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No2 of a series of 8 -https://www.youtube.com/shorts/we9KXt0MsyI
No2 WhereTofromHere #motivationalquotes #motivationinspiration #motivation
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August 3, 2025 at 8:34 AM
No2 of a series of 8 -https://www.youtube.com/shorts/we9KXt0MsyI
Worth thinking about! - www.youtube.com/shorts/YJkHt...
Blaming Affects Society #motivation #wisdom #quotes #inspiration
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July 8, 2025 at 8:37 PM
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No.3 of a four-part series on breaking the cycle of victim-thinking.
No.3 of a four-part series on breaking the cycle of victim-thinking.
No 3 in a four-part series on Breaking the Cycle of Victim-hinking
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June 4, 2025 at 8:58 AM
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No.3 of a four-part series on breaking the cycle of victim-thinking.
No.3 of a four-part series on breaking the cycle of victim-thinking.
Breaking the victim-think cycle - No1 in four part series.
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Breaking the Cycle of Victim-thinking
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May 8, 2025 at 8:56 PM
Breaking the victim-think cycle - No1 in four part series.
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The worst part of being victimised is the realisation that you have, usually unknowingly, given permission for it to happen.
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We become victims because we permit it
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March 26, 2025 at 3:02 AM
The worst part of being victimised is the realisation that you have, usually unknowingly, given permission for it to happen.
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Blaming makes victims of us. Consistently operating as a victim can lead to victim-think and victimhood. Victimhood shows up in our lives in ways we definitely don't want.
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Victimhood often begins during young childhood
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March 3, 2025 at 7:33 AM
Blaming makes victims of us. Consistently operating as a victim can lead to victim-think and victimhood. Victimhood shows up in our lives in ways we definitely don't want.
youtu.be/Bo2io2hzJqg
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The difference between giving a reason and making an excuse.
The difference between giving a reason and making an excuse.
Blame Versus Reason
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February 10, 2025 at 4:12 AM
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The difference between giving a reason and making an excuse.
The difference between giving a reason and making an excuse.
That isn't right! Let go of needing to be right - it can make a victim of you (See reel No.2).
An even harder-to-recognise thought process often going on is if their problems are solved, they won't need help anymore when needing help is how they have attracted people. More next comment
An even harder-to-recognise thought process often going on is if their problems are solved, they won't need help anymore when needing help is how they have attracted people. More next comment
February 3, 2025 at 4:10 AM
That isn't right! Let go of needing to be right - it can make a victim of you (See reel No.2).
An even harder-to-recognise thought process often going on is if their problems are solved, they won't need help anymore when needing help is how they have attracted people. More next comment
An even harder-to-recognise thought process often going on is if their problems are solved, they won't need help anymore when needing help is how they have attracted people. More next comment
One choice could be to move away from the situation. Instead many want someone else to solve their problems. That's very understandable.
There's an idea if your problem is solve, the victimiser, or the situation which is creating the problem for you, will get clean away with it. See next comment.
There's an idea if your problem is solve, the victimiser, or the situation which is creating the problem for you, will get clean away with it. See next comment.
February 3, 2025 at 4:09 AM
One choice could be to move away from the situation. Instead many want someone else to solve their problems. That's very understandable.
There's an idea if your problem is solve, the victimiser, or the situation which is creating the problem for you, will get clean away with it. See next comment.
There's an idea if your problem is solve, the victimiser, or the situation which is creating the problem for you, will get clean away with it. See next comment.
If we look at our situations carefully, we might see that our thinking choices could be different.
Life long victim-thinkers do not believe they are able to do anything about it a situation. Just being present is participating.
Life long victim-thinkers do not believe they are able to do anything about it a situation. Just being present is participating.
February 2, 2025 at 11:03 PM
If we look at our situations carefully, we might see that our thinking choices could be different.
Life long victim-thinkers do not believe they are able to do anything about it a situation. Just being present is participating.
Life long victim-thinkers do not believe they are able to do anything about it a situation. Just being present is participating.
What a pity you don't like posting what the pictures of your travels actually are...would be nice to know.
