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VexxieShadow
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South Asian
Born in 96'
Feminist | Misandrist
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If "declining fertility accelerates to a point where human numbers drop to 6-7 billion people by 2100...Combined with reduced economic growth, that would be huge blessing for most life on the planet." scaledown.substack.com/p/when-stork...
When Storks Don't Oblige
Some people get very upset.
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August 14, 2025 at 6:58 PM
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The concept of "queerness" is neo-hetersexualism. It is the hetero analysis of what it theoretically means to be homosexual. It isn't rooted in anything material, that's why it's so foreign to (actual) Lesbians & gay men.

It's repackaged erasure & conversion therapy rhetoric.
April 13, 2025 at 2:51 PM
Stop infantilising men. For all the time you spend lecturing women online with things like this, when's the last time you lectured men and told them that the ways that they behave leave us with no choice but to embrace radical feminism? Hold oppressors accountable
Misandrists will go “pffft it’s not my job to fix men, fuck them all”

And then they push the men they could’ve educate into the arms of Nazis and misogynists who will HAPPILY educate them about how evil women are or something

I’m sorry man, but this shit is just harmful for EVERYONE
'the 'fuck all men' bit will fix anything'

Why is it up to us to do the fixing though? Why are women being told that we have to appease our oppressors all the time? A matriarchy could never be as bad as a patriarchy because men are physically stronger than women. You have to take power dynamics
February 22, 2025 at 9:39 PM
Men are grown adults who are capable of distinguishing between right and wrong. If someone is dumb enough to be successfully influenced by Nazis, you can't really blame women for it. We're not here to babysit anybody
Misandrists will go “pffft it’s not my job to fix men, fuck them all”

And then they push the men they could’ve educate into the arms of Nazis and misogynists who will HAPPILY educate them about how evil women are or something

I’m sorry man, but this shit is just harmful for EVERYONE
'the 'fuck all men' bit will fix anything'

Why is it up to us to do the fixing though? Why are women being told that we have to appease our oppressors all the time? A matriarchy could never be as bad as a patriarchy because men are physically stronger than women. You have to take power dynamics
February 22, 2025 at 9:37 PM
Placing the responsibility on any oppressed demographic to appease their oppressors i.e. the people with more power socially, will never be genuine activism. It's definitely not my job to fix men as a woman.
Misandrists will go “pffft it’s not my job to fix men, fuck them all”

And then they push the men they could’ve educate into the arms of Nazis and misogynists who will HAPPILY educate them about how evil women are or something

I’m sorry man, but this shit is just harmful for EVERYONE
'the 'fuck all men' bit will fix anything'

Why is it up to us to do the fixing though? Why are women being told that we have to appease our oppressors all the time? A matriarchy could never be as bad as a patriarchy because men are physically stronger than women. You have to take power dynamics
February 22, 2025 at 9:35 PM
Radical feminism is the only real feminism there is. Liberal feminism is a watered down version of feminism which strives to cause the least amount of offense to the gender with more power historical, socially and physically.
Misandrists will go “pffft it’s not my job to fix men, fuck them all”

And then they push the men they could’ve educate into the arms of Nazis and misogynists who will HAPPILY educate them about how evil women are or something

I’m sorry man, but this shit is just harmful for EVERYONE
'the 'fuck all men' bit will fix anything'

Why is it up to us to do the fixing though? Why are women being told that we have to appease our oppressors all the time? A matriarchy could never be as bad as a patriarchy because men are physically stronger than women. You have to take power dynamics
February 22, 2025 at 9:34 PM
Also, we are NOWHERE NEAR a matriarchy. That would be lovely. To suggest that women fighting to preserve their most basic rights amounts to wanting a matriarchy shows just how much of a misogynist you are.
Misandrists will go “pffft it’s not my job to fix men, fuck them all”

And then they push the men they could’ve educate into the arms of Nazis and misogynists who will HAPPILY educate them about how evil women are or something

I’m sorry man, but this shit is just harmful for EVERYONE
'the 'fuck all men' bit will fix anything'

Why is it up to us to do the fixing though? Why are women being told that we have to appease our oppressors all the time? A matriarchy could never be as bad as a patriarchy because men are physically stronger than women. You have to take power dynamics
February 22, 2025 at 9:34 PM
If my political opponent has a stereotype of me, it's not my priority to disprove their stereotype. I don't care what helps who or what doesn't.
I don’t know where you lean about trans women like myself man, that’s why I asked

Also here’s some advice

I don’t care how much you say otherwise, how much your friends tell you it is, the whole being an open misandrist shit will NEVER work, aside from making you feel cool, it NEVER helps us
February 22, 2025 at 9:33 PM
Women's response to what's being done to them isn't the problem. That's not what we should be policing. Focus on the problem itself.
It’s fine, I don’t spend much time here anyways

But I do want it to be known to those who think this behavior is okay:

How does cutting off one half of the human population, just for their genitals, and seeing them as inherently dangerous, help you with your movement?

