Petra: You're like those little frogs that tarantulas keep around to stop insects from eating the eggs. <3

Bernadetta:

Bernadetta: That actually sounds pretty nice. :)

Happy belated Hatching Day 🫶🏼🥳🎉

Haha, based. As you said, sometimes it is needed

After the n-th time he broke off with me because of whatever delulu stuff he pulled out of his anus, I finally snapped and broke up with _him_. Told him he finally did it and to never contact me ever again. Stayed true to that despite his stalker attempts to find me

Weaponised incompetence only works because we let them. It will never stop unless we let them rot on their own.

Ghosting was the only way to stay safe. He didn't respect any kind of boundaries; the times I literally had to pummel him off of me, because no meant yes for him 😮‍💨

Yeah, not even doing the most basic stuff is just men.
I get it if someone had poor upbringing and all and I would never judge that. But he just lived the weaponised incompetence to the max.
He certainly tried to break me. Apparently I broke him though with the 6th year of consecutive ghosting 👀

The 'I can fix him' was strong in me lmao. That I had to teach him how to use utensils should have been a red flag for me already but here we go.

The system keeps itself up with these people. The cycle ever continues

It's not only the system. Dated one for five years. Not only was he uneducated as fuck, he was also insanely ignorant and bigoted - and absolutely proud of that.
Dude was a literal anchor baby to his Mexican Dad and El Salvadoran Mum and he still saw no problem with DT.