Ooooo I like this. Here’s a few books I’ve read:
Polysecure
Polywise
The Ethical Slut
Open Deeply
Bow Down (this one is more just people’s perspectives)

It Didn’t Start With You by Mark Wolynn

My apologies, those were just examples and not necessarily aimed at you personally. I’ll certainly check out your profile.

This is good, just remember that self-care and self-maintenance often get confused. Getting your hair and nails done, is self-maintenance, not self-care ♥️