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Kimímila🦋
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Lakota, INFJ, AuDHD, CPTSD ♒🖖
Mitákuye Oyás’iŋ 💞 Thečhíȟila

I'm a lover, not a fighter❤️‍
A dreamer and a believer;
Sensitive old soul who is
still joyfully young at heart🌺
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A lot has happened in my life this year, however I'd like to introduce you to the *me* before everything changed:

I make music! It's always been a passion of mine and... well, I'll let my music do the talking for me:

(I'm not big at shamelessly plugging myself.😅)

on.soundcloud.com/timelessjour...
Timeless Journey
Timeless Journey (Kelly Lavaux) is a self taught independent artist. If you like what you hear, please show your support - like, comment, post reviews and spread the word. #TimelessJourney #TimelessJo
soundcloud.com
A lot has happened in my life this year, however I'd like to introduce you to the *me* before everything changed:

I make music! It's always been a passion of mine and... well, I'll let my music do the talking for me:

(I'm not big at shamelessly plugging myself.😅)

on.soundcloud.com/timelessjour...
Timeless Journey
Timeless Journey (Kelly Lavaux) is a self taught independent artist. If you like what you hear, please show your support - like, comment, post reviews and spread the word. #TimelessJourney #TimelessJo
soundcloud.com
November 14, 2025 at 9:39 PM
Hellooo 👋
October 17, 2025 at 5:09 PM
For anyone who might be needing a good laugh😂
October 16, 2025 at 7:32 PM
Don't mind me, just playing around with tiktok filters and such😂 And look! I'm a sirena!🧜🏼‍♀️
October 16, 2025 at 3:16 PM
Exhausted today, in every sense. Couldn't sleep all night, as per usual these days. I may skip the gym tonight and try to catch up on sleep, or I may go to the Oktoberfest disco and dance until midnight. Who knows anymore. 🙃
October 16, 2025 at 1:33 PM
🙏❤️‍🩹✨
October 16, 2025 at 10:20 AM
The longer I'm left alone, the more I'm starting to remember the old me; the trusting girl who was happily building her future before getting sidetracked by a smooth-talking accent thirteen years ago. She deserved so much better than a spouse/housemate who's been all talk and promises but no action.
October 16, 2025 at 4:36 AM
October 16, 2025 at 12:51 AM
😂 Yep! 👍

Grass isn’t always greener on the other side.
October 16, 2025 at 12:08 AM
October 15, 2025 at 10:20 PM
I've always wanted to see Paris, but all I've ever seen is the train station. My husband promised over five years ago we would go, but alas; he's rarely taken me anywhere since we married. I sometimes think I've been too low maintenance and patient for my own good. Oh well. Lesson learned.
October 15, 2025 at 10:02 PM
I miss the days when my muscles didn't ache so much after the gym. 🥴
October 15, 2025 at 9:17 PM
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." 💙
When you're autistic or neurodivergent,
friendships can feel like walking on eggshells.
But true friends don’t flinch at your honesty,
your silence, or your struggles. Those who
mind don’t matter. Those who matter don’t
mind. Keep the ones who let you be you.
October 15, 2025 at 2:47 AM
I may regret posting this, but...😅 I saw a man at the gym that made me feel butterflies (for the first time in a long time). I swear he looked like Mr Darcy (super tall, handsome features, swoon worthy)
a man in a black coat stands in a field
ALT: a man in a black coat stands in a field
media.tenor.com
October 14, 2025 at 10:54 PM
Confession:
I don't like my nose. Never have. But, I'll never get a rhinoplasty. Why? Because it's my ancestors genetics and I'm humbled to exist because they survived.
October 14, 2025 at 10:29 PM
Arm day at the gym...💪😁

Except now my phone feels like it's weighted as I try to type this. 😅
October 14, 2025 at 8:44 PM
It's beginning to feel a lot like Autumn 🍂🍁
October 14, 2025 at 6:31 PM
2025 has been an absolute nightmare in my marriage. I have no idea what's happening since my husband decided to tell his friends we were separated but forgot to inform me, yet he doesn't want a divorce. I wish his midlife crisis wasn't so emotionally cruel; six months of distance. I'm so depressed.
Married ppl just don’t act married no more. They are more single than I am. Help me understand 😂😂😂
October 14, 2025 at 1:04 AM
The gym tonight is too busy; too many people, too much noise... I feel nauseous, like I'm suffocating and like I'm about to pass out. 😖 I hate being overstimulated like this.
October 13, 2025 at 7:39 PM
Every single thing that a man does is 100% intentional.
October 13, 2025 at 3:38 AM
I'm 42, AuDHD and currently 💍 separated. Originally from central Texas, moved to England in 2013, then relocated to Barcelona Spain in 2017. I'm a musician/producer with two albums and a single released under the name Timeless Journey. I'm an avid collector of rocks, books and most things nerdy.
October 13, 2025 at 3:09 AM
"When you say 'I need space,' I hear 'I'm done with you.'"

"Sometimes I shut down because I'm overwhelmed- not because I don't care."

"I overthink because my nervous system is wired to expect loss-not love."

www.instagram.com/reel/DK6CByh...
October 13, 2025 at 1:46 AM
Yep. That's always been a big issue of pride for me, to be able to show the world how proud I am to be with my partner. It's even hotter when I see that they publicly feel the same way about being with me.
October 13, 2025 at 1:25 AM
"Low quality men always have close female friends."

"Men don't have close female friends that they're not attracted to."

"Always always there is a little attraction, and the only reason that nothing has happened is because the woman has set the boundary."

www.instagram.com/reel/DOqpGxB...
October 13, 2025 at 1:17 AM
Reposted by Kimímila🦋
Stop calling autistic meltdowns tantrums because they are not, If an autistic person melts down,
it’s not “bad behavior.”
It’s overload.
Too much noise, light, pressure, expectation.
Imagine a fire alarm going off in your head and no one else hears it.
That’s what we’re fighting 👌🏽
October 11, 2025 at 5:50 PM