Wendy✨
@thearest.bsky.social
Crim defense atty; here for #goodtrouble; BLM; ❤️🏳️🌈; GenX with readers; shamelessly nerdy; TN-NOLA-NYC-TN; INFP-T (rare) 😉; “cottage gardener”; books; junk shopping; PBS; outdoor birds; cooking; magical thinking, doing, being—and MANIFESTATION; 🙅♀️ dm’s; @ 👍
It feels so cozy and safe!
November 17, 2025 at 3:27 PM
It feels so cozy and safe!
Thank you!!🙏. I love these furry kids!!
November 16, 2025 at 10:17 PM
Thank you!!🙏. I love these furry kids!!
I like that they love the car seats! 💺 I should’ve taken my old girl for a drive bc she didn’t want to leave the seat! But I didn’t think! 🤦♀️
November 16, 2025 at 9:41 PM
I like that they love the car seats! 💺 I should’ve taken my old girl for a drive bc she didn’t want to leave the seat! But I didn’t think! 🤦♀️
I joke that she brags at dog-boarding: “I have 15 beds! You other dogs don’t even KNOW!”
November 16, 2025 at 9:10 PM
I joke that she brags at dog-boarding: “I have 15 beds! You other dogs don’t even KNOW!”
We joke that she has 14-15 beds in this house. Now a new one in the car!
November 16, 2025 at 9:09 PM
We joke that she has 14-15 beds in this house. Now a new one in the car!
Me too!! I was just thinking: 🤔 I need to get a second one for my old gal! She’s 13 and tried it this morning—then didn’t want to get out of it!! It’s a new bed!
November 16, 2025 at 9:07 PM
Me too!! I was just thinking: 🤔 I need to get a second one for my old gal! She’s 13 and tried it this morning—then didn’t want to get out of it!! It’s a new bed!
VERY good to know!! I’m scared to touch it or repot it.
Honestly, I’d like to ask for a monstera for Xmas gift—but after dealing with this baby—I’m afraid!! Thank you for all your tips and counsel!
Honestly, I’d like to ask for a monstera for Xmas gift—but after dealing with this baby—I’m afraid!! Thank you for all your tips and counsel!
November 15, 2025 at 2:04 AM
VERY good to know!! I’m scared to touch it or repot it.
Honestly, I’d like to ask for a monstera for Xmas gift—but after dealing with this baby—I’m afraid!! Thank you for all your tips and counsel!
Honestly, I’d like to ask for a monstera for Xmas gift—but after dealing with this baby—I’m afraid!! Thank you for all your tips and counsel!
Thank you for some back-story! I love this!
November 15, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Thank you for some back-story! I love this!
Oooh!! This is so good to know! I never considered watering the poles! Brilliant!
November 15, 2025 at 1:33 AM
Oooh!! This is so good to know! I never considered watering the poles! Brilliant!
Ah! How do you water? It seems to make mine mad! 😠
November 15, 2025 at 1:27 AM
Ah! How do you water? It seems to make mine mad! 😠
Yep!! I totally see that!!!!
November 15, 2025 at 1:10 AM
Yep!! I totally see that!!!!
It DOES look like a male face with a beard…looking down, pensively.
November 15, 2025 at 12:48 AM
It DOES look like a male face with a beard…looking down, pensively.
This plant hurts my feelings so much and often. I brought it home, bought it some spaghnum moss grow sticks, have tried to ignore it (not overwater). I’ve moved it to a reasonable space next to my fiddle leaf fig.. hoping it would learn that I’m not here to kill it. I’m so envious of yours!!
November 15, 2025 at 12:44 AM
This plant hurts my feelings so much and often. I brought it home, bought it some spaghnum moss grow sticks, have tried to ignore it (not overwater). I’ve moved it to a reasonable space next to my fiddle leaf fig.. hoping it would learn that I’m not here to kill it. I’m so envious of yours!!
I love Dorothy Parker so much! Thank you for sharing! And perfect image
November 15, 2025 at 12:40 AM
I love Dorothy Parker so much! Thank you for sharing! And perfect image
Perfect! We had a big, clogged iris patch and dug up and separated, replanted back in August. But for some reason, I couldn’t throw away the rhyzomes. Even if someone tells me they’re junk. I just can’t discard. Then, green began growing out of them! The unplanted iris bulbs are simply my bad. 🤦♀️
November 15, 2025 at 12:39 AM
Perfect! We had a big, clogged iris patch and dug up and separated, replanted back in August. But for some reason, I couldn’t throw away the rhyzomes. Even if someone tells me they’re junk. I just can’t discard. Then, green began growing out of them! The unplanted iris bulbs are simply my bad. 🤦♀️
I felt like I did the right thing, simply putting bulbs in a paper bag. It’s worked for others! But these dahlias look so shriveled! If I can rehydrate? Is that a thing?
November 14, 2025 at 11:33 PM
I felt like I did the right thing, simply putting bulbs in a paper bag. It’s worked for others! But these dahlias look so shriveled! If I can rehydrate? Is that a thing?
Still not certain what to do with iris bulbs and rhyzomes.
November 14, 2025 at 11:06 PM
Still not certain what to do with iris bulbs and rhyzomes.
I lifted the bulbs bc 1. I’d never had dahlias before and didn’t know how big the plants get. 2. I’d like to plant next growing season, more deliberately. I simply planted these Willy-nilly and they went wild! (In a good productive way!)
November 14, 2025 at 11:06 PM
I lifted the bulbs bc 1. I’d never had dahlias before and didn’t know how big the plants get. 2. I’d like to plant next growing season, more deliberately. I simply planted these Willy-nilly and they went wild! (In a good productive way!)
Do you think the shriveled ones will ever come back?
November 14, 2025 at 8:01 PM
Do you think the shriveled ones will ever come back?