Tara
tarajen.bsky.social
Tara
@tarajen.bsky.social
Trauma & Sexual Health Therapist |
Aspiring Clinical Psychologist
🌈 Gamer
Hobbyist Actor
Forever grateful to the psychiatrist who explicitly and frequently underlined in my notes that I don’t have a personality disorder.

But still.. being able to articulate self control and discernment is important to avoid a new professional overriding this.
September 12, 2025 at 2:40 PM
I mean that was giving irony beforehand.. but nice to see it gets regularly refreshed 😑
August 6, 2025 at 2:46 PM
Unnecessarily vague really.
August 6, 2025 at 2:44 PM
It may be hitting against the no dual therapies stance but there may not be a blanket policy on this.

In my service, we work alongside substance misuse orgs not instead of them. There is not the provision to safely support the client- but there are specialists.
November 26, 2024 at 1:47 AM
A quiz told me I was Hades 🤷‍♀️ Ive been playing hades and watching lucifer… the signs were all there 🤣
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November 25, 2024 at 7:39 PM
Thanks :) Yeah, my interest is in the overuse of lucid dreaming. Particularly as there’s been a push to create apps that support the development and sustainment of lucid dreaming.

For now, there is only anecdotal data. I should think about writing it up 😅
November 24, 2024 at 7:44 AM
Anything on the problems of lucid dreaming?

I couldn’t research the subject at undergraduate level but would be good to see if theres been developments :)
November 24, 2024 at 7:09 AM
Would highly recommend that book. Very few texts manage to capture what it feels like to be in that situation. It is unsanitised and that is the important part for professionals to see.
November 24, 2024 at 7:06 AM
I’ve had 8 yrs of trauma therapy with a clinical psychologist plus other interventions. Been on an antidepressant about 15 years. This, with the new addition of ADHD med, is why i am finally able to expand my emotional expression without dissociation.

This is being holistic..not everything but meds
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November 24, 2024 at 6:52 AM
Therapy definitely has side effects just like medication. In many ways, therapy can be more destabilising, by necessity.

Why, in a world where there is potential to access both, is there the incessant drive for the One True Cure 🙄🙄🙄
November 24, 2024 at 6:36 AM
When its been particularly tough, I will watch videos of babies laughing or cats being cats. They get through all the barriers that might make socialising or talking about it difficult.

Then theres creative exploits, hugs, therapy. Whatever you need 🙂 (2/2)
November 24, 2024 at 6:20 AM
As someone working with recent history horrors, I would say that it is necessary to reconnect yourself to your community or your self. Vicarious trauma is a risk but it is mitigated by having support structures that keep you connected. (1/2)
November 24, 2024 at 6:20 AM
No problem :) I was just thinking of people who may fit your networking need for ideas. I’ll be interested to hear about any initiatives you guys come up with
November 22, 2024 at 9:53 AM