with you make it known ASAP. Navigating those situations early offers the opportunity to adjust. Additionally, the outcomes can offer insight on whether you’re heading in the right direction.
If something bothers you or doesn’t sit well with you make it known ASAP. Navigating those situations early offers the opportunity to adjust. Additionally, the outcomes can offer insight on whether you’re heading in the right direction.
3. What common mistakes do people make early on in a relationship that causes issues further down the line?
December 17, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Lying. But specifically, withholding feelings/information.
If something bothers you or doesn’t sit well with you make it known ASAP. Navigating those situations early offers the opportunity to adjust. Additionally, the outcomes can offer insight on whether you’re heading in the right direction.
If something bothers you or doesn’t sit well with you make it known ASAP. Navigating those situations early offers the opportunity to adjust. Additionally, the outcomes can offer insight on whether you’re heading in the right direction.
Willful ignorance. To me, it’s one of the most unattractive traits a person can have.
• Be able to adjust when presented with new information.
• Have a desire to grow mentally/emotionally.
• Be a student of life.
• Value growth in yourself and those closest to you.
• Be able to adjust when presented with new information.
• Have a desire to grow mentally/emotionally.
• Be a student of life.
• Value growth in yourself and those closest to you.
2. What opinion or behavior would stop you from being romantically involved in someone even if they ticked every other box?
December 17, 2025 at 3:14 PM
Willful ignorance. To me, it’s one of the most unattractive traits a person can have.
• Be able to adjust when presented with new information.
• Have a desire to grow mentally/emotionally.
• Be a student of life.
• Value growth in yourself and those closest to you.
• Be able to adjust when presented with new information.
• Have a desire to grow mentally/emotionally.
• Be a student of life.
• Value growth in yourself and those closest to you.
Be just as familiar with your NEEDS, as you are with your wants from a relationship.
• What do I need to feel reassured
• What boundaries need to be in place to feel supported/respected
• What does communication styles work best for me
• What do I need to feel reassured
• What boundaries need to be in place to feel supported/respected
• What does communication styles work best for me
1. What is something you think everyone should know about being in a relationship?
December 17, 2025 at 3:06 PM
Be just as familiar with your NEEDS, as you are with your wants from a relationship.
• What do I need to feel reassured
• What boundaries need to be in place to feel supported/respected
• What does communication styles work best for me
• What do I need to feel reassured
• What boundaries need to be in place to feel supported/respected
• What does communication styles work best for me
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Tramell Tillman wins Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Drama Series at the #EMMYs for ‘SEVERANCE’
He makes history as the first Black actor to win the category.
He makes history as the first Black actor to win the category.
September 15, 2025 at 12:32 AM
Tramell Tillman wins Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Drama Series at the #EMMYs for ‘SEVERANCE’
He makes history as the first Black actor to win the category.
He makes history as the first Black actor to win the category.
My Spotify Wrapped and Apple Music replay basically said
December 4, 2025 at 3:32 PM
My Spotify Wrapped and Apple Music replay basically said
Your avi…
Lemme see it.
Lemme see it.
November 30, 2025 at 10:25 PM
Your avi…
Lemme see it.
Lemme see it.
I’m sorry but this one makes me come to life EVERY time + Bad Bunny's NUEVAYoL. open.spotify.com/track/555maX...
November 26, 2025 at 11:30 PM
I’m sorry but this one makes me come to life EVERY time + Bad Bunny's NUEVAYoL. open.spotify.com/track/555maX...
This year it’s been
Durand Bernarr
Martha Wash
Sabrina Claudio
Big Sean
Brandy + Monica (in a few weeks)
Durand Bernarr
Martha Wash
Sabrina Claudio
Big Sean
Brandy + Monica (in a few weeks)
November 26, 2025 at 10:45 PM
This year it’s been
Durand Bernarr
Martha Wash
Sabrina Claudio
Big Sean
Brandy + Monica (in a few weeks)
Durand Bernarr
Martha Wash
Sabrina Claudio
Big Sean
Brandy + Monica (in a few weeks)
Not my favorite,, but it’s one I like and the first one to come to mind..
open.spotify.com/track/6YjRsy...
open.spotify.com/track/6YjRsy...
November 26, 2025 at 10:36 PM
Not my favorite,, but it’s one I like and the first one to come to mind..
open.spotify.com/track/6YjRsy...
open.spotify.com/track/6YjRsy...
This has been the longest work day…
November 26, 2025 at 10:33 PM
This has been the longest work day…
School Daze + cuz some of ya callin' it an instant classic… Sinners 😬
This is a safe space I promise…., What Black Classic movie you haven’t seen?
November 26, 2025 at 10:30 PM
School Daze + cuz some of ya callin' it an instant classic… Sinners 😬
You can remove the discover tab.
I knew the discover tab wasn’t for me after I saw a grown ass man wearing a diaper. Removed it from my feeds immediately.
November 25, 2025 at 11:42 PM
You can remove the discover tab.
I couldn’t agree more. It’s insane to me because the talent and production is there.
cakes da killa doesn’t get their flowers enough.
November 25, 2025 at 11:39 PM
I couldn’t agree more. It’s insane to me because the talent and production is there.
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cakes da killa doesn’t get their flowers enough.
November 25, 2025 at 3:59 PM
cakes da killa doesn’t get their flowers enough.
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Bottom shaming 🥷’s is soooooo late, in 2025!? Grow up….
November 25, 2025 at 4:17 PM
Bottom shaming 🥷’s is soooooo late, in 2025!? Grow up….
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“Elite Milk” ????
November 25, 2025 at 5:12 PM
“Elite Milk” ????
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Y’all don’t talk enough about black bottoms being top tier. 😮💨
November 25, 2025 at 5:54 PM
Y’all don’t talk enough about black bottoms being top tier. 😮💨
I’m too grown for this to be a deal breaker.
Serious inquiry, because I’ve heard differing opinions on this.
Would you all date someone with the same birthday as you ? Why or why not ?
Would you all date someone with the same birthday as you ? Why or why not ?
November 25, 2025 at 10:42 PM
I’m too grown for this to be a deal breaker.
Oooh name a plate that would piss you off showing up at Thanksgiving!
Sweet Potato casserole immediately raises my blood pressure. Marshmallows do not belong anywhere near a sweet potato nor a candied yam.
Sweet Potato casserole immediately raises my blood pressure. Marshmallows do not belong anywhere near a sweet potato nor a candied yam.
November 25, 2025 at 10:26 PM
Oooh name a plate that would piss you off showing up at Thanksgiving!
Sweet Potato casserole immediately raises my blood pressure. Marshmallows do not belong anywhere near a sweet potato nor a candied yam.
Sweet Potato casserole immediately raises my blood pressure. Marshmallows do not belong anywhere near a sweet potato nor a candied yam.
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But we are, indeed saying what we gotta say! ...imma go ahead you want us to put emphasis and tone, flair and spice when we talk to y'all... Right? 🙂↕️
One thing about millennials… y’all love an ellipses. Just say what you gotta say man! 😩
November 25, 2025 at 9:02 PM
But we are, indeed saying what we gotta say! ...imma go ahead you want us to put emphasis and tone, flair and spice when we talk to y'all... Right? 🙂↕️