Dr Catalina
@theintimacydoc.bsky.social
Psychologist • Pleasure Activist • Midlife Rebirther
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Dr Catalina
@theintimacydoc.bsky.social
· Nov 21
I believe in:
Real love.
Real intimacy.
Ecstatic sex.
Equality made possible with equity.
Conscious connection with ourselves, one another, and earth.
Awareness over privileged naivety.
Honesty over niceties.
Integrity defined by actions not just words.
Fun because it’s fun.
Wisdom when earned.
Real love.
Real intimacy.
Ecstatic sex.
Equality made possible with equity.
Conscious connection with ourselves, one another, and earth.
Awareness over privileged naivety.
Honesty over niceties.
Integrity defined by actions not just words.
Fun because it’s fun.
Wisdom when earned.
Colemam How did we get from jobs to buttholes? Easy. That’s the whole f*cking point. How you work, live, love, and fck are all connected. The same stress that keeps you braced at your desk keeps you tight in your body. Daily life sht like bills, deadlines, traffic, endless scrolling, all that keeps
October 4, 2025 at 10:35 PM
Colemam How did we get from jobs to buttholes? Easy. That’s the whole f*cking point. How you work, live, love, and fck are all connected. The same stress that keeps you braced at your desk keeps you tight in your body. Daily life sht like bills, deadlines, traffic, endless scrolling, all that keeps
Why are all the curtains closed?😎 There was a time when people walking by this building could look up and see streakers, see couples having fun, see bodies not afraid to be seen. It was wild, it was funny, it was human. Now every curtain is drawn. Every window locked down. And that shift says
October 4, 2025 at 4:38 PM
Why are all the curtains closed?😎 There was a time when people walking by this building could look up and see streakers, see couples having fun, see bodies not afraid to be seen. It was wild, it was funny, it was human. Now every curtain is drawn. Every window locked down. And that shift says
literally and metaphorically. Literally, our culture has taught us that the asshole is dirty, dangerous, untouchable. Shame and fear keep people tight and locked down. Which means most people never even consider it could be a source of deep pleasure. But the body knows. When explored with safety,
October 4, 2025 at 2:35 PM
literally and metaphorically. Literally, our culture has taught us that the asshole is dirty, dangerous, untouchable. Shame and fear keep people tight and locked down. Which means most people never even consider it could be a source of deep pleasure. But the body knows. When explored with safety,
Dunn582 Time and money of course aren't the real blocks to pleasure. Yes, they matter. And yes, they impact how resourced you feel. But the bigger truth is that pleasure requires presence, not hours on a clock or dollars in a bank account. Pleasure doesn’t always need extra time. Pleasure lives in
October 4, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Dunn582 Time and money of course aren't the real blocks to pleasure. Yes, they matter. And yes, they impact how resourced you feel. But the bigger truth is that pleasure requires presence, not hours on a clock or dollars in a bank account. Pleasure doesn’t always need extra time. Pleasure lives in
Assholes need to get f*(
October 1, 2025 at 8:35 PM
Assholes need to get f*(
“Did it hurt somebody's feelings.” This is part of the problem fostering loneliness and division. When 100 college boys hang out the windows and scream at women walking by, that’s not harmless. That’s not funny. That’s learned behavior. That’s seggism teaching boys entitlement, teaching women to
October 1, 2025 at 5:35 PM
“Did it hurt somebody's feelings.” This is part of the problem fostering loneliness and division. When 100 college boys hang out the windows and scream at women walking by, that’s not harmless. That’s not funny. That’s learned behavior. That’s seggism teaching boys entitlement, teaching women to
If the world seems confusing and chaotic, this is by design. Over 50+ years policy after policy has been written to funnel money and power to the few. Tax breaks, deregulation, corporate loopholes, union busting. All of it stacked the system for the one percent. And as our population grew and our
October 1, 2025 at 1:35 PM
If the world seems confusing and chaotic, this is by design. Over 50+ years policy after policy has been written to funnel money and power to the few. Tax breaks, deregulation, corporate loopholes, union busting. All of it stacked the system for the one percent. And as our population grew and our
We’re bending ourselves over to f*ck ourselves in the ass and not getting any pleasure from it. That’s what happens every time we consume without thinking. In what we eat, what we buy, where we live, how we drive, how we spend. Consumption is where we lose our power. Because every purchase, every
September 30, 2025 at 6:36 PM
We’re bending ourselves over to f*ck ourselves in the ass and not getting any pleasure from it. That’s what happens every time we consume without thinking. In what we eat, what we buy, where we live, how we drive, how we spend. Consumption is where we lose our power. Because every purchase, every
We’re bending ourselves over to f*ck ourselves in the ass and not getting any pleasure from it. That’s what happens every time we consume without thinking. In what we eat, what we buy, where we live, how we drive, how we spend. Consumption is where we lose our power. Because every purchase, every
September 30, 2025 at 5:35 PM
We’re bending ourselves over to f*ck ourselves in the ass and not getting any pleasure from it. That’s what happens every time we consume without thinking. In what we eat, what we buy, where we live, how we drive, how we spend. Consumption is where we lose our power. Because every purchase, every
“I learned absolutely nothing.” Thanks for sharing! Because what you (meaning everyone who projects like this) just showed is exactly the problem. You already know how systemic and individual factors contribute to loneliness and division. You already know how this culture blocks us from pleasure.
