And 3. You’re their therapist: these ones might actually find your presence beneficial. They’re also bearable as human beings. Help em with their hangups, listen more than you talk, care a little without getting tangled up in their shit

2. The long con: You can fulfill their fantasy to some extent and give them some emotional support but you can’t stop them from being self destructive and dumb, get as much as you can while they’re around and cosign their bad choices because if you don’t they’ll find someone who will

And I really do mean happier, bringing your actual self to work will make the rejection that is an inevitable part of the job hurt way worse than realizing the real you isn’t commodifiable. #sexwork