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Spencer aka The Trans Dad
@thetransdad.bsky.social
Content creator aka The Trans Dad. Advocating for and advising Trans people for over 30 years on everything from legal rights to relationships. Politics geek, ex-lawyer,
Personal Coach, Writer, Public Speaker 🏳️‍⚧️

https://linktr.ee/SpencerBergstedt
Seattle area peeps - the dominionist hate church from Spokane is planning another anti-trans protest at City Hall at 5 pm Mon.
If you’re counter-protesting, be careful. SPD were the instigators of violence against our pro-trans folks on Saturday, injuring many and arresting 23.
May 27, 2025 at 3:42 AM
There is very real reason to think that HRT medication supply chain disruptions and outright bans on gender affirming care for adults may be coming. I’ve attached a graphic that may be of help in planning ahead.
April 16, 2025 at 8:41 AM
April 11, 2025 at 4:44 AM
Fuck. Fuck. Fuckity fuck.
April 4, 2025 at 7:57 PM
March 19, 2025 at 12:23 AM
Always focus on small businesses owned and operated by actual trans, queer, BIPOC, & women owned businesses that support* everyone in the communities.

*Which means - if the biz is owned by cis gay yt men who are MAGA - go elsewhere.
March 18, 2025 at 7:24 PM
If you ask, I’ll answer.
March 15, 2025 at 2:16 AM
Artist credit: @maraglubka

Alt text: drawing of a superhero mouse carrying a trans pride flag. Caption on top says Transgenic Mouse. Words on flag’s center white stripe “Here I Come To Save The World”
March 9, 2025 at 2:20 AM
It so predictable, that when I see someone post a negative, hateful, ignorant comment on any content/posts by trans people, I pretty much know exactly what the hater’s profile pic will be.
March 5, 2025 at 10:03 PM
Alt text. Artwork for March 4 Liberty #50501
50 protests. 50 states. March 4th.
March 2, 2025 at 9:39 PM
March 1, 2025 at 1:37 AM
Remember to make your signs double sided.

And keep your baseball mitt in the car. And a receipt from a visit to the batting cage.
February 23, 2025 at 3:38 AM
If there’s anything that’s guaranteed it’s that gatherings of MAGA will contain vast numbers of self-hating, anti-queer/trans, cis men looking for D on apps. The world would be a much happier place if folks would just drop their internalized shame & embrace the joy of authenticity.
February 22, 2025 at 9:38 PM
Thank goodness for judges who do their homework. And fuck the DOJ lawyers who are being complicit and disingenuous.
February 19, 2025 at 9:48 PM
One of the worst things that happens to trans folks is our erasure upon death. Let’s do better when remembering our own. Please use more recent photos of Sam Nordquist. He deserves to be remembered as the man he was.
February 19, 2025 at 7:24 AM
Micro-activism you can do today!!
February 15, 2025 at 10:17 PM
Trumpism, muskrat malfeasance, & eradication of Trans and Gender Diverse human beings from participation in any aspect of US life. A colleague just captured these. Feel free to share widely. All references to the existence of TGD people in the U.S. have been/are being erased from federal web sites.
February 8, 2025 at 10:42 PM
Adult Transgender Legislative Risk Map, 2025.
By @erininthemorning 🏳️‍⚧️ stay safe everyone
February 5, 2025 at 2:50 AM
That is Ariel Loh!!! Incredible producer! And the first Asian American Trans Woman to win a Grammy 💖💖💖
February 4, 2025 at 3:06 AM
If your child under 19 has suddenly had an appointment for gender affirming care cancelled, please contact Chase Strangio at the ACLU.
January 30, 2025 at 4:46 AM
Do not, I repeat, do not, submit a passport application, which involves a gender correction at this time. It appears the US state department has been instructed to cease processing those applications and to seize any and all documentation submitted in support of the application.
January 24, 2025 at 10:15 PM
Sunday Jan 26
San Diego

Look for these kinds of classes whoever you live.
January 22, 2025 at 2:25 AM
Happy International Fetish Day!!

I’ll be celebrating in a variety of ways. 😈😉

#LeatherDaddy
January 17, 2025 at 8:30 PM
Starting the day off right.
January 17, 2025 at 7:24 PM
January 15, 2025 at 10:39 PM