September 30, 2025 at 2:40 PM
“I learned absolutely nothing.” Thanks for sharing! Because what you (meaning everyone who projects like this) just showed is exactly the problem. You already know how systemic and individual factors contribute to loneliness and division. You already know how this culture blocks us from pleasure.
We’re bending over to f*ck ourselves up the ass and not getting any pleasure out of it. That’s the playbook. We’ve been sold the lie that if you work hard enough, if you grind long enough, if you sacrifice enough, you’ll get the rewards. Maybe that was true for a minute, but not anymore. The people
September 30, 2025 at 1:36 AM
We’re bending over to f*ck ourselves up the ass and not getting any pleasure out of it. That’s the playbook. We’ve been sold the lie that if you work hard enough, if you grind long enough, if you sacrifice enough, you’ll get the rewards. Maybe that was true for a minute, but not anymore. The people
Stop blaming your wife for not wanting to f*ck you. If there’s no intimacy outside the bedroom, there’s not going to be pleasure inside it. Period. If you (meaning everyone in a relationship) don’t laugh together, if you don’t do fun sh*t together, if you don’t even like each other anymore, why
September 29, 2025 at 11:35 PM
Stop blaming your wife for not wanting to f*ck you. If there’s no intimacy outside the bedroom, there’s not going to be pleasure inside it. Period. If you (meaning everyone in a relationship) don’t laugh together, if you don’t do fun sh*t together, if you don’t even like each other anymore, why
This asshole behavior is why assholes don’t get f*cked. When boys in a dorm scream vile things at women walking by, it is not harmless fun. It is how segg works through culture. It teaches entitlement. It normalizes disrespect. And it blocks everyone from pleasure. Because this isn’t only about
September 28, 2025 at 8:38 PM
This asshole behavior is why assholes don’t get f*cked. When boys in a dorm scream vile things at women walking by, it is not harmless fun. It is how segg works through culture. It teaches entitlement. It normalizes disrespect. And it blocks everyone from pleasure. Because this isn’t only about
Segg Ed has failed us! Most of what we got in school was fear based, reproduction based, and shame based. Nobody taught us about consent. Nobody taught us how to figure out what we actually like. Nobody taught us that pleasure is learnable. Instead we were told the goal is intercourse, get there
September 28, 2025 at 6:35 PM
Segg Ed has failed us! Most of what we got in school was fear based, reproduction based, and shame based. Nobody taught us about consent. Nobody taught us how to figure out what we actually like. Nobody taught us that pleasure is learnable. Instead we were told the goal is intercourse, get there
Giving to get never leads to pleasure. Quid pro quo kills desire. When we keep score, when we trade touch or intimacy like a transaction, the body knows. It shuts down. Pleasure cannot grow in that kind of exchange. But reciprocity is different. Reciprocity is not about keeping track, it is about
September 27, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Giving to get never leads to pleasure. Quid pro quo kills desire. When we keep score, when we trade touch or intimacy like a transaction, the body knows. It shuts down. Pleasure cannot grow in that kind of exchange. But reciprocity is different. Reciprocity is not about keeping track, it is about
Jm You are right. We no longer live in small communities, and that shift has changed everything. Individualism has been sold to us as freedom, but the cost is disconnection. When you live in an individualistic culture, you are taught to prioritize independence above all else. You should not need
September 27, 2025 at 2:28 AM
Jm You are right. We no longer live in small communities, and that shift has changed everything. Individualism has been sold to us as freedom, but the cost is disconnection. When you live in an individualistic culture, you are taught to prioritize independence above all else. You should not need
