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🧶🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ 39yo trans bear. Ottawa. He/him
Also, the idea that humans are not deeply domesticated as a species is laughable.
November 19, 2025 at 4:59 AM
I’ve just kind of assumed this was middle school fatphobia type humor
June 25, 2025 at 3:13 PM
I have my own Canadian favorites but I don’t think you are located in Canada
June 10, 2025 at 5:13 AM
Reposted by October
People will really use unethical, theft-based, environmentally unfriendly AI models to disappear into personal delusions about religion and generally lose their minds, when topamax is already available as an inexpensive generic pill
June 5, 2025 at 2:29 AM
That is the best name thank you! I’m going to call them Wizard eyebrow hairs from now on! 🥰🧙‍♂️
June 4, 2025 at 7:58 PM
I never asked this of you. Never not once. I didn’t mean to imply it, ever. I don’t know how to be clearer about that, and I’m sorry. Replying to you seems to be doing more harm than good right now so I’m going to stop.
June 4, 2025 at 5:50 PM
I don’t know how to say this in a way that doesn’t seem condescending but I hope you can hear my compassion when I say it. I’m sorry that you are struggling and that my attempt at solidarity and engagement triggered you this badly. It was the opposite of my intent.
June 4, 2025 at 5:46 PM
I was literally trying to reach out with you with solidarity, talk with you about the fraternity of men and bell hooks radical hope for male love and you treated me like I stepped in dogshit. I didn’t deserve that.
June 4, 2025 at 5:42 PM
I wasn’t giving feminists any sort of directive. I was simply talking about my own experience of radfem nihilism. I wasn’t asking you to account for them, defend them or have an answer. I am telling you how I relate to men, manhood and masculinity. How I see the way forward for us as men.
June 4, 2025 at 5:40 PM
It was never my intent to derail. You criticized feminism and I agreed with you about its failures. I have agreed with your premise from the start and yet somehow you are the only man allowed to have a grievance. Even when our grievances align. You invented a whole other person to disagree with!
June 4, 2025 at 5:35 PM
I specifically seek out other trans men to talk about this with. I thought we would be on the same page about creating compassionate space around this and I was wrong. You are telling me loud and clear that YOU are not a person I should surround myself with to discuss these issues. Message received.
June 4, 2025 at 5:31 PM
I love seeing posts like this. I’m so happy for you!!
June 4, 2025 at 4:45 PM