Big tent, man, include them
February 22, 2025 at 5:17 AM
Lol some of these trans activists really are men's rights movement (MRA). Anyone who can give legitimacy to a word like 'misandrist' is definitely a misogynist. It's a term that is about as valid as 'anti-white racism'.
I step away from BlueSky for a week

And I come back to find that a misandrist was spamming my posts, calling me a closeted misogynist and that I’m policing women’s bodies, and that misandry isn’t real, and that I don’t recognize “violence against vaginas”

Because I think the 4B movement is bad
February 22, 2025 at 5:01 AM
There was a time when the public didn't know much about trans people. It was actually better that way. They went about their business and nobody minded. Once activists drew attention to it, the right-wing media sensationalised it and it went downhill from there.
It’s crazy to think this county was more tolerant of the differences among us 50 years ago than it is today.
February 18, 2025 at 3:18 PM
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I don’t think it’s hatred of trans people so much as hatred of the bullying and mobbing tactics of trans “activists” and their supporters and well-meant but wrongheaded trans supremacy instituted by the Biden administration.

A once-sympathetic public got sick of being dictated to at every turn.
February 17, 2025 at 4:19 PM
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Misandry isn't a real thing, it's an invention of Patriarchy used to silence people punching up.

GCs quite openly celebrate men, including abusers.
February 15, 2025 at 2:28 PM
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"in their specific obsession with transgender women, these initiatives also exhibit a clear misandry" is not only a fancy way of saying trans women are men, it also doesn't make any sense. 'Transmisogyny is caused by misandry' is an oxymoron. Also, misandry isn't real.

Better, now?
February 15, 2025 at 2:06 PM
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"Transmisogyny is rooted in misandry" is not only a fancy way of saying trans women are men, it also doesn't make any sense. "This misogyny is caused by misandry" is an oxymoron. Also, misandry isn't real.
February 15, 2025 at 12:10 PM
They're literally repackaging some of the most regressive ideas as progressive ones
I'm absolutely convinced that there's a whole bunch of red-pill misogynists comfortably hiding in the left-wing pretending to be trans activists.

I'm seeing people with the trans flag in their bio using words like 'misandrist'.
February 13, 2025 at 11:50 AM
I'm absolutely convinced that there's a whole bunch of red-pill misogynists comfortably hiding in the left-wing pretending to be trans activists.

I'm seeing people with the trans flag in their bio using words like 'misandrist'.
February 13, 2025 at 11:48 AM
Instead of putting the blame on the people who created those systems, you're putting the blame on the people resisting those systems
Saying 4B movement reinforces bioessentialism is insane. Women aren't the ones who invented bioessentialism but we're forced to navigate it. In order to navigate it, we actually have to acknowledge our reality. Have trans activists lost the plot completely?
February 13, 2025 at 11:41 AM
Yes there are terfs out there. But calling someone a terf purely in order to discredit any and all opinions they may hold isn't ok
February 13, 2025 at 11:40 AM
Saying 4B movement reinforces bioessentialism is insane. Women aren't the ones who invented bioessentialism but we're forced to navigate it. In order to navigate it, we actually have to acknowledge our reality. Have trans activists lost the plot completely?
February 13, 2025 at 11:39 AM
A lot of far-left trans rights activists are putting out the same narratives as right-wing conservatives and selling it as progressiveness

'Radical feminists doing 4B are on the same moral level as men who are involuntary celebates'

You can't be that stupid can you?
February 13, 2025 at 11:28 AM
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February 12, 2025 at 3:49 PM
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The 4B movement is strong and alive, come join us 💗
I would love for birth rates to continue dropping over the next 4 years. Don’t bring innocent life into this hell hole 🫤
January 21, 2025 at 12:35 PM
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i do not date men, have sex with men, will marry a man, or have a man’s child, and not just because it’s part of being in the 4b movement, but because i hate cismen and don’t want to do those things (:
January 22, 2025 at 2:28 AM
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I wholeheartedly believe the key problem is that we are looking at identity groups as if they are types of paragon or villain. In reality abuse happens because
1. The abuser wants to abuse someone.
2. The abuser has a belief, often not unreasonably, the abuse will work and they will get away with it
November 12, 2024 at 12:56 PM