Both. It’s literal and it’s metaphorical. When I say assholes need to get f*cked, I’m talking about bodies and I’m talking about behavior. Literally, our culture teaches people to carry so much shame, fear, and tightness around their assholes that they never even consider it could be a place of
September 26, 2025 at 6:46 PM
Both. It’s literal and it’s metaphorical. When I say assholes need to get f*cked, I’m talking about bodies and I’m talking about behavior. Literally, our culture teaches people to carry so much shame, fear, and tightness around their assholes that they never even consider it could be a place of
Pleasure is not a privilege, it is a resource inside EACH of us. We have been conditioned to believe the opposite. That only certain bodies, certain bank accounts, certain lifestyles are worthy of pleasure. That pleasure is a prize you earn after hustling, performing, or proving yourself. That is
September 25, 2025 at 7:41 PM
Pleasure is not a privilege, it is a resource inside EACH of us. We have been conditioned to believe the opposite. That only certain bodies, certain bank accounts, certain lifestyles are worthy of pleasure. That pleasure is a prize you earn after hustling, performing, or proving yourself. That is
The system just erased your money and told you it’s fine. Former DOJ pardon attorney Liz Oyer revealed that this administration's pardons this year have wiped out over one billion dollars in fines and restitution owed by wealthy offenders. That means people who committed fraud, white collar crimes,
September 25, 2025 at 3:35 PM
The system just erased your money and told you it’s fine. Former DOJ pardon attorney Liz Oyer revealed that this administration's pardons this year have wiped out over one billion dollars in fines and restitution owed by wealthy offenders. That means people who committed fraud, white collar crimes,
It’s f*cking exhausting right?!!! You’re not imagining it. That exhaustion you feel isn’t because you’re weak or lazy. It’s part of the playbook. The acceleration of everything, the nonstop noise, the endless scroll, the sound bites that pass as truth. All of it designed to keep us too tired to
September 25, 2025 at 12:34 AM
It’s f*cking exhausting right?!!! You’re not imagining it. That exhaustion you feel isn’t because you’re weak or lazy. It’s part of the playbook. The acceleration of everything, the nonstop noise, the endless scroll, the sound bites that pass as truth. All of it designed to keep us too tired to
Non consensual public groping, is gross. And yes, this type of asshole behavior needs to get f*
September 24, 2025 at 9:37 PM
Non consensual public groping, is gross. And yes, this type of asshole behavior needs to get f*
We're bending over to f*(
September 24, 2025 at 6:35 PM
We're bending over to f*(
Project much?🤔💕 When someone says “sleeping around is disgusting” that’s not truth, that’s projection. That’s their own shame, their own fear, their own discomfort with pleasure spilling out onto someone else. And this is exactly why so many people’s assholes never get f*cked. Literally and
September 24, 2025 at 2:35 PM
Project much?🤔💕 When someone says “sleeping around is disgusting” that’s not truth, that’s projection. That’s their own shame, their own fear, their own discomfort with pleasure spilling out onto someone else. And this is exactly why so many people’s assholes never get f*cked. Literally and
Can dental visits be just as pleasurable as 🍑?!! Here’s the thing. I’m sitting in the chair, mouth open, lights above me, tools everywhere. And instead of bracing, I drop into my senses. What do I hear. The hum of the drill, the song playing overhead. What do I feel. The pressure in my jaw, the
September 24, 2025 at 2:34 AM
Can dental visits be just as pleasurable as 🍑?!! Here’s the thing. I’m sitting in the chair, mouth open, lights above me, tools everywhere. And instead of bracing, I drop into my senses. What do I hear. The hum of the drill, the song playing overhead. What do I feel. The pressure in my jaw, the