January 25, 2025 at 8:46 PM
What a pity you don't like posting what the pictures of your travels actually are...would be nice to know.
What's up is something humanity should be taking a keen interest in - do you know what 'brain rot' is?
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Melissa Fleming’s Urgent Call for ‘Information Integrity’
The UN's Melissa Fleming asks publishers: 'Remember the power of a book in an age like this. Join our movement.'…
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January 23, 2025 at 11:33 PM
What's up is something humanity should be taking a keen interest in - do you know what 'brain rot' is?
publishingperspectives.com/2024/12/meli...
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From last week's video, we now know that making excuses also makes us victims, but what are the real reasons we make excuses? Something to think about perhaps.
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Why we make excuses
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January 21, 2025 at 7:29 AM
From last week's video, we now know that making excuses also makes us victims, but what are the real reasons we make excuses? Something to think about perhaps.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjzg...
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Sob stories which keep being repeated while no change takes place because the 'victim' feels trapped or stuck, are common features of victimish behaviour and victim-thinking. Being right is often the very thing that keeps us from being able to resolve a situation in which we're being victimised.
January 20, 2025 at 7:37 AM
Sob stories which keep being repeated while no change takes place because the 'victim' feels trapped or stuck, are common features of victimish behaviour and victim-thinking. Being right is often the very thing that keeps us from being able to resolve a situation in which we're being victimised.
Sob stories being repeated while no change takes place because the 'victim' feels trapped or stuck, are common features of victimish behaviour and victim-thinking. Being right is often the very thing that keeps us from being able to resolve a situation in which we're being victimised.
January 20, 2025 at 7:35 AM
Sob stories being repeated while no change takes place because the 'victim' feels trapped or stuck, are common features of victimish behaviour and victim-thinking. Being right is often the very thing that keeps us from being able to resolve a situation in which we're being victimised.
Not sure where you are, Sam. Try Good Reading Magazine out of Australia who have a good online presence and a great monthly mag with loads of new books and honest reviews of them. Really good source of new books and author information as well.
January 19, 2025 at 6:10 PM
Not sure where you are, Sam. Try Good Reading Magazine out of Australia who have a good online presence and a great monthly mag with loads of new books and honest reviews of them. Really good source of new books and author information as well.
Such a stunning piece - can't stop listening to it - either the lyrics or the very clever rhythmic melody.
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14K views · 2.6K reactions | “Do you want to bloom in my hands
I’ve got love here for you
And although I’m new at this dance
It’s my honor to adore you
Come take my hands
I believe that love
Lives in ...
“Do you want to bloom in my hands
I’ve got love here for you
And although I’m new at this dance
It’s my honor to adore you
Come take my hands
I believe that love
Lives in music
Free will, fate and...
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January 19, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Such a stunning piece - can't stop listening to it - either the lyrics or the very clever rhythmic melody.
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January 19, 2025 at 6:04 PM
Blamers are actually victims...did you know? Here's why they are.
The Victims We Make of Ourselves - youtu.be/C-pEUoduPJY
The Victims We Make of Ourselves - youtu.be/C-pEUoduPJY
The Victims We Make Of Ourselves
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January 14, 2025 at 11:43 PM
Blamers are actually victims...did you know? Here's why they are.
The Victims We Make of Ourselves - youtu.be/C-pEUoduPJY
The Victims We Make of Ourselves - youtu.be/C-pEUoduPJY
As a professional writer and speaker, I am also a funeral celebrant. When I'm not working with bereaved people I write magazine features, prospectus, business profiles, newsletters, EDM, blogs, etc. I also research and write books. My latest book, I'm Not A Victim...Am I? @TheresaSjoquist222
January 14, 2025 at 11:40 PM
As a professional writer and speaker, I am also a funeral celebrant. When I'm not working with bereaved people I write magazine features, prospectus, business profiles, newsletters, EDM, blogs, etc. I also research and write books. My latest book, I'm Not A Victim...Am I? @TheresaSjoquist222
January 14, 2025 at 11:29 PM
When in doubt, whip it out, I always say. Old writing chestnut!
January 5, 2025 at 8:27 PM
When in doubt, whip it out, I always say. Old writing chestnut!