That isn't right! Let go of needing to be right - it can make a victim of you (See reel No.2).
An even harder-to-recognise thought process often going on is if their problems are solved, they won't need help anymore when needing help is how they have attracted people. More next comment

One choice could be to move away from the situation. Instead many want someone else to solve their problems. That's very understandable.
There's an idea if your problem is solve, the victimiser, or the situation which is creating the problem for you, will get clean away with it. See next comment.

If we look at our situations carefully, we might see that our thinking choices could be different.
Life long victim-thinkers do not believe they are able to do anything about it a situation. Just being present is participating.

What a pity you don't like posting what the pictures of your travels actually are...would be nice to know.

Sob stories which keep being repeated while no change takes place because the 'victim' feels trapped or stuck, are common features of victimish behaviour and victim-thinking. Being right is often the very thing that keeps us from being able to resolve a situation in which we're being victimised.

Sob stories being repeated while no change takes place because the 'victim' feels trapped or stuck, are common features of victimish behaviour and victim-thinking. Being right is often the very thing that keeps us from being able to resolve a situation in which we're being victimised.

Not sure where you are, Sam. Try Good Reading Magazine out of Australia who have a good online presence and a great monthly mag with loads of new books and honest reviews of them. Really good source of new books and author information as well.

Blamers are actually victims...did you know? Here's why they are.

The Victims We Make of Ourselves - youtu.be/C-pEUoduPJY

When in doubt, whip it out, I always say. Old writing chestnut!