Of course, this mindset furthers ableism by overlooking the prevalence of disability and obscuring the positive impact of universal accessibility measures.

Because of ableism, lots of ppl don't perceive themselves as disabled because they've always had their access needs met. For example, most folks with glasses don't identify as disabled. They might even feel it would be inappropriate to claim the label.

I've been saying for awhile, these two are like Pierce and Chang from Community. Especially, the episode where they decide to be BFF's and then promptly